all these "game tactics" and "manipulation" and "psychology plays" only apply to girls who would settle with you only if you're convincing enough , but if a girl is genuinely attracted to you and treats you like her first option , you could act like the most retarded austist on this earth and she'd accept it , that's why once you've experienced real desire it's so hard to try to garner a girls attention because you know if she REALLY liked you it would flow easily