Discussion I'm going to tell my ex how I feel about her

[kissmyaxe]

It was shitty with her, I barely paid attention to her and many times I made her feel insecure or that I only liked her body, I will ask for her forgiveness and explain to her that I have changed, I also almost cheated on her, I didn't do it but she already feels it as unfaithfulness, and I understand because I did something that bothered her a lot, so you could call it infidelity, I don't expect her to forgive me, I don't deserve it either. I hope I don't sound like an abnormal person and at least take the weight off my shoulders to turn the page.

 

[kissmyaxe]

So, okay, I'm in the mood if you're done with your ex, move to the next.

 

[sjnny404]

So, okay, I'm in the mood if you're done with your ex, move to the next.

The next person should be yourself kid. Get therapy

 

[kissmyaxe]

The next person should be yourself kid. Get therapy

what's up, why? haha

 

[sjnny404]

what's up, why? haha

I'm interpreting that your feelings shift quickly and you didn't know how to treat your ex well. I'm assuming (and i could be wrong) that you are an insecure person who doesn't know how to treat others right because you internally treat yourself like shit

 

[kissmyaxe]

I'm interpreting that your feelings shift quickly and you didn't know how to treat your ex well. I'm assuming (and i could be wrong) that you are an insecure person who doesn't know how to treat others right because you internally treat yourself like shit

I don't usually treat myself badly, in fact I don't think I'm ugly or very stupid, I consider myself quite normal in that sense.

 

[sjnny404]

I don't usually treat myself badly, in fact I don't think I'm ugly or very stupid, I consider myself quite normal in that sense.

What brought you into a state of wanting to ask for her forgiveness?

 

[kissmyaxe]

What brought you into a state of wanting to ask for her forgiveness?

I think I'm looking for real love now, which seems silly to me, since it's something I didn't believe in and at least she seems to have it for me, I want to love her even if the feeling in me isn't genuine.

 

[sjnny404]

I think I'm looking for real love now, which seems silly to me, since it's something I didn't believe in and at least she seems to have it for me, I want to love her even if the feeling in me isn't genuine.

Fair enough. What matters to her is how you treat her, not how you feel about her. Sounds like a nice idea.