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Serious I want more friends who are girls

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I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
 
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I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
Opposite for me
i have more girl friends i never had actual close guy friends irl tbh
 
I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
volleyball open gym
has many kind women
they are all usually asian tho
so if ur racist it wont work
 
Opposite for me
i have more girl friends i never had actual close guy friends irl tbh
I make a lot of guy friends because it's quick and easy, but girl friends require a lot of effort for me and I wish I would've put more in while I still had the chance in highschool.
 
volleyball open gym
has many kind women
they are all usually asian tho
so if ur racist it wont work
I suppose I could join a casual sport in college..
 
I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
same i have so much trouble forming genuine connections with other girls even though thats literally all i want in life and idk how to fix it
 
I make a lot of guy friends because it's quick and easy, but girl friends require a lot of effort for me and I wish I would've put more in while I still had the chance in highschool.
i dont have their humour irl ig im more shy etc
 
same i have so much trouble forming genuine connections with other girls even though thats literally all i want in life and idk how to fix it
I understand, it's so hard and if I do end up making friends with a girl I always feel like a gross creature that's not on the same "level of girl" as the other girl if that makes sense
 
I understand, it's so hard and if I do end up making friends with a girl I always feel like a gross creature that's not on the same "level of girl" as the other girl if that makes sense
exactly like it always feels like ur an outsider
 
I think it originated from my childhood when I'd opt to play on my neighbor's sons' Xbox with them instead of going on walks or watching a show with their daughter, the daughter also bullied me a lot so I kinda just felt more accepted with her brothers too I guess.
 
I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
I mean being into online games n all that ur not gonna find many women there u need to broaden ur horizons
 
I mean being into online games n all that ur not gonna find many women there u need to broaden ur horizons
I understand that but I have a few other loser smart gamer girl friends, I don't want to have to ruin who I am or what I like just to make more female friends. Not saying the world should change for me, but you get what I'm saying right?
 
I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
i just lost my only friend so i get u
 
I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
Having friends is overrated :hahaa:
 
I have friends who are guys, and they are funny and nice to be around, but I feel like they can never fill the void that I have with a lack of girl friends. all of my girl friends have either moved away, are online, or talk bad about me :-( forum girls here are nice to me but I need a good irl girl friend :-(( I've been so lonely in a way I can't really perceive.

should be a goal for college I think.
All girls talk bad about each other, foids HATE other foids
 
Statistically I doubt it, I have never seen a girl friend group bigger then 3 who don’t shit talk eachother ESPECIALLY in high-school, and that rule of 3 is iffy at best
ah yeah I've never had a friend group of 3+. there it is.

even so, I've never been one to talk bad about others if I can help it.
 
not true tbh, i have never talked shit about certain people because they were so close to me

ah yeah I've never had a friend group of 3+. there it is.

even so, I've never been one to talk bad about others if I can help it.
I have extreme doubt that you don’t talk shit if you were put in the environment too
 
I have extreme doubt that you don’t talk shit if you were put in the environment too
maybe its cuz ur not a girl but not all girls r evil believe it or not
 
I have extreme doubt that you don’t talk shit if you were put in the environment too
I mean why would I have a reason to if they're my friends and they're nice to me? sorry I just don't understand
 
maybe its cuz ur not a girl but not all girls r evil believe it or not
Never met one who isn’t a lesbian, even my sister does some fucked shit from time to time that I gota set straight
 
I mean why would I have a reason to if they're my friends and they're nice to me? sorry I just don't understand
If someone told your friend was hoeing out and sucking some dudes dog in the locker room, I doubt you would defend her and her choices. A friend isn’t about being nice when it’s easy it’s about being there when it’s hard and I have never see. A girl friend group be there when it’s hard for a girl
 
Never met one who isn’t a lesbian, even my sister does some fucked shit from time to time that I gota set straight
lol maybe ur sister is js crazy idk
 
If someone told your friend was hoeing out and sucking some dudes dog in the locker room, I doubt you would defend her and her choices. A friend isn’t about being nice when it’s easy it’s about being there when it’s hard and I have never see. A girl friend group be there when it’s hard for a girl
being a good friend isnt defending everything, its defending in public and owning up and having accountability and confronting in private. u dont have to make every situation and conversation public., therefore ur not talking shit about ur friend
 
being a good friend isnt defending everything, its defending in public and owning up and having accountability and confronting in private. u dont have to make every situation and conversation public., therefore ur not talking shit about ur friend
Look just be aware when you do it and you’ll realize I’m right
 
If someone told your friend was hoeing out and sucking some dudes dog in the locker room, I doubt you would defend her and her choices. A friend isn’t about being nice when it’s easy it’s about being there when it’s hard and I have never see. A girl friend group be there when it’s hard for a girl
I absolutely wouldn't defend that behavior and I think any girl I'd befriend would behave better than that but talking about her behind her back isn't gonna help obviously. I'd work that out with her directly not just shit talk. again this logic just makes no sense to me
 
I absolutely wouldn't defend that behavior and I think any girl I'd befriend would behave better than that but talking about her behind her back isn't gonna help obviously. I'd work that out with her directly not just shit talk. again this logic just makes no sense to me
You wouldn’t and I know it
 
i think u just want girls to be evil for u to feel better about being a guy
I haven’t been proven wrong in ever girl group I’ve talked to I can say some shit about there friend and they will join me
 
You wouldn’t and I know it
does generalizing an entire gender make you feel better about yourself? believe it or not women can be good people. do you realize how lonely I am? do you really think I'd throw it all away like that?
 
I haven’t been proven wrong in ever girl group I’ve talked to I can say some shit about there friend and they will join me
hii i think ur talking to a genre of women called pick mes who talk shit about other girls to make themselves look better for male validation.
 
Statistically I doubt it, I have never seen a girl friend group bigger then 3 who don’t shit talk eachother ESPECIALLY in high-school, and that rule of 3 is iffy at best
n***a uve never been in a female friend group 😭
only the popular ones are usually very mean
 
I can guarantee there’s some who have a crush on you lol
I mean some of them have throughout the years but I just reject them and they usually leave on their own. unless a select few are playing the VERY long game I hope they only see me as a friend!
 
I mean some of them have throughout the years but I just reject them and they usually leave on their own. unless a select few are playing the VERY long game I hope they only see me as a friend!
Can I ask why you rejected them? Not good-looking enough? Ik you said that you have affection problems. Are you volcel? Or Chad only? Or a mix?
 
Can I ask why you rejected them? Not good-looking enough? Ik you said that you have affection problems. Are you volcel? Or Chad only? Or a mix?
if u see ppl as a friend only for long enough its hard to develop romantic attraction on the spot
maybe
 

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