Serious I wish my bf was honest with me

[iletheile]

Nothing to add but like dude I can fucking tell You're struggling

 

[Angel]

maybe he doesn't feel comfortable yet, how long have u been together?

or often guys don't wanna be vulnerable

 

[Nihilus]

maybe he doesn't feel comfortable yet, how long have u been together?

or often guys don't wanna be vulnerable

good reply , sending love for all

 

[Natsuki Subaru]

I'll be ur bf bby

 

[thushebecame]

Mannnn forget about him

 

[LeoK]

If you already feel like he’s struggling it might be worth finding out why. That doesn’t excuse lying, but it could def explain some of his behavior

 

[iletheile]

maybe he doesn't feel comfortable yet, how long have u been together?

or often guys don't wanna be vulnerable

4 years we Are open with stuff but to be fair this thing is very very personal

 

[iletheile]

I'll be ur bf bby

🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩

 

[iletheile]

If you already feel like he’s struggling it might be worth finding out why. That doesn’t excuse lying, but it could def explain some of his behavior

The problem is I acc know what it is but anytime the topic is even slightly brought up he's always avoiding it like " it's ok" " it's alright" " dw dude" "it's ok dude" and always saying it's ok sometimes I feel like he thinks I'm genuinely a idiot and idk what's going on

 

[Angel]

4 years we Are open with stuff but to be fair this thing is very very personal

hmm, you could try to ease into the conversation

again if he's not a very vulnerable person overall it might just be tough

 

[iletheile]

Mannnn forget about him View attachment 376830

Im defending my man with my life son

 

[iletheile]

hmm, you could try to ease into the conversation

again if he's not a very vulnerable person overall it might just be tough

Yeah I guess, more so vulnerable or not it's completely shutting off the conversation avoiding it like nothing happened 🫩

 

[iletheile]

Yeah I guess, more so vulnerable or not it's completely shutting off the conversation avoiding it like nothing happened 🫩

Plus idk if I wanna talk about it this week since he's been like stressed and stuff with school, genuenly don't wanna add onto it

 

[Angel]

Yeah I guess, more so vulnerable or not it's completely shutting off the conversation avoiding it like nothing happened 🫩

damn, he's probably just uncomfortable about it in general. it's probably not you if he is usually open with you

just take you time with him we will most likely talk with you when he's ready

 

[Angel]

Plus idk if I wanna talk about it this week since he's been like stressed and stuff with school, genuenly don't wanna add onto it

yeha just give him a bit to think

 

[levithedudebro]

when its a good time ask him genuinely like are you okay? and if he says hes fine i guess leave it at that

 

[iletheile]

damn, he's probably just uncomfortable about it in general. it's probably not you if he is usually open with you

just take you time with him we will most likely talk with you when he's ready

Yeaahhh I guess but one thing even worse I even found his shedtwt Twitter account like and idk if I should bring it up cause all day I've been so worried about him cause ofc I don't want him doing that stuff man he looks completely fine

 

[iletheile]

yeha just give him a bit to think

Yeahh I'll wait till he finishes his exams

 

[iletheile]

when its a good time ask him genuinely like are you okay? and if he says hes fine i guess leave it at that

I've been asking if hes fine

 

[levithedudebro]

I've been asking if hes fine

i guess if he doesnt wanna talk he doesnt wanna talk

 

[Angel]

Yeaahhh I guess but one thing even worse I even found his shedtwt Twitter account like and idk if I should bring it up cause all day I've been so worried about him cause ofc I don't want him doing that stuff man he looks completely fine

if he's really stressed i'd say don't put extra pressure or emotion on him right now unless it's really bad

just remind him that you are always there for him no matter what

 

[Deleted Member 129933]

stupid n*****s in this thread went straight to jestering for an e girls attention

 

[LeoK]

The problem is I acc know what it is but anytime the topic is even slightly brought up he's always avoiding it like " it's ok" " it's alright" " dw dude" "it's ok dude" and always saying it's ok sometimes I feel like he thinks I'm genuinely a idiot and idk what's going on

He has to trust you enough to be honest about what’s actually going on that’s what makes a healthy relationship

 

[thushebecame]

Im defending my man with my life son

 

[foidslayer]

stupid n*****s in this thread went straight to jestering for an e girls attention

only low t n*****s do this btw

 

[thushebecame]

only high t n*****s do this btw

 

[iletheile]

if he's really stressed i'd say don't put extra pressure or emotion on him right now unless it's really bad

just remind him that you are always there for him no matter what

Yeah, I think I'll wait a bit the thing is JS it also pmo that people there encourage it and indulge in it 🫩

 

[iletheile]

i guess if he doesnt wanna talk he doesnt wanna talk

Yeah

 

[iletheile]

stupid n*****s in this thread went straight to jestering for an e girls attention

Yeah

 

[iletheile]

He has to trust you enough to be honest about what’s actually going on that’s what makes a healthy relationship

I can't even say much to him cause I used to struggle with the same shit but I used to be too ashamed so I understand why he would not wanna talk about it

 

[Angel]

Yeah, I think I'll wait a bit the thing is JS it also pmo that people there encourage it and indulge in it 🫩

that's the disgusting community it is

 

[iletheile]

that's the disgusting community it is

Yeah like bro I see people saying shit to my bf like goal weight and shit like that 🫩🫩 like ACC be quiet

 

[iletheile]

Man I keep worrying so much about him all day I've just been crying I feel so stupid for ts cause he's the one struggling

 

[icnone]

4 years

kys

 

[LeoK]

I can't even say much to him cause I used to struggle with the same shit but I used to be too ashamed so I understand why he would not wanna talk about it

I hope it gets better

 

[iletheile]

kys

??

 

[iletheile]

I hope it gets better

Yeah I hope so too thanks man

 

[icnone]

??

I hate ppl in relationships

 

[iletheile]

I hate ppl in relationships

Son

 

[iletheile]

I think I might also JS be like his state affects me maybe too much cause since I've been worrying about him all day I JS cant eat or drink 🫩🫩

 

[iletheile]

And tbf no clue how he's gonna react when I confront him sobs

 

[Caterpillar]

Communication issue