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Because it happened to me 3 weeks ago. Full grown man approached me at a bar. Dk why he thought I’d swing that way but whatever. He was friendly at first, then like 2 minutes in he dropped the bombshell that he was tryna crack. Wtf. Ew. I left the bar shortly after.
If he made it obvious from the start I’d be less pissed off since I wouldn’t have wasted my time. But I did. And n***a, you’re double my age moving like this? Embarrassing.
Moral of the story? Don’t pretend ig. I think it’s better being open and confident that you’re interested in someone than hide it because a dating life guru told you not to come off too needy or some shit. It comes off as weak, nervous, and that you’re unsure about yourself. Bigger turn off than showing you like someone too early on.
And I’m never styling my hair like that again, n*****s think I’m
I was pissed off for a week
If he made it obvious from the start I’d be less pissed off since I wouldn’t have wasted my time. But I did. And n***a, you’re double my age moving like this? Embarrassing.
Moral of the story? Don’t pretend ig. I think it’s better being open and confident that you’re interested in someone than hide it because a dating life guru told you not to come off too needy or some shit. It comes off as weak, nervous, and that you’re unsure about yourself. Bigger turn off than showing you like someone too early on.
And I’m never styling my hair like that again, n*****s think I’m