Imm so unbelievably jealous of people in physical ltrs

[cripple]

I JISTYYY NEED IT BROTHER

 

[benny]

relationships are fucking hard work

enjoy your peace

 

[Lmtnboy1748]

I JISTYYY NEED IT BROTHER

Why is just bs cope love is man made tool by Jews to control people

 

[cripple]

relationships are fucking hard work

enjoy your peace

I know but at least you get touch why am i forced to a life of long distance

 

[ruby]

relationships are fucking hard work

i don’t think they’re supposed to be

 

[cripple]

i don’t think they’re supposed to be

They are if u rlly love them

 

[benny]

i don’t think they’re supposed to be

maybe

i just think ppl idealize being in an ltr too much

shit ain’t sunshine and rainbows, after the honeymoon phase ends there’s a lot of effort needed

 

[ruby]

They are if u rlly love them

how does that work

 

[Caterpillar]

me too

 

[cripple]

maybe

i just think ppl idealize being in an ltr too much

shit ain’t sunshine and rainbows, after the honeymoon phase ends there’s a lot of effort needed

Very true its so emotionally taxing i just want some fucking children ENOUGH WITH THIS BULLSHIT

 

[Orka]

They are if u rlly love them

Pretty sure it's the opposite, if your relationship isn't the same thing as having a best friend but with intimacy then it sounds miserable

 

[cripple]

how does that work

a long twrm relationship takes hardship and pain at the end of the day
everyone has their differences there has not been a single relationship afaik which has been completely stress free for longer than 3 months
u have to make compromises and take risks it can be a lot of work

 

[cripple]

Pretty sure it's the opposite, if your relationship isn't the same thing as having a best friend but with intimacy then it sounds miserable

its much more complex than that if u plan on being with them for longer than a year imo

 

[Recai]

same

 

[Orka]

u have to make compromises and take risks it can be a lot of work

Compromises need to be made in any relationship, platonic or not, I've needed to make some with close friends of mine in the past

What risks? any examples in mind

 

[Aryy]

exhausting from what ive seen

 

[emeraldpill]

I want connection

 

[cripple]

Compromises need to be made in any relationship, platonic or not, I've needed to make some with close friends of mine in the past

What risks? any examples in mind

reforming your flaws, the one real relationship ive had has taught me that in order for you to make any meaningful change to yourself you have to immerse yourself in the unfamiliar, however uncomfortable and irritating it may be
having the will to do this can be extremely difficult and for many it seems impossible