Method I will leave you one more insight that can make your life as close to perfect as possible

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Isn‘t this song awesome? Each instrument has its own solo repeating the melody.

The perfect way of the covenant of marriage

This is crucial if you want to have a relationship that doesnt break.
If you desire failure stop reading. You have achieved failure. Job done.

What exactly is the one possible switch that you can flip to ruin a relationship? It is in fact judging the other person. How do you wreck that switch? There is only way. You accept that everything that happens in your relationship is for the greater good of the relationship. Good or bad. What allows you to do that? Only faith. Faith in the covenant of marriage. What is a covenant? It is a guaranteed promise by god/the universe. Here it is another way it produces perfection. Since it is a given that nobody does mistakes on purpose everyone errs in innocence. As the end result of marriage you inevitably feel the innocent mistakes your partner does as your innocent mistakes. That is the unification of two. If god conciousness is 0.0 and your conciousness is 0 you get a chance to have god conciousness so 0.0 by marriage. Whereas your relationship with others is in a more distant realm like 0.1, 0.2,1 etc. marriage is ideal if both live by this covenant. Try it out.
As Phil Knight would say just do it. Just say yes, i do and receive an echo.
As with other covenants you can fuck this up too if you love the world more than the word. So when you think you can create something more perfect than 0.0 you can divorce from the word. That can come in ways like beliefs ”I don’t believe in marriage.“, in sins which always multiply themselves through lies that follow but they are easily avoided. How are they avoided? Remind yourself of how truly rare perfect marriages are. You can only fumble such value if you are stuck in the illusion of lack. Which is a lack of faith.

Illusion of lack („i‘m unhappy, i want to experience something that isn‘t meant for me“)

-> Faith in your covenant („i‘m concious of how lucky i am and that makes me grateful for receiving this gift for eternity“)

and still Proverbs 3

Wisdom Bestows Well-Being​

and still

sky is not the limit

and still

it is the ground we walk on.

 

[Lebensmude]

glad you said "as close to perfect" but not "as possible" 'cuz you can before practically perfect before reaching heaven via a life of celibacy and walking the purgative ways.

 

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glad you said "as close to perfect" but not "as possible" 'cuz you can before practically perfect before reaching heaven via a life of celibacy and walking the purgative ways.

celibacy is a different path.
marriage isn’t heaven.
heaven is heaven.
for marriage still falls under the generative principle of the word and under the generative principle of earth in praise of the word.
that said for me celibacy outside of marriage is a blessing itself.
if i don’t ask out girls god will send me the one who is meant for me and serves the execution of his plan which requires patience and suffering. i don’t merely receive an ioi from a girl it’s an ioi from god and a sanctified call to duty