If you’ve done nothing wrong

[Deleted Member 87568]

Why worry if people dislike you or not? You’ll more than likely just be in people’s grey zone at first.

 

[SILVER]

just tag me bro

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

just tag me bro

No ur blek

I’m kidding. It was more of a general message though

 

[Deleted Member 80538]

Why worry if people dislike you or not? You’ll more than likely just be in people’s grey zone at first.

Nobody’s thinking about you that much, so there’s nothing to worry about

 

[Deleted Member 80538]

No ur blek

blek on blek violence

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

Nobody’s thinking about you that much, so there’s nothing to worry about

This

I remember thinking people cared about my posts and shit but when I asked a close friend about something that was bothering me, he didn’t even remotely gaf not even notice the issue. It’s all in your head

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

i'm fed up of this bs of muh why do you care if others dislike you or not, or do what you want it doesn't matter what people think about it

humans are social creatures, we care about what society thinks of us and how they view, we wanted to feel validated, it DOES matter

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

i'm fed up of this bs of muh why do you care if others dislike you or not, or do what you want it doesn't matter what people think about it

humans are social creatures, we care about what society thinks of us and how they view, we wanted to feel validated, it DOES matter

@clingit trvth nuke?

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

i'm fed up of this bs of muh why do you care if others dislike you or not, or do what you want it doesn't matter what people think about it

humans are social creatures, we care about what society thinks of us and how they view, we wanted to feel validated, it DOES matter

Did you read the post? It’s clearly out of their control so why raise cortisol. And this post was about RAD making up fake scenarios in her head. What, you want her to stay hyper fixated on shit that’s not even true? Sad way of seeing life

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

It’s clearly out of their control

n****r

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

n****r

- n****r. Reply properly

 

[xy2m]

Why worry if people dislike you or not? You’ll more than likely just be in people’s grey zone at first.

I stopped caring long ago

I am not the weird one others are

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

I stopped caring long ago

I am not the weird one others are

Nice one but that’s not the point of this thread. I’m saying people won’t dislike you if you’ve done nothing wrong so don’t worry about it

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

I’m saying people won’t dislike you if you’ve done nothing wrong so don’t worry about it

well if this is your point, your still wrong

it's such a common and well known saying that people will find a reason to dislike you no matter what

and it's just a fact you could do everything right and keep your head down and not do anything bad or wrong and yet people will still find some reason to dislike you as a person regardless of is that reason is valid or not and that's just how life is

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

well if this is your point, your still wrong

it's such a common and well known saying that people will find a reason to dislike you no matter what

and it's just a fact you could do everything right and keep your head down and not do anything bad or wrong and yet people will still find some reason to dislike you as a person regardless of is that reason is valid or not and that's just how life is

And what then? Are you supposed to hyper fixate on the people that dislike you? What do you want her to do

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

Are you supposed to hyper fixate on the people that dislike you?

yes.

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

yes.

I see exactly why you ended up the way you did

 

[Kaligula567]

Why worry if people dislike you or not? You’ll more than likely just be in people’s grey zone at first.

nobody likes me

 

[fashist]

@clingit trvth nuke?

what do you gain from the validation

 

[Deleted Member 80486]

what do you gain from the validation

functionally there's no actual value to other's validation but as I said humans are social creatures so there is inherent sentimental value to what others think of us and the validation they give

validation it self is just inherently valuable to the human psyche

 

[fashist]

functionally there's no actual value to other's validation but as I said humans are social creatures so there is inherent sentimental value to what others think of us and the validation they give

validation it self is just inherently valuable to the human psyche

true
i just don't see any point in sacrificing something for short term gratification
i think everyone is better off being rational rather then living off others' validation
or if youre just doing something purely for status, why not do what you want and find people who are okay with that
there's no point living your life in fear of embarrassment or shame

 

[fashist]

i'm not saying you shouldn't be social, but it just feels empty to have to larp as something just to be accepted by superficial people
ykwim