WAS GENUINELY TALKING ABOUT IT WITH MY FRIENDS/CO WORKERS WHO ARE GUYS TODAY but girls have started to care about height a lot less
I guess all of these things sound bad in theory but at some point you have to realize that some of it (not being able to get a girlfriend/talk to girls) is about personality.
If you take care of yourself, you’re passionate about something and you speak to girls around the same level as you visually/or like similar things to you (assuming you have a personality outside of “I hate women”) it’s very much possible. If you’re not even attempting to do this you’re still a volcel in my book.
My ex was like 5’8, maybe not as short as you but im 5’6 so it’s not a big difference. We met at a drama festival (theatre thing) and he has scoliosis. hes white so he’s not “deathnic” but he was pretty badly recessed now that I look at it and he had really bad cystic acne, along with shoulder length hair that he did not know how to take care off. Honestly off the bat I was not that physically attracted to him the first time we met, but the thing with women is that can grow over time. I asked for his insta because we were in the same group(not flirting that day) but when I followed him I found out we both loved the game hollow knight so we really bonded over that and started talking more. I do think having a gf is a automatic buff so once we started dating he definitely started dressing better and learning how to take care of his hair etc and he got on accutane (never asked him to his mom just asked him if he wanted to) we broke up because he was seriously avoidant and had a lying problem, and kept ghosting me for weeks on end for like no reason.
the point is if this autistic hunchbacked theatre kid who didn’t even treat his gf right could be loved for 2 years I really don’t think it’s ever over bro
Sorry if this looks like im dissing my ex a lot we broke up recently and im still angry maybe im projecting it but you can swap out the names or who it is and its still valid and very possible