Rage i want to rope so bad

[GingerLTN]

this girl ive been crushing on for a while has just hit me up with her issues she's having with her boyfriend, telling me how she cant do the online, how she needs something physical, and she says "can i tell you something, i like someone else" and us being really close, and often being confused for a couple (mixed with a lot of cope) i had the feeling she was going to say me, but she says the name of this other guy. ive met him once or twice, and hes 5'11, lean and a lmtn, while i am a 5'5 sub-5 on a good day, and this crushed me. i asked her what she was attracted to or what she found attractive in him, and she legit just describes me. and i know its not my "personality". cause i am described as, and view myself as a funny, down to earth guy who is easy to talk to.

why me

 

[Luffy]

Sorry bhai

 

[Methodical]

Canon event for men. The healthiest thing to do is move on.

 

[GingerLTN]

Sorry bhai

if i cant find something to make me tall in like 6 months imma js rope

 

[GingerLTN]

Canon event for men. The healthiest thing to do is move on.

Canon event for men. The healthiest thing to do is move on.

she is my only chance at hs love tho

i am completely undesireable. just look at me

 

[Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX]

this girl ive been crushing on for a while has just hit me up with her issues she's having with her boyfriend, telling me how she cant do the online, how she needs something physical, and she says "can i tell you something, i like someone else" and us being really close, and often being confused for a couple (mixed with a lot of cope) i had the feeling she was going to say me, but she says the name of this other guy. ive met him once or twice, and hes 5'11, lean and a lmtn, while i am a 5'5 sub-5 on a good day, and this crushed me. i asked her what she was attracted to or what she found attractive in him, and she legit just describes me. and i know its not my "personality". cause i am described as, and view myself as a funny, down to earth guy who is easy to talk to.

why me

thats just awful, really.

 

[Methodical]

she is my only chance at hs love tho

i am completely undesireable. just look at me

If she's your only chance and she's made it clear she's not going to pick you, why even torture yourself? You're going to regret pouring everything into this 1 chick and emotionally stabbing yourself by dealing with this

 

[GingerLTN]

If she's your only chance and she's made it clear she's not going to pick you, why even torture yourself? You're going to regret pouring everything into this 1 chick and emotionally stabbing yourself by dealing with this

it just feels like there are no other options, like shes the only girl that gets me

 

[rand anon]

Canon event for men. The healthiest thing to do is move on.

Wait is it actually? I didnt know that many men actually had close friendships with women. Like, i’ve only ever had close friendships with men, until like only recently in the past few years when i befriended my oneitis

 

[GingerLTN]

Wait is it actually? I didnt know that many men actually had close friendships with women. Like, i’ve only ever had close friendships with men, until like only recently in the past few years when i befriended my oneitis

we do alot of the time, but the basic respect we get from it, leads to attraction, which ruins the friendship

 

[rand anon]

we do alot of the time, but the basic respect we get from it, leads to attraction, which ruins the friendship

Makes sense, ig that’s y I’ve instinctively avoided them in the past

 

[Methodical]

Wait is it actually? I didnt know that many men actually had close friendships with women. Like, i’ve only ever had close friendships with men, until like only recently in the past few years when i befriended my oneitis

I've only ever really known men who go through this. It might depend on your culture, because the only time I've spoken to men who weren't like this were in more conservative cultures, but most people who go to a public school will experience this eventually - talking to a female friend despite your crush on her and her not picking you.

Maybe not "she's the only one who will understand me so I won't try" kind of crush, that's more common in spaces like these, but yeah it's brutal most men will go through it.

Surprised you didn't have many female friendships though. I actually stopped having many female friendships when I got older, but when I was younger I mainly hung out with women.

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Find someone who will pick you as their first choice. Not as their second or their backup. If she wasn't going to chose you then as sad as it is you weren't made for eachother. Your soulmate will want to be with you as badly as you will want to be with them. She's not your only chance at love. You will find someone. I know that sounds stupid coming from someone on a looksmaxxing forum, but i promise you will. Love is not out of reach for you. Even if you really are as unnatractive as you say you are, think about how even most of the people on "my 600lbs life" have partners. Looks are important but there's other aspects to life. I'm sorry that happened to you dude, that sounds really painful. But please don't end it because of this. Life will go on, and this will pass.

 

[rand anon]

I've only ever really known men who go through this. It might depend on your culture, because the only time I've spoken to men who weren't like this were in more conservative cultures, but most people who go to a public school will experience this eventually - talking to a female friend despite your crush on her and her not picking you.

I mean I’ve kinda experienced this with my high school oneitis. But idk, I don’t think I would’ve considered her like a friend friend, you know what I mean? Like she was always more of an acquaintance that I was on friendly terms and shared a few moments with

Maybe not "she's the only one who will understand me so I won't try" kind of crush, that's more common in spaces like these, but yeah it's brutal most men will go through it.

Yeah makes sense

Surprised you didn't have many female friendships though. I actually stopped having many female friendships when I got older, but when I was younger I mainly hung out with women.

I should’ve realized it’s just a me thing lol, I kinda realized I was incel very early on so I think i just avoided women to prevent, well, what we’re discussing, from ever happening lol

Although tbf I never rly did hve many male friends either too. I’ve only ever had a small, close knit group of guy friends

 

[appealgod123]

this girl ive been crushing on for a while has just hit me up with her issues she's having with her boyfriend, telling me how she cant do the online, how she needs something physical, and she says "can i tell you something, i like someone else" and us being really close, and often being confused for a couple (mixed with a lot of cope) i had the feeling she was going to say me, but she says the name of this other guy. ive met him once or twice, and hes 5'11, lean and a lmtn, while i am a 5'5 sub-5 on a good day, and this crushed me. i asked her what she was attracted to or what she found attractive in him, and she legit just describes me. and i know its not my "personality". cause i am described as, and view myself as a funny, down to earth guy who is easy to talk to.

why me

Happens to the best of us

Hgh man comn

 

[meh.guy]

same