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is it possible to improve a significant other without them knowing / fully understanding?

johnfkennedy

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Gonna seem narcissistic af but if anyone would’ve done it before it would be someone on here.

There’s a girl I like and she very obviously likes me a lot but she’s got a problem-she’s kind of plain looking to put it nicely. She’s a gym rat, has a great sense of fashion style / music / humor / smart etc. so I think all other parts don’t have to be influenced, but I was wondering if there’s a way to improve her looks without her fully knowing my shallow intentions. I know she’s very insecure about her looks (she’s been public about it a few times and we have some shared friends).

Specifically, she has thin lips and a bit of a bloated complexion, along with thin hair and some complication with her bite / jaw. I think it’s all softmaxxable, but should I try to date her and see if I can influence her towards this kind of stuff on her own or be open about a way to solve her problem?

From all other angles she’s a great catch.. not sure how far I’d need to commit tho to be able to run that kind of a plan.
 
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Gonna seem narcissistic af but if anyone would’ve done it before it would be someone on here.

There’s a girl I like and she very obviously likes me a lot but she’s got a problem-she’s kind of plain looking to put it nicely. She’s a gym rat, has a great sense of fashion style / music / humor / smart etc. so I think all other parts don’t have to be influenced, but I was wondering if there’s a way to improve her looks without her fully knowing my shallow intentions. I know she’s very insecure about her looks (she’s been public about it a few times and we have some shared friends).

Specifically, she has thin lips and a bit of a bloated complexion, along with thin hair and some complication with her bite / jaw. I think it’s all softmaxxable, but should I try to date her and see if I can influence her towards this kind of stuff on her own or be open about a way to solve her problem?

From all other angles she’s a great catch.. not sure how far I’d need to commit tho to be able to run that kind of a plan.
yes in a sense of just micro-dosing them by putting ideas of some softmaxxing methods into their head, like how the IDF puts the idea that I'm a weird incel g**k in the brains of girls at my school through phone brainwaves.
 
yes in a sense of just micro-dosing them by putting ideas of some softmaxxing methods into their head, like how the IDF puts the idea that I'm a weird incel g**k in the brains of girls at my school through phone brainwaves.
ack the problem is you can’t really tell someone what to change without them thinking you’ve got a problem with that thing which worsens the insecurity
 
Gonna seem narcissistic af but if anyone would’ve done it before it would be someone on here.

There’s a girl I like and she very obviously likes me a lot but she’s got a problem-she’s kind of plain looking to put it nicely. She’s a gym rat, has a great sense of fashion style / music / humor / smart etc. so I think all other parts don’t have to be influenced, but I was wondering if there’s a way to improve her looks without her fully knowing my shallow intentions. I know she’s very insecure about her looks (she’s been public about it a few times and we have some shared friends).

Specifically, she has thin lips and a bit of a bloated complexion, along with thin hair and some complication with her bite / jaw. I think it’s all softmaxxable, but should I try to date her and see if I can influence her towards this kind of stuff on her own or be open about a way to solve her problem?

From all other angles she’s a great catch.. not sure how far I’d need to commit tho to be able to run that kind of a plan.
Be honest with her and don’t try to indirectly manipulate her
 
ack the problem is you can’t really tell someone what to change without them thinking you’ve got a problem with that thing which worsens the insecurity
yeah just go on her phone and make BP edits and grey market content her targeted FYP idfk
 
take it or leave it nga lmao. physical attraction is important, so if u arent attracted to them physically just go next mate

if u are already physically attracted to them but want them to be better just accept them for how they are unironically. or just go next nga lmao

dont be like the foids who got us in here in the first place








(i do get it though, i just recently for the first time understood what foids mean by the "ick" XD)
 
lmao all you would do by looksmaxxing a foid is making her sexier for her inevitable hypergamous monkey branch move to chad from u
When you invest in a torta, but they lowkey ascend to hmtb and leave you for a hhtn while youre hardstuck hmtn because youre too scared for surgery
 
ok u retards nuff said thx
 
Put liquid ghkcu on ur lips and when u kiss she can absorb some even tho the absorption rates will be shitty she may ascend
 
ack the problem is you can’t really tell someone what to change without them thinking you’ve got a problem with that thing which worsens the insecurity
Buy her some of those lipsticks that inflate the lips and tell her youd like her try to give you a blowjob with that.

Its always better to come off as a pervert than controlling or shallow.
 
When you invest in a torta, but they lowkey ascend to hmtb and leave you for a hhtn while youre hardstuck hmtn because youre too scared for surgery
I invested in a whore and she left me for low tier normie with more money :(
 
ima be real i dont think its wrong at all to try to do this
girls do it all the time just try to get her subconsciously self aware and then mention like oh i saw this thing that can improve this if she mentions being insecure to you
ive done this to like every man ive ever had a somewhat romantic relationship with
you can fix her
 

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