irl standards are so chill

[cocteautwins]

if i posted the people (men and women) that are considered attractive on my corporate job here, they all would be dragged to shit


sometimes i truly wish i didn’t had this autistic knowledge about looks lmao

 

[cocteautwins]

its probably bc its people from their mid 20s to 40s too

 

[emeraldpill]

not reslly

Many people will agree that they are attractive irl for the sake of fitting in or being kind, ask if they date them and you’d get a different answer

 

[SASALELE]

if i posted the people (men and women) that are considered attractive on my corporate job here, they all would be dragged to shit


sometimes i truly wish i didn’t had this autistic knowledge about looks lmao

Same for me

 

[cocteautwins]

not reslly

Many people will agree that they are attractive irl for the sake of fitting in or being kind, ask if they date them and you’d get a different answer

you’re probably right, but im talking about people that are hooking up with each other, going out, being part of gossips about relationships etc

not just the normie self esteem

 

[SASALELE]

Also peoples attractiveness tend to raise when you get to know them. Even if someone is unattractive in ur work place, you are kind of forced to spend time with them and get to know them, when otherwise they wouldnt get a chance to express their personality

 

[cocteautwins]

Same for me

i believe in the bp totally and so on but not caring about this too much must be freeing

 

[cocteautwins]

Also peoples attractiveness tend to raise when you get to know them. Even if someone is unattractive in ur work place, you are kind of forced to spend time with them and get to know them, when otherwise they wouldnt get a chance to express their personality

yes proximity definitely plays a part this has happened to me too

the contrast with how extreme the discourse from some people is here makes me doubt some of the stuff said tbh

 

[retarded]

you’re probably right, but im talking about people that are hooking up with each other, going out, being part of gossips about relationships etc

not just the normie self esteem

people will hookup with anyone thats available, not a measure for attractiveness

 

[cocteautwins]

people will hookup with anyone thats available, not a measure for attractiveness

if relationships, flirting, hookups etc aren’t the measure for attractiveness what is? genuinely

 

[SASALELE]

people will hookup with anyone thats available

average person is not hyper sexual like you

 

[HeavyMetalGoth]

larpers gotta larp

 

[snoblomov]

people will hookup with anyone thats available, not a measure for attractiveness

this is mostly social medias fault for turning dating from a local exchange to a global marketplace with infinite options at your fingertips. why settle for a nice normal guy when NBA players are flying you out and the chad of your dreams could be one more swipe away.

 

[cocteautwins]

this is mostly social medias fault for turning dating from a local exchange to a global marketplace with infinite options at your fingertips. why settle for a nice normal guy when NBA players are flying you out and the chad of your dreams could be one more swipe away.

dating apps definitely create an illusion especially for women of how much dating opportunities are there for them, which i think it also impacts normal relationships that would be formed in common places like work and college etc

 

[faithful]

high mtns when they have a good personality and are not autistic r glazed irl

 

[cocteautwins]

high mtns when they have a good personality and are not autistic r glazed irl

literally, bc they’re attractive. even a lot of actors are rated hmtns

 

[cocteautwins]

larpers gotta larp

copers gotta cope