Deleted member 62166
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The funny part is people here, mostly men, act like just "looks" make a big difference.
In reality -- in most cases -- people are so saturated/used to seeing "good looks" that it doesn't matter.
It's literally that most sexual relationships formed are more so from social inter-dynamics than just face/body.
It's because in these days most people already are familiar with good looks, and relative to their own SMV...
Finding someone who solely is "on par" with their particular type/niche/"Chad" is extremely unlikely often.
IOW, to a regular person, looks alone will not make the cut. People are so oversaturated with these ideals...
The "hot" person is quite literally overlooked IRL because of how common it is, much like everything else.
TL;DR SATURATION makes everything worth less, so "hot' people IRL are not so special anymore.
Most fucks/hookups/situationships/sex come down more to PARTICULAR SOCIAL DYNAMICS.
NOT just muh face/body & that's it, NO. It's more along with your specific circle/social life.
You WILL come to understand/realize this is 100% correct one day. You will come to agree with this. You will realize that "niche" appeal will beat "standard hot" nowadays MUCH MORE SO.
Basically, the REAL truth is that "hot" is so expected, known & saturated.
At one point "hot" indeed hit differently -- but now with TikTok, Insta, etc...
You will see that WHAT YOU THINK -- that being "hot" stands out -- IS WRONG.
When something -- ANYTHING -- is too known/saturated/aware ... Its value DIMINISHES. ITS "APPEAL" DECREASES. ITS "OOMPH" IS RENDERED TO BASIC-NESS.
So when you wonder why you're not treated like a "God" IRL ... Why no one cares...
Why your "HTN" or "Chad/Stacy"-adjacent looks don't draw much attention...
It's because > 50% of people have seen others JUST LIKE YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
This is the BRUTAL TRUTH -- the fact that just looking "standard attractive" is meh.
Sexual/relationships/situationships are FAR more likely to come from...
Things like SOCIAL DYNAMICS/INTER-DYNAMICS/SOCIAL CIRCLE/ETC.
These sorta things; no longer the "fucked a hot guy at a bar" angle.
Or the "you will fuck just with face" randomly --- FAR less likely in 2025.
@dumbgirlthings @Bazeado @g4rl1c @The/Jeet @ela67 @Cobicado @Sigma Girl @neymar @lovingangel @DarkAscender @huntergirl @appealmaxed @cloUder
In reality -- in most cases -- people are so saturated/used to seeing "good looks" that it doesn't matter.
It's literally that most sexual relationships formed are more so from social inter-dynamics than just face/body.
It's because in these days most people already are familiar with good looks, and relative to their own SMV...
Finding someone who solely is "on par" with their particular type/niche/"Chad" is extremely unlikely often.
IOW, to a regular person, looks alone will not make the cut. People are so oversaturated with these ideals...
The "hot" person is quite literally overlooked IRL because of how common it is, much like everything else.
TL;DR SATURATION makes everything worth less, so "hot' people IRL are not so special anymore.
Most fucks/hookups/situationships/sex come down more to PARTICULAR SOCIAL DYNAMICS.
NOT just muh face/body & that's it, NO. It's more along with your specific circle/social life.
You WILL come to understand/realize this is 100% correct one day. You will come to agree with this. You will realize that "niche" appeal will beat "standard hot" nowadays MUCH MORE SO.
Basically, the REAL truth is that "hot" is so expected, known & saturated.
At one point "hot" indeed hit differently -- but now with TikTok, Insta, etc...
You will see that WHAT YOU THINK -- that being "hot" stands out -- IS WRONG.
When something -- ANYTHING -- is too known/saturated/aware ... Its value DIMINISHES. ITS "APPEAL" DECREASES. ITS "OOMPH" IS RENDERED TO BASIC-NESS.
So when you wonder why you're not treated like a "God" IRL ... Why no one cares...
Why your "HTN" or "Chad/Stacy"-adjacent looks don't draw much attention...
It's because > 50% of people have seen others JUST LIKE YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
This is the BRUTAL TRUTH -- the fact that just looking "standard attractive" is meh.
Sexual/relationships/situationships are FAR more likely to come from...
Things like SOCIAL DYNAMICS/INTER-DYNAMICS/SOCIAL CIRCLE/ETC.
These sorta things; no longer the "fucked a hot guy at a bar" angle.
Or the "you will fuck just with face" randomly --- FAR less likely in 2025.
@dumbgirlthings @Bazeado @g4rl1c @The/Jeet @ela67 @Cobicado @Sigma Girl @neymar @lovingangel @DarkAscender @huntergirl @appealmaxed @cloUder
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