I think treating all people the same way

[Deleted Member 76607]

Despite their mentality or how dumb or smart you think they are is the most mature thing possible.

 

[over0]

No

 

[Deleted Member 62079]

Till you’re met with people that exploit that part of you that tries to be fair with people

Some people don’t deserve that fairness. Trust me I’ve tried. My job just made things worse. I borderline just hate people now

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

No

Elab

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Till you’re met with people that exploit that part of you that tries to be fair with people

Some people don’t deserve that fairness. Trust me I’ve tried

Yah I just distance myself tbh

 

[over0]

Elab

I'm inherently gonna dumb myself down in everyway around people who are dumber than me

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

I'm inherently gonna dumb myself down in everyway around people who are dumber than me

Just keep your way of thinking the same way it is , I don’t know how I can explain this further tbh

 

[over0]

Just keep your way of thinking the same way it is , I don’t how I explain this further tbh

Is it not the best cause of action to fit in? it's like talking to a child the same way you would a teen or adult just stupid and non sensical

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Is it not the best cause of action to fit in? it's like talking to a child the same way you would a teen or adult just stupid and non sensical

I do that to kids to give them a sense of worth since everyone treats them like kids and not bother with them. I used to want that as a kid

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Meh

 

[homeless on the spectrum]

Legit but nobody does this

 

[Ben07]

Despite their mentality or how dumb or smart you think they are is the most mature thing possible.

I agree

 

[Schizotypalcel]

I label people, no one deserves my maturity.

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I have a very controversial opinion on the subject, superficially made explicit by the way I treated the “pompompurino”

I don't want to sound mean

 

[casadei]

Eh

Some people are just not worth wasting your time on. Maturity comes from being able to detect the bait and removing yourself from the conversation before it's too late

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Eh

Some people are just not worth wasting your time on. Maturity comes from being able to detect the bait and removing yourself from the conversation before it's too late

Yah I just distance myself tbh

 

[Schizotypalcel]

I label people, no one deserves my maturity.

@Knight you stonecold react this but just said you distance yourself?
Same thing just presented bluntly. You are labeling someone subconsciously if you are distancing

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

Despite their mentality or how dumb or smart you think they are is the most mature thing possible.

this is like impossible to do in practice lol

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

@Knight you stonecold react this but just said you distance yourself?
Same thing just presented bluntly. You are labeling someone subconsciously if you are distancing

This happens after I try with them, if I’m being hurt by their existence I just distance myself, exceptions don’t dismiss the rule

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I have a very controversial opinion on the subject, superficially made explicit by the way I treated the “pompompurino”

I don't want to sound mean

... but I want to sound arrogant:

I have a much better than average understanding of other people's emotions

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

this is like impossible to do in practice lol

the most mature thing possible.

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

@Knight its not mature in the slightest

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

@Knight its not mature in the slightest

This is a trolling user , it dosent represent my actual personality irl, sometimes it does tho

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

This is a trolling user , it dosent represent my actual personality irl, sometimes it does tho

what in the esl babble. im not trolling in the slightest

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

what in the esl babble. im not trolling in the slightest

I think you’re a bit confused or maybe I’m, I’m talking about myself here, if you were talking about yourself then good for you ig

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

a small example:
- if you are mean I’ll tell you to fuck off
That’s respect
- if you are submissive and want to be submissive I will treat you as such
- if you want to be submissive and masochistic I will treat you horribly

This is respect imo

 

[casadei]

All human beings deserve basic dignity - in principle, at least

But this equality doesn't necessarily mean you have to give them equal weight, trust, or influence in discussion.

You owe everyone respect, just not equal respect

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

a small example:
- if you are mean I’ll tell you to fuck off
That’s respect
- if you are submissive and want to be submissive I will treat you as such
- if you want to be submissive and masochistic I will treat you horribly

This is respect imo

I’d rather treat everyone the same tbh. As this demands me to care about what they want which I don’t most of the time

 

[Archelaus]

Despite their mentality or how dumb or smart you think they are is the most mature thing possible.

Not really, that's like explaining to a philosopher your point of view same way you would a 5 year old. And generally interacting with people who are way smarter/ way dumber than you, you'll realize that it's too irritating. Arguing with someone stupid who ad hominems everything and strawmaning everything you say not even because they're doing it on purpose but because that's genuinely what they think you said is infuriating, and talking with someone too smart to relate to your view is infuriating

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Not really, that's like explaining to a philosopher your point of view same way you would a 5 year old. And generally interacting with people who are way smarter/ way dumber than you, you'll realize that it's too irritating. Arguing with someone stupid who ad hominems everything and strawmaning everything you say not even because they're doing it on purpose but because that's genuinely what they think you said is infuriating, and talking with someone too smart to relate to your view is infuriating

Good argument, I meant in basic interactions tho, sorry that I didn’t make that clear

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I’d rather treat everyone the same tbh. As this demands me to care about what they want which I don’t

Because I’m an empath

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

All human beings deserve basic dignity - in principle, at least

But this equality doesn't necessarily mean you have to give them equal weight, trust, or influence in discussion.

You owe everyone respect, just not equal respect

Yah fs I was talking about basic interactions here

 

[Archelaus]

Good argument, I meant in basic interactions tho, sorry that I didn’t make that clear

Yes everyone unless they're disrespectful and don't deserve it, should be treated with respect

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Yes everyone unless they're disrespectful and don't deserve it, should be treated with respect

You can respect those who disrespect you by disrespecting them, that’s a form of respect

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

You can respect those who disrespect you by disrespecting them, that’s a form of respect

ignoring does it for me although I suffer with this cause I can’t control my temper much sometimes

 

[MingyuePalaceRuinedMyLife]

I'm inherently gonna dumb myself down in everyway around people who are dumber than me

Are you gonna pet them on the head too