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I'm 17 and she's 16, she has a job and I don't, she has a drivers license and I don't. I'm cooked.

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So I recently got back with my ex because she was interested in the newer looksmaxxed gym-maxxed me. She is very obviously traditionally feminine and has all the amazing qualities you'd want in a gf, except she's made it farther in life than me. Our last date, she drove me around and stepped in to pay for our movie tickets when I was gonna break a $100 dollar bill at the register. Obviously I'm cooked. There's a timer running until she sees me as emasculated because I'm not naturally ahead or stable enough to host her feminine energy. So the question is do I ditch her for 6 months, get my life in order, and come back when I'm ready? Or thug it out and try to get my life in order while I'm with her? This is my second chance with her and I'm not sure I'm guaranteed a 3rd if I leave. So idk. Input from other girls would be nice.
 
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Job + drivers license mean nothing, don’t let this intimidate you.
I'm not sure though. I've known her for over a year now in multiple stages of her life and she's always indicated a bias towards a "manly-man" who can provide, be masculine, tall, whatever. My first time around with her I was fat and looked like a pig, all I had was autistic rizz. Now I'm jacked and handsome and she lets me know all the time. Yet I feel her slipping again. maybe I'm just overthinking it.
 
I'm not sure though. I've known her for over a year now in multiple stages of her life and she's always indicated a bias towards a "manly-man" who can provide, be masculine, tall, whatever. My first time around with her I was fat and looked like a pig, all I had was autistic rizz. Now I'm jacked and handsome and she lets me know all the time. Yet I feel her slipping again. maybe I'm just overthinking it.
Then she is attracted to masculine traits, not a job and drivers license. I feel you may be overthinking it
 
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So I recently got back with my ex because she was interested in the newer looksmaxxed gym-maxxed me. She is very obviously traditionally feminine and has all the amazing qualities you'd want in a gf, except she's made it farther in life than me. Our last date, she drove me around and stepped in to pay for our movie tickets when I was gonna break a $100 dollar bill at the register. Obviously I'm cooked. There's a timer running until she sees me as emasculated because I'm not naturally ahead or stable enough to host her feminine energy. So the question is do I ditch her for 6 months, get my life in order, and come back when I'm ready? Or thug it out and try to get my life in order while I'm with her? This is my second chance with her and I'm not sure I'm guaranteed a 3rd if I leave. So idk. Input from other girls would be nice.
FYI she's deadass wife material girl of my dreams, essence of my type, and adorable so I don't wanna fumble or be replaceable.
 
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Then she is attracted to masculine traits, not a job and drivers license. I feel you may be overthinking it
Another concern I have is she sees me as a pretty boy. I mean last time I saw her she said that If I did my lashes then I'd be a femboy. If she likes masculine and I don't look super masculine with a shirt on then I'm cooked right?
 
Another concern I have is she sees me as a pretty boy. I mean last time I saw her she said that If I did my lashes then I'd be a femboy. If she likes masculine and I don't look super masculine with a shirt on then I'm cooked right?
Beauty is masculinity, you are everything besides cooked.
 
I recently got back with my ex because she was interested in the newer looksmaxxed gym-maxxed me
Oof it's not a good start

But remember that a lot of women outside are simping and paying, giving king treatment to felons with no money, no job and no pants.

Enjoy and don't think about it too much
 
This is why I am a volcel. I am too insecure about myself and the scariest thought in the world to me is not being enough of a masculine leader.
 

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