I need to give more compliments

[Tear]

I struggle engaging in small talk and being “nice”. I can be kind but I don’t really go out of my way to be nicer to someone.

I wouldn’t want to give fake compliments but I wish I was more perceptive of other people and finding things that I genuinely can compliment.

I like hearing about other peoples interests but I sometimes go off on tangents of my own. I need to listen more.

 

[junebug]

same

 

[highinhibblue]

If you're going out of your way to delude someone into their own perception of themself, then yes, it's a d-gen thing to do.

You can be kind without going out of your way for people.

 

[Tear]

If you're going out of your way to delude someone into their own perception of themself, then yes, it's a d-gen thing to do.

You can be kind without going out of your way for people.

Thats why I wouldn’t lie. I want to be perceptive enough to actually find something I can compliment with out being superficial

 

[highinhibblue]

Everything human is superficial to a dagree