I have been called ugly so many times, I know how it feels. Even if I saw your face my answers wouldn’t change. I didn’t see you complain about a response, so I apologize if it seems like I’m coming off as if I’m pitying you. I’m not, I don’t pity anyone. You yourself, are probably not completely ‘attractive’ or ‘unattractive.’ In someone’s else’s eyes you may be ‘beautiful,’ and in another’s you may be ‘unattractive.’
I’m not saying find your ‘true self,’ because I don’t think anyone has that. There are so many things in the world to find and figure that you can’t find it all out in one lifetime to help you find your true self. I’m saying find the small things you like, find anything that you value, people who like you, etc etc—and enjoy the time you have. That’s what I view as finding yourself.
I used unconventionally attractive because I do not believe anyone is unattractive. If you would’ve preferred I used that for a better understanding, my apologies.