If You’re Not Obsessed With Yourself, Who Will Be, Babe?
Baby, stop waiting for someone to discover you. Stop thinking that some genius is going to suddenly see your potential and put you on the map. That’s not how it works, sweetie. No one is going to show up and say, “Wow, you’re amazing! Here, take success, take everything you deserve!” The world doesn’t work like that. The world belongs to those who take, not those who wait. If you’re just standing on the sidelines, playing the “I’m not ready” game—babe, who is ever ready?
Let me tell you something—show me a girl who’s waiting for someone to give her a place, and I’ll show you a girl who’s getting left behind. How do you think this works, honey? Look around—so many people out there aren’t more talented than you, they aren’t smarter than you, yet they’re exactly where you want to be. And why? Because they are obsessed with themselves. They push themselves forward, they don’t wait for permission.
Want an example? Think about all those people constantly seeking approval, trying to please everyone. They’re stuck in this endless loop of, “Am I good enough? Do I deserve this?” And guess what they do? Nothing! They wait, they overthink, they fantasize about that “perfect moment” to arrive. But that moment never comes, babe!
The world isn’t waiting for you—it’s passing you by. You want an example of someone who made it? Kim f*cking Kardashian. Do you think she waited? Do you think she sat around until someone handed her a spot? No! She took what was hers! She didn’t care if people thought she was “too much,” she didn’t care if someone had an opinion about her—she put herself in the center!
Now, babe, think about yourself—if you’re not obsessed with yourself, why would anyone else be? If you’re not pushing yourself forward, how do you expect to get there? No one is coming, no one is knocking on your door with a sign that says, “Here’s success, take it.” You have to walk in and take it yourself!
And every minute you waste? Someone else is taking your spot. I’m not telling you to be ruthless, I’m not telling you to be mean, but while you’re hesitating, while you’re scared, there’s another girl out there claiming everything for herself.
So yeah, babe, be obsessed with yourself. Be so damn sure of yourself that the world feels it. Make sure every step you take is moving forward, not backward because of fear or self-doubt. Because if you don’t take it, someone else will.
So tell me, babe—if you’re not obsessed with yourself, how the hell do you expect anyone else to be?
Baby, stop waiting for someone to discover you. Stop thinking that some genius is going to suddenly see your potential and put you on the map. That’s not how it works, sweetie. No one is going to show up and say, “Wow, you’re amazing! Here, take success, take everything you deserve!” The world doesn’t work like that. The world belongs to those who take, not those who wait. If you’re just standing on the sidelines, playing the “I’m not ready” game—babe, who is ever ready?
Let me tell you something—show me a girl who’s waiting for someone to give her a place, and I’ll show you a girl who’s getting left behind. How do you think this works, honey? Look around—so many people out there aren’t more talented than you, they aren’t smarter than you, yet they’re exactly where you want to be. And why? Because they are obsessed with themselves. They push themselves forward, they don’t wait for permission.
Want an example? Think about all those people constantly seeking approval, trying to please everyone. They’re stuck in this endless loop of, “Am I good enough? Do I deserve this?” And guess what they do? Nothing! They wait, they overthink, they fantasize about that “perfect moment” to arrive. But that moment never comes, babe!
The world isn’t waiting for you—it’s passing you by. You want an example of someone who made it? Kim f*cking Kardashian. Do you think she waited? Do you think she sat around until someone handed her a spot? No! She took what was hers! She didn’t care if people thought she was “too much,” she didn’t care if someone had an opinion about her—she put herself in the center!
Now, babe, think about yourself—if you’re not obsessed with yourself, why would anyone else be? If you’re not pushing yourself forward, how do you expect to get there? No one is coming, no one is knocking on your door with a sign that says, “Here’s success, take it.” You have to walk in and take it yourself!
And every minute you waste? Someone else is taking your spot. I’m not telling you to be ruthless, I’m not telling you to be mean, but while you’re hesitating, while you’re scared, there’s another girl out there claiming everything for herself.
So yeah, babe, be obsessed with yourself. Be so damn sure of yourself that the world feels it. Make sure every step you take is moving forward, not backward because of fear or self-doubt. Because if you don’t take it, someone else will.
So tell me, babe—if you’re not obsessed with yourself, how the hell do you expect anyone else to be?
