thats an odd thing to say
esp to a teen girl on a forum jfllll
anyways, that aside
y?
there is no step by step correct way to do a relationship where the puzzle pieces fit nicely and the couple consists of sexually "perfect" people one who is an assertive male and the other a submissive woman who just has to bend over and take it
this is very gross, love is not power, control, sex
it is about affection and respect, seeing someone as a human being and not a doll that just contorts and submits to sex
its not where somebody should just have to take it
nobody is inferior intrinsically we all have value and potential, we're all human beings
sure we have sexual desires
but we can go deeper than that, love. you even said that hookup culture is messed up, yet this statement is also about just sex and power
not everybody will just bend over and feel pleasure, we should be equal. i dont care if she is on top of me or i am on top of her in the situation, we are equals and we can show each other respect, love ascends beyond roles and positions society tells people to take and how people are told to treat others as beneath us based on certain characteristics like gender
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