I wish people that mattered to me looked out for me the same way I've looked out for people that have said I mattered to them.

[Blackpillirony]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

 

[chudlite67]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

sometimes i like to vent under random threads and make everybody uncomfortable

 

[derpy]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

just vent bro, people who r ur true friends will stay and those who will leave u aren't worth ur time or the title of 'friend'

 

[Blackpillirony]

just vent bro, people who r ur true friends will stay and those who will leave u aren't worth ur time or the title of 'friend'

It's not a question about "true friends" or anything it's just that I haven't felt close enough to anyone irl to trust them enough with this, yet somehow some people feel comfortable with telling me how damaged they feel to me.

 

[Starlet]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

I understand where you’re coming from, i constantly feel and worry that I’m bothering everyone

 

[derpy]

It's not a question about "true friends" or anything it's just that I haven't felt close enough to anyone irl to trust them enough with this, yet somehow some people feel comfortable with telling me how damaged they feel to me.

You probably just got too used to being the person who listens instead of the person being listened to. Trust usually builds slowly anyway, not from dumping everything at once. If someone consistently cares, remembers things about you and checks in on you, gradually opening up becomes a lot easier and less overwhelming.

 

[arisu]

sometimes i like to vent under random threads and make everybody uncomfortable

same jfl
or i just make a 100 vent threads so ppl can “aww” react and call me a larp foid

 

[chudlite67]

same jfl
or i just make a 100 vent threads so ppl can “aww” react and call me a larp foid

yeah i posted a couple of those but the post thread clarity is too much for me

 

[Blackpillirony]

same jfl
or i just make a 100 vent threads so ppl can “aww” react and call me a larp foid

Venting to people publicly is just an humiliation ritual

 

[chudlite67]

Venting to people publicly is just an humiliation ritual

well look whos talking

 

[derpy]

Venting to people publicly is just an humiliation ritual

u could maybe do it anonymously on some forums

 

[Blackpillirony]

well look whos talking

When have I ever shamed someone for opening up ?

u could maybe do it anonymously on some forums

I think human touch and some type of proximity and personal feedback is needed

 

[derpy]

u could maybe do it anonymously on some forums

i mean i saw a pretty pretty bad post the other day

 

[chudlite67]

When have I ever shamed someone for opening up ?

sorry i realised when u put that reaction that i misread the tone of your reply

 

[arisu]

Venting to people publicly is just an humiliation ritual

either this or i choke with my words

 

[Starlet]

same jfl
or i just make a 100 vent threads so ppl can “aww” react and call me a larp foid

hey I try to answer

 

[_x11]

Venting to people publicly is just an humiliation ritual

Wow man that's my entire existence

 

[derpy]

Wow man that's my entire existence

i can tell

 

[Starlet]

Venting to people publicly is just an humiliation ritual

I’ve vented to people from com but never on com

 

[Blackpillirony]

I’ve vented to people from com but never on com

I'm slow what's the difference ?

 

[Starlet]

I'm slow what's the difference ?

a specific person you know on discord vs making a thread

 

[nacerskates]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

i stopped getting attached to people awhile ago and i’ve never been more free and happy

 

[Arya]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

same tbh, i never speak about my real issues like i really havent all my life i always just speak about things that dont bother me so it doesnt look weird
but i wont wanna bother anyone and they cant reply properly anyways

 

[TFC]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

Lots of yapping for a t****y

 

[settings]

Lots of yapping for a t****y

Yeah no one cares about this shit thread

 

[Randomized]

Usually if you talk to someone regularly enough then venting isn't usually an issue. It's only really an issue if you're only going to them to vent. People want to be friends, not used, and sometimes constantly venting to them without any other substance makes them feel like you're using them for emotional labor, which is a type of burden.

If you don't feel safe then then you either force yourself to act like you trust the other person regardless of how you feel, so venting even if it feels wrong to, with the hopes you eventually feel different, or you find someone you can trust.

Unfortunately the feeling will never go away otherwise. I don't know if I'd recommend anyone here anyways, it's probably something you should seek elsewhere in general.

 

[Deleted Member 104328]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

too many words
frontal lobe not completely developed yet

 

[tami_26]

It's a pattern for me, both irl and online. People who've known me well feel safe venting to me about their personal problems and how they've been feeling and I try my best to not just give them advice but to make them feel understood and heard. But when I feel like it's getting too much I don't feel safe to talk about it to anyone, I don't really have close friends, I've always been distant with my family and the girls I've talked with that aren't online never really cared about exposing themselves emotionally.

And I don't want to be a burden to people and to just be that one dude that comes to people to vent again and again, but sometimes I just wish there was one person I could just pour my heart to and make me feel understood like I've done with so many of my irl friends and people online.

And no need to reply to this thread that you want to be that one person for me, I've grown pretty paranoid to nearly all users on this forum.

this is why I talk to myself

 

[Blackpillirony]

Lots of yapping for a t****y

More dimorphic than you btw Mr.Peanut head

too many words
frontal lobe not completely developed yet

Useless reply stfu

 

[Notlockedin]

i mean i saw a pretty pretty bad post the other day

Is this about me

 

[choripapa]

This touched my heart, If you need someone to vent, do not count with me brah

 

[derpy]

Wow man that's my entire existence

Is this about me

No no no, I saw something where this women cheated on her husband when he was depressed and so he killed himself with a wire and then she felt sad so she hooked up with the same guy again and then when the husbands father cam to know about the news she told the father that her husband hanged himself bc of him and so the father then killed himself aswell… Reddit 9 y ago anonymous

 

[Notlockedin]

No no no, I saw something where this women cheated on her husband when he was depressed and so he killed himself with a wire and then she felt sad so she hooked up with the same guy again and then when the husbands father cam to know about the news she told the father that her husband hanged himself bc of him and so the father then killed himself aswell… Reddit 9 y ago anonymous

I’m gonna rope after reading this just to keep up the hype

 

[derpy]

I’m gonna rope after reading this just to keep up the hype

That’s crazzzyyy, ill do it after after in order to keep ts up

 

[choripapa]

No no no, I saw something where this women cheated on her husband when he was depressed and so he killed himself with a wire and then she felt sad so she hooked up with the same guy again and then when the husbands father cam to know about the news she told the father that her husband hanged himself bc of him and so the father then killed himself aswell… Reddit 9 y ago anonymous

The n****r from reddit that wrote this was jacking off when doing so btw don't take it seriously

 

[Deleted Member 104328]

More dimorphic than you btw Mr.Peanut head

Useless reply stfu

yes sir sorry