Serious I'm genuinely so non-NT it's actually insane

[buggy47]

I'm going to a party tomorrow, this is the first ever thing that I'm doing with normies, and involuntarily tbh, my mom and brother wanted me to go, so tmrw I will be, just now I went to my brother's friend apartment where they were figuring out what to wear and shit, and holy shit I looked so out of place, they were all normies and incredibly NT like super f"king NT, while I was sitting quiet and I even got weird looks, I couldn't make eye contact with not one normie there and I wasn't even answering their questions most of the time, anyway FUARK I'm Neurodivergent as fuck, I plan to starve myself up until the party date and drink a shit ton of water to debloat just a bit before going, but yeah I don't think I'm capable of speaking to a group of people anymore

 

[Kulture]

I'm going to a party tomorrow, this is the first ever thing that I'm doing with normies, and involuntarily tbh, my mom and brother wanted me to go, so tmrw I will be, just now I went to my brother's friend apartment where they were figuring out what to wear and shit, and holy shit I looked so out of place, they were all normies and incredibly NT like super f"king NT, while I was sitting quiet and I even got weird looks, I couldn't make eye contact with not one normie there and I wasn't even answering their questions most of the time, anyway FUARK I'm Neurodivergent as fuck, I plan to starve myself up until the party date and drink a shit ton of water to debloat just a bit before going, but yeah I don't think I'm capable of speaking to a group of people anymore

Hey, you gotta start somewhere. I mean if you're very unsocial, you've gotta be in the presence of them to eventually pick up on the social cues! It's almost like exposure therapy, the best way to change is to be in awkward situations like that so you learn.

 

[buggy47]

Hey, you gotta start somewhere. I mean if you're very unsocial, you've gotta be in the presence of them to eventually pick up on the social cues! It's almost like exposure therapy, the best way to change is to be in awkward situations like that so you learn.

Why u so jolly bruh

 

[Kulture]

so you realize it's positive feedback, and don't view as negative criticism

 

[drumsticks]

I'm going to a party tomorrow, this is the first ever thing that I'm doing with normies, and involuntarily tbh, my mom and brother wanted me to go, so tmrw I will be, just now I went to my brother's friend apartment where they were figuring out what to wear and shit, and holy shit I looked so out of place, they were all normies and incredibly NT like super f"king NT, while I was sitting quiet and I even got weird looks, I couldn't make eye contact with not one normie there and I wasn't even answering their questions most of the time, anyway FUARK I'm Neurodivergent as fuck, I plan to starve myself up until the party date and drink a shit ton of water to debloat just a bit before going, but yeah I don't think I'm capable of speaking to a group of people anymore

ive heard nt means neodivergint or however that word is spelled but i never understood what non nt and super nt mean whats the diffrence

 

[Kulture]

ive heard nt means neodivergint or however that word is spelled but i never understood what non nt and super nt mean whats the diffrence

yeah I'm curious too

 

[buggy47]

ive heard nt means neodivergint or however that word is spelled but i never understood what non nt and super nt mean whats the diffrence

yeah I'm curious too

NT means neurotypical which is the average person who can speak to people, make friends be overall social and barely nervous
ND means neurodivergent aka incel tier autist who can't fit in and is too awkward in general, doesn't know how to talk to people and barely has any friends

 

[drumsticks]

NT means neurotypical which is the average person who can speak to people, make friends be overall social and barely nervous
ND means neurodivergent aka incel tier autist who can't fit in and is too awkward in general, doesn't know how to talk to people and barely has any friends

well that makes alot of sense thanks mate

 

[Tim]

I’ve had the same problem as you, like 6 months ago. I wouldn’t talk to anyone in fear of rejection. I am not good-looking at all (high ltn), so I never tried to engage in conversations. But once I stopped caring about how I look and what people think of me, this problem went away. I know it’s easy to say, “just stop caring,” but I know how hard it is. Once you start gradually working your way up, it becomes easier and easier. Start by giving out compliments to strangers. The worst they can do is ignore you.

Just keep thinking this: There is nothing to lose and everything to gain.

 

[buggy47]

I’ve had the same problem as you, like 6 months ago. I wouldn’t talk to anyone in fear of rejection. I am not good-looking at all (high ltn), so I never tried to engage in conversations. But once I stopped caring about how I look and what people think of me, this problem went away. I know it’s easy to say, “just stop caring,” but I know how hard it is. Once you start gradually working your way up, it becomes easier and easier. Start by giving out compliments to strangers. The worst they can do is ignore you.

Just keep thinking this: There is nothing to lose and everything to gain.

"6'3" just lol man

 

[Ben07]

I'm going to a party tomorrow, this is the first ever thing that I'm doing with normies, and involuntarily tbh, my mom and brother wanted me to go, so tmrw I will be, just now I went to my brother's friend apartment where they were figuring out what to wear and shit, and holy shit I looked so out of place, they were all normies and incredibly NT like super f"king NT, while I was sitting quiet and I even got weird looks, I couldn't make eye contact with not one normie there and I wasn't even answering their questions most of the time, anyway FUARK I'm Neurodivergent as fuck, I plan to starve myself up until the party date and drink a shit ton of water to debloat just a bit before going, but yeah I don't think I'm capable of speaking to a group of people anymore

Trust me, eat and dont drink on a empty belly otherwise you will see to regret it.

 

[Kulture]

what's ur fit for the party gonna be?

 

[Sanguine]

Bro just put yourself out there a bit. Try talking to people, men don't give a fuck if you're weird. Don't talk about some weird shit, just small talk. If you can barely talk to guys I would recommend very limited female interaction. Also don't get too wasted cause you will just get weird as fuck. Take the guys advice and eat something before you go.