Diagnosed sociopath but I still kinda fit in the triangle, here’s a look into the fantastic worldview so often talked about. If anyone else actually is ‘DT’, lmao I can’t believe I typed ts, feel free to discuss.
To start, I’m 6’1 and somewhere in HTN (I’ve been rated mmtn- high cl, but life comparable wise is prolly low cl ish) work a coffee job with some attractive ppl and have perfected silent Don Juan activities, it’s crazy. Idk how I got better at it either, I used to not be able to socialize (misdiagnosed my SP with autism it was so bad), and through practice I just got good. Name of the game is don’t do to much, literally. I introduce myself with autism to lower suspicion and push off anybody who knows what signs to look for, as they have conflating symptoms. Anyways, I’ve done my oxytocin rundown on 1/3 of the attractive ppl, and am moving onto 2/3. 3/3 leaves soon and was unlikely do to other issues but so far the strat is working twice in a row. I’ve somehow gained enough NT skills to be ‘popular’, as I was subtly informed by my boss that people follow my lead when I’m working. I had the same at a former job but thought it was circumstantial, but I’ve actually socialized enough to use my face and height to be NT boss. Halo affect (maybe) is crazy as well, I get away with so much it’s unbelievable, even around the most woke people. Here’s the actual rules though, or what has worked for me. You will obv have to tweak, as everyone perceives everyone differently subconsciously.
1. Don’t speak to much. Summarize long stories, it makes them funnier somehow, and don’t have long winded anything’s.
2. Don’t just be nice. Most low IQ DTs just be nice to people to try and fit in, but it’s obvious. You have to build a character, or yourself. I’m lucky enough to be more emotional SP with oxytocin sensitivity, but work on who YOU are.
3. Be a friend to all, except the ugly other sex. (Sub3, or agepill) Crazy, I know, but it works. This one was accidental, as I don’t really care to speak to men or women who I find unattractive as I’m entertained in the friendship area by myself. Be nice to them, don’t go crazy with bullying or something, but don’t be as friendly, and make it sly ish. Subconsciously nobody cares because NTs are secretly worse than you’ll ever be. Be friends to autists, they will ruin your image if not careful.
4. In groups, equality. If you are in a group setting with multiple people, speak to all of them equally. Speak with your voice, and be stern. False confidence works if you’re good enough, needs practice tho. Interject, nobody will let you talk. Let sentences finish or almost finish before jumping in. Questions are always safe, and jokes should never be dark humor around NT.
5. Don’t just be nice. Questions, sly remarks, sas, all NT stuff. Dont just be nice and expect everyone to fw you, it won’t work, they can see through you (not me though)
6. If somebody outs you, play into it sarcastically. Unless you totally ducked yourself by using low IQ methods, this should be rare and only slight. I often get the “ he is arrogant” remark, and have found 2 reactions work well: sarcastic play in, or nonchalant denial. Sarcastic play in would be some version of “I’m him” but in a stupid tone, along the lines of, obviously there are millions more. Nonchalant denial is as simple as “naw you trippin.” Just over and over again. No bs.
Hope you enjoyed, I’m trying to get better at writing this stuff because I want to help people who can’t socialize well, or want to get better at socializing and becoming NT puppet master. GLHF
To start, I’m 6’1 and somewhere in HTN (I’ve been rated mmtn- high cl, but life comparable wise is prolly low cl ish) work a coffee job with some attractive ppl and have perfected silent Don Juan activities, it’s crazy. Idk how I got better at it either, I used to not be able to socialize (misdiagnosed my SP with autism it was so bad), and through practice I just got good. Name of the game is don’t do to much, literally. I introduce myself with autism to lower suspicion and push off anybody who knows what signs to look for, as they have conflating symptoms. Anyways, I’ve done my oxytocin rundown on 1/3 of the attractive ppl, and am moving onto 2/3. 3/3 leaves soon and was unlikely do to other issues but so far the strat is working twice in a row. I’ve somehow gained enough NT skills to be ‘popular’, as I was subtly informed by my boss that people follow my lead when I’m working. I had the same at a former job but thought it was circumstantial, but I’ve actually socialized enough to use my face and height to be NT boss. Halo affect (maybe) is crazy as well, I get away with so much it’s unbelievable, even around the most woke people. Here’s the actual rules though, or what has worked for me. You will obv have to tweak, as everyone perceives everyone differently subconsciously.
1. Don’t speak to much. Summarize long stories, it makes them funnier somehow, and don’t have long winded anything’s.
2. Don’t just be nice. Most low IQ DTs just be nice to people to try and fit in, but it’s obvious. You have to build a character, or yourself. I’m lucky enough to be more emotional SP with oxytocin sensitivity, but work on who YOU are.
3. Be a friend to all, except the ugly other sex. (Sub3, or agepill) Crazy, I know, but it works. This one was accidental, as I don’t really care to speak to men or women who I find unattractive as I’m entertained in the friendship area by myself. Be nice to them, don’t go crazy with bullying or something, but don’t be as friendly, and make it sly ish. Subconsciously nobody cares because NTs are secretly worse than you’ll ever be. Be friends to autists, they will ruin your image if not careful.
4. In groups, equality. If you are in a group setting with multiple people, speak to all of them equally. Speak with your voice, and be stern. False confidence works if you’re good enough, needs practice tho. Interject, nobody will let you talk. Let sentences finish or almost finish before jumping in. Questions are always safe, and jokes should never be dark humor around NT.
5. Don’t just be nice. Questions, sly remarks, sas, all NT stuff. Dont just be nice and expect everyone to fw you, it won’t work, they can see through you (not me though)
6. If somebody outs you, play into it sarcastically. Unless you totally ducked yourself by using low IQ methods, this should be rare and only slight. I often get the “ he is arrogant” remark, and have found 2 reactions work well: sarcastic play in, or nonchalant denial. Sarcastic play in would be some version of “I’m him” but in a stupid tone, along the lines of, obviously there are millions more. Nonchalant denial is as simple as “naw you trippin.” Just over and over again. No bs.
Hope you enjoyed, I’m trying to get better at writing this stuff because I want to help people who can’t socialize well, or want to get better at socializing and becoming NT puppet master. GLHF
