if the guy you're dating doesn't care how you dress and who you interact with

[Hector of Troy]

he's not secure in himself
he just doesn't care for you
and will eventually leave (trump and dump method)

 

[hyperion]

A woman should have self respect and not need to dress like a slut.

 

[Hector of Troy]

A woman should have self respect and not need to dress like a slut.

but you hate foids man
why does it matter

 

[alacrity]

but you hate foids man
why does it matter

He doesn't hate them, he is just gay! Brutal jbg pill

 

[hyperion]

but you hate foids man
why does it matter

I still date them.

 

[Angel]

he's not secure in himself
he just doesn't care for you
and will eventually leave (trump and dump method)

maybe, or he doesn't wanna seem controlling

 

[hyperion]

He doesn't hate them, he is just gay! Brutal jbg pill

I actively have multiple girlfriends.

 

[the lavo]

A woman should have self respect and not need to dress like a slut.

hyperion do you believe if its not tight its not right?

 

[hyperion]

maybe, or he doesn't wanna seem controlling

He can't be bothered arguing with someone that can't be sympathetic to his position to begin with.

 

[junebug]

he's not secure in himself
he just doesn't care for you
and will eventually leave (trump and dump method)

It's true but he shouldn't say it

 

[Angel]

He can't be bothered arguing with someone that can't be sympathetic to his position to begin with.

i don't get it

 

[Hector of Troy]

It's true but he shouldn't say it

how would you prefer he communicates this with you

 

[hyperion]

i don't get it

When you select someone to date, you should have ground rules in place. i.e. don't cheat, don't emotionally cheat.

The premise of a relationship is that you are both one identity together, you're seen as an extension of each-other - any any decision you make - your partner will be under the same judgement.

If for arguments sake, the male was dressing like a slut - with their button up shirt almost entirely undone, it reflects poorly on him and vicariously his girlfriend for not informing him on how it looks.

 

[junebug]

how would you prefer he communicates this with you

"He" was referring to you
Your take is right but I don't want to think about it

 

[Evilemofoid]

enlighten me

 

[Angel]

When you select someone to date, you should have ground rules in place. i.e. don't cheat, don't emotionally cheat.

The premise of a relationship is that you are both one identity together, you're seen as an extension of each-other - any any decision you make - your partner will be under the same judgement.

If for arguments sake, the male was dressing like a slut - with their button up shirt almost entirely undone, it reflects poorly on him and vicariously his girlfriend for not informing him on how it looks.

ohhhh yes i get what you mean

 

[Venus]

I think it’d depend
People have different standards for modesty
If you date a super religious muslim guy he wouldn’t even be okay with you showing your shoulders
But an atheist European guy wouldnt see anything wrong with shoulders in the slightest
Same logic can be applied to every other body part

 

[Hector of Troy]

enlighten me

i'm a guy, i know my kind

people in relationship in general feel some level of possession over their partner
if he doesn't care about what you and a random guy are talking about
or you're dressing a certain way
that feeling is completely absent
and you're only there for his sexual gratification

 

[Hector of Troy]

I think it’d depend
People have different standards for modesty
If you date a super religious muslim guy he wouldn’t even be okay with you showing your shoulders
But an atheist European guy wouldnt see anything wrong with shoulders in the slightest
Same logic can be applied to every other body part

that's true
and it's relative
but there are alot if outfits most guys would agree are not suitable

 

[Evilemofoid]

i'm a guy, i know my kind

people in relationship in general feel some level of possession over their partner
if he doesn't care about what you and a random guy are talking about
or you're dressing a certain way
that feeling is completely absent
and you're only there for his sexual gratification

oh

 

[Br4va]

Low k true

 

[Venus]

i'm a guy, i know my kind

people in relationship in general feel some level of possession over their partner
if he doesn't care about what you and a random guy are talking about
or you're dressing a certain way
that feeling is completely absent
and you're only there for his sexual gratification

I do agree
It’s in different forms for everyone but if there’s no feelings of possessiveness then that can’t make for a good relationship
When i was in a situationship with a girl i’d get jealous when she even posted herself in normal outfits cause i didnt want anyone to see besides me
But of course i knew that wasnt reasonable i never said anything

 

[Hector of Troy]

I do agree
It’s in different forms for everyone but if there’s no feelings of possessiveness then that can’t make for a good relationship
When i was in a situationship with a girl i’d get jealous when she even posted herself in normal outfits cause i didnt want anyone to see besides me
But of course i knew that wasnt reasonable i never said anything

things should not be taken to the extreme
but if i felt slightly not okay with something with a girl i like
i would communicate one way or another

 

[esoteric]

trvke

 

[xoxo]

I actively have multiple girlfriends.

Whore