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I need guidance from someone who knows what their doing AMA

the incel

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I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
 
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I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
why would u give a fuck if u get played just fuck and move on if you dont get played great now you have a partner quit being a pussy bitch and man up
 
why would u give a fuck if u get played just fuck and move on if you dont get played great now you have a partner quit being a pussy bitch and man up
Yeah this

Don’t get attached and you’ll be fine

“Oh she’s playing me” if you still hit, then you have nothing to worry about
 
I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
she likes u g
 
I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
ask her what she wants with you. if she avoids the answer or gets upset, she's using you. you deserve clarity. if she only looks for you at night and in secret, it's not real interest
 
I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
Is she like the sweet type or does she tease you it’s hard to tell if you don’t say what she’s like
 
ask her what she wants with you. if she avoids the answer or gets upset, she's using you. you deserve clarity. if she only looks for you at night and in secret, it's not real interest
Is she like the sweet type or does she tease you it’s hard to tell if you don’t say what she’s like
she teases me otp but in person she was sweet
 
she didn't reply. that’s your answer. tbh, cut contact. if she wanted something real she'd talk to you
maybe what i said came off as harsh but I really am just trying to not care
 

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I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
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Is this you but swap the faces of the guy on the left and the guy on the right
 
Sounds like you have feelings. Just be careful, don’t let her take advantage.
 
Sounds like you have feelings. Just be careful, don’t let her take advantage
yes I did have feelings she was the first girl I had a positive experience with in person. Unfortunately I came to the conclusion that i’m no where near the first option.
 
I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
This probably isn’t the best place to ask
 
it won't let me reply to your message directly, but I've seen it. tbh it's for the best for both of you, you'll understand eventually
 
it won't let me reply to your message directly, but I've seen it. tbh it's for the best for both of you, you'll understand eventually
no dw it’s clicked in my mind I just wished we could talk so i could better understand my mistakes and improve especially on reading people. I just want to be as aware as I can so if i ever get this opportunity again I won’t just throw it away.
 
no dw it’s clicked in my mind I just wished we could talk so i could better understand my mistakes and improve especially on reading people. I just want to be as aware as I can so if i ever get this opportunity again I won’t just throw it away.
well, that's a much healthier way to look at it. everyone makes mistakes when it's their first real experience with someone. don't beat yourself up over it. just take what you've learned and carry it into the next opportunity
 
okay but I get very little opportunity to begin with and idrc about “messing it up” because I never looked good enough to be loved only lusted over. Maybe I can change to meet this baseline atleast i hope
 
okay but I get very little opportunity to begin with and idrc about “messing it up” because I never looked good enough to be loved only lusted over. Maybe I can change to meet this baseline atleast i hope
i think you're being way too hard on yourself. if someone spent time with you, talked to you, and wanted to be around you, that's already more than just lust. maybe it didn't work out the way you hoped, but that doesn't mean you're unlovable. one experience isn't enough to define your worth
 
I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help
Always be ready to let go

Trust me dude
 

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