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Gonna seem narcissistic af but if anyone would’ve done it before it would be someone on here.
There’s a girl I like and she very obviously likes me a lot but she’s got a problem-she’s kind of plain looking to put it nicely. She’s a gym rat, has a great sense of fashion style / music / humor / smart etc. so I think all other parts don’t have to be influenced, but I was wondering if there’s a way to improve her looks without her fully knowing my shallow intentions. I know she’s very insecure about her looks (she’s been public about it a few times and we have some shared friends).
Specifically, she has thin lips and a bit of a bloated complexion, along with thin hair and some complication with her bite / jaw. I think it’s all softmaxxable, but should I try to date her and see if I can influence her towards this kind of stuff on her own or be open about a way to solve her problem?
From all other angles she’s a great catch.. not sure how far I’d need to commit tho to be able to run that kind of a plan.
There’s a girl I like and she very obviously likes me a lot but she’s got a problem-she’s kind of plain looking to put it nicely. She’s a gym rat, has a great sense of fashion style / music / humor / smart etc. so I think all other parts don’t have to be influenced, but I was wondering if there’s a way to improve her looks without her fully knowing my shallow intentions. I know she’s very insecure about her looks (she’s been public about it a few times and we have some shared friends).
Specifically, she has thin lips and a bit of a bloated complexion, along with thin hair and some complication with her bite / jaw. I think it’s all softmaxxable, but should I try to date her and see if I can influence her towards this kind of stuff on her own or be open about a way to solve her problem?
From all other angles she’s a great catch.. not sure how far I’d need to commit tho to be able to run that kind of a plan.