is it normal to

[wildfrost11]

be so lonely that u start creating fake scenarios in your head about how you are talking to your friends(ur only friends in irl) about regular things and telling them about your friends(which doesnt exist like unreal people just for the scenerio) and the conversations always going in the school cafeteria for some other people to hear and think you are like super cool and they should def befriend u or something? asking for a friend obvs

 

[Deleted Member 120131]

Yes, it’s normal, but a sign that change is needed in your life

 

[pauseboicarti]

be so lonely that u start creating fake scenarios in your head about how you are talking to your friends(ur only friends in irl) about regular things and telling them about your friends(which doesnt exist like unreal people just for the scenerio) and the conversations always going in the school cafeteria for some other people to hear and think you are like super cool and they should def befriend u or something? asking for a friend obvs

yea and its called maladaptive daydreaming pretty common on ND people

 

[neurotypicaI]

ur surface level to this

 

[wildfrost11]

yea and its called maladaptive daydreaming pretty common on ND people

i guess i have that then…

 

[wildfrost11]

ur surface level to this

idk its been going on for so long

 

[pauseboicarti]

i guess i have that then…

welcome to the team

 

[neurotypicaI]

idk its been going on for so long

lol hear this, i started daydreaming about my own anime i made up inside my head since the age of 7, ever since then, i kept doing it and never stopped, i do this for hours a day, when im at work bored i do it, same characters i made up back then and all. im literally 20

there’s levels to this neurodivergent shit homie

 

[wildfrost11]

welcome to the team

is there a way of like fixing ts because it’s genuinely affecting my life i feel like im going crazy i be genuinely so caught up in the scnerio i start talking like im telling someone something, so it doesnt really count as talking to myself..(hopefully this isnt cope) and i also dont answer to what im saying so im not completely gone yet

 

[LeoK]

It’s normal, maladaptive daydreaming

 

[wildfrost11]

lol hear this, i started daydreaming about my own anime i made up inside my head since the age of 7, ever since then, i kept doing it and never stopped, i do this for hours a day, when im at work bored i do it, same characters i made up back then and all. im literally 20

there’s levels to this neurodivergent shit homie

that’s a realky long time, dont u get bored and add new chatacters and stuff. larping as nt w the username jfl

 

[True Spaniard]

be so lonely that u start creating fake scenarios in your head about how you are talking to your friends(ur only friends in irl) about regular things and telling them about your friends(which doesnt exist like unreal people just for the scenerio) and the conversations always going in the school cafeteria for some other people to hear and think you are like super cool and they should def befriend u or something? asking for a friend obvs

Not really, i sometimes do the same but not so specific scenarios

 

[neurotypicaI]

that’s a realky long time, dont u get bored and add new chatacters and stuff. larping as nt w the username jfl

i add characters occasionally but the so called story only focuses on the same 3. i adapt their “graphics” or “designs” overtime

it’s actually really depressing typing this out i’m a grown ass man

 

[wildfrost11]

Not really, i sometimes do the same but not so specific scenarios

i mean im not really creative so that might be the reason why the scenarios rarely change but also i dont get sick of playing the same scene in my head over and over again, i feel like i need to make every dialogue and everything perfect to be able to unlock another scene in my head

 

[True Spaniard]

i mean im not really creative so that might be the reason why the scenarios rarely change but also i dont get sick of playing the same scene in my head over and over again, i feel like i need to make every dialogue and everything perfect to be able to unlock another scene in my head

Bro that also happens to me wth, its like i have to figure out the perfect outcome of the conversation before i can forget it

 

[wildfrost11]

i add characters occasionally but the so called story only focuses on the same 3. i adapt their “graphics” or “designs” overtime

it’s actually really depressing typing this out i’m a grown ass man

nah i feel you. i didnt reach the level where im chabging their graphics and shi and i just add new chatacters

 

[pauseboicarti]

is there a way of like fixing ts because it’s genuinely affecting my life i feel like im going crazy i be genuinely so caught up in the scnerio i start talking like im telling someone something, so it doesnt really count as talking to myself..(hopefully this isnt cope) and i also dont answer to what im saying so im not completely gone yet

u cant do much but being lonely def makes it worse, just be busy during the day and then daydream before u go to sleep, adhd meds prolly help tho

 

[wildfrost11]

Bro that also happens to me wth, its like i have to figure out the perfect outcome of the conversation before i can forget it

exactly that, this cycle fries my brain but it’s gives a false sense of fun in the moment

 

[wildfrost11]

u cant do much but being lonely def makes it worse, just be busy during the day and then daydream before u go to sleep, adhd meds prolly help tho

i sometimes purposefully create time for this, like i go to the bathroom and think abt ts and even go as far as to cry when something bad happens in the story. i dont really do it before i sleep tho because like i focus so much on it my brain cannot relax and go to sleep

 

[neurotypicaI]

nah i feel you. i didnt reach the level where im chabging their graphics and shi and i just add new chatacters

first person i meet with the same experience

 

[pauseboicarti]

i sometimes purposefully create time for this, like i go to the bathroom and think abt ts and even go as far as to cry when something bad happens in the story. i dont really do it before i sleep tho because like i focus so much on it my brain cannot relax and go to sleep

yea i can relate i used to do ts whenever i was alone

 

[wildfrost11]

first person i meet with the same experience

ouu shii am i ur first jfl

 

[wildfrost11]

yea i can relate i used to do ts whenever i was alone

how did u stop

 

[Pinksunglasses]

be so lonely that u start creating fake scenarios in your head about how you are talking to your friends(ur only friends in irl) about regular things and telling them about your friends(which doesnt exist like unreal people just for the scenerio) and the conversations always going in the school cafeteria for some other people to hear and think you are like super cool and they should def befriend u or something? asking for a friend obvs

Aw I daydream all day

 

[wildfrost11]

Aw I daydream all day

abt what

 

[pauseboicarti]

how did u stop

hang out with friends, get a job, keep busy, slay foids so u dont have time to do it anymore, I still do it for a hour at the gym while listening to music and before i go to sleep

 

[Pinksunglasses]

abt what

Me talking to people and also being a leader and saying like some motivational shi

 

[wildfrost11]

hang out with friends, get a job, keep busy, slay foids so u dont have time to do it anymore, I still do it for a hour at the gym while listening to music and before i go to sleep

that sounds like a healthy amount. i obvs dont do it for hours or while with people as i need focus to be able to see the scene going in my eyes like a movie? but i talk to myself inside my head like explaining someone the scene? but at the same time living it?

 

[wildfrost11]

Me talking to people and also being a leader and saying like some motivational shi

similar experience

 

[pauseboicarti]

that sounds like a healthy amount. i obvs dont do it for hours or while with people as i need focus to be able to see the scene going in my eyes like a movie? but i talk to myself inside my head like explaining someone the scene? but at the same time living it?

yea thats how it be i study like that like im explaining it to friends or an audience