Is it normal?

[buzz]

I've had two major crushes at different times, both lasting for a long period. One turned out to be a lesbian, so I got rejected, and the other passed away. Now The thing is i don't feel any attraction even when I see a very pretty/ hot girl—I just admire them, but I don't get that urge to go and do something about it.

I don't feel the same kind of obsession or put in the same effort as I did for my past crushes, even though I'm still sexually attracted to girls. But I feel aromantic

 

[buzz]

Bump

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

You’re exactly like me!!!!

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

I’m ugly af though..

 

[neymar]

I wish my crushes died if I didn’t get to date them

 

[buzz]

I wish my crushes died if I didn’t get to date them

I mean hypothetically it's better than getting rejected but irl it's pretty bad

 

[buzz]

I’m ugly af though..

I don't relate with this 1 fortunately

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

I don't relate with this 1 fortunately

Not being sarcastic, but good for you! I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. That said, I’m not entirely sure it’s normal to be as asexual/aromantic as we are.

 

[buzz]

Not being sarcastic, but good for you! I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. That said, I’m not entirely sure it’s normal to be as asexual/aromantic as we are.

Yeah you're right I'm 19 and I don’t think this should be happening to me at this age. The thing is, my crushes used to be a huge deal for me like some kind of prized possession lol. But now I don’t see girls that way anymore which kinda sucks. That excitement is just gone.

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

Yeah you're I'm 19 and I don’t think this should be happening to me at this age. The thing is, my crushes used to be a huge deal for me like some kind of prized possession lol. But now I don’t see girls that way anymore which kinda sucks. That excitement is just gone.

This is way too relatable. I can’t fall in love anymore….

 

[buzz]

This is way too relatable. I can’t fall in love anymore….

Lmao ,at what age did this start happening to you

 

[buzz]

Bump

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

Lmao ,at what age did this start happening to you

I was always like this. I had a oneitis in high school (I thought she liked me so I thought I had to like her back) and then I wouldn’t look at any other girls, it would be just her. Then after high school, I had another oneitis and same story. No eyes for anyone else. Got turned down both times. I was 14 when I developed my first oneitis and 20 when I developed my second oneitis. Now I’m turning 30 and I’ve stopped feeling things.

 

[buzz]

I was always like this. I had a oneitis in high school (I thought she liked me so I thought I had to like her back) and then I wouldn’t look at any other girls, it would be just her. Then after high school, I had another oneitis and same story. No eyes for anyone else. Got turned down both times. I was 14 when I developed my first oneitis and 20 when I developed my second oneitis. Now I’m turning 30 and I’ve stopped feeling things.

Man, I fear this might happen to me too. Sadly, I’ve been like this since the beginning—only liking one person at a time and not paying attention to anyone else. That’s why I don’t do casuals either.

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

Man, I fear this might happen to me too. Sadly, I’ve been like this since the beginning—only liking one person at a time and not paying attention to anyone else. That’s why I don’t do casuals either.

I’m exactly the same as you. I’m you but ten years older. I hope you get out of this because this isn’t good. I can tell you that much.

 

[buzz]

I even feel fomo, I missed in teen love, I'm 19

 

[buzz]

I’m exactly the same as you. I’m you but ten years older. I hope you get out of this because this isn’t good. I can tell you that much.

Yeah you're right, fuck man

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

Yeah you're right, fuck man

Wishing you all the best. Perhaps if you get out of that, maybe I can too. But I highly doubt it, though in your case I’m not as pessimistic since you’re much younger.

 

[buzz]

Wishing you all the best. Perhaps if you get out of that, maybe I can too. But I highly doubt it, though in your case I’m not as pessimistic since you’re much younger.

I hope you get out of this phase too, do you plan on doing marriage,like do you want it?

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

I hope you get out of this phase too, do you plan on doing marriage,like do you want it?

Thank you my friend. I don’t know… there are women who want to marry me but I don’t think I will be able to fall in love. I don’t think it’s a good idea.

 

[buzz]

Thank you my friend. I don’t know… there are women who want to marry me but I don’t think I will be able to fall in love. I don’t think it’s a good idea.

That means you're NOT ugly bruh, if women do want to marry you,but I'd say you should atleast try ldr first

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

That means you're NOT ugly bruh, if women do want to marry you,but I'd say you should atleast try ldr first

I am still ugly. They only like me because of my personality. In my culture, there’s no casual dating. It’s marriage or nothing. A big leap or standing still. No in-between.

 

[buzz]

I am still ugly. They only like me because of my personality. In my culture, there’s no casual dating. It’s marriage or nothing. A big leap or standing still. No in-between.

Wait a sec, are u gengar from org?

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

Wait a sec, are u gengar from org?

Yes, that would be me. How did you know?

 

[buzz]

Yes, that would be me. How did you know?

Damn we have talked org too lol

 

[buzz]

B u m p

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

Damn we have talked org too lol

Based and .orgpilled.

 

[TonyDr]

I've had two major crushes at different times, both lasting for a long period. One turned out to be a lesbian, so I got rejected, and the other passed away

@ratedLTN2 read that

 

[buzz]

@ratedLTN2 read that

Lol