Serious is love genuine?

[Nenestar]

where bro?

Back of the classroom

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

this is my current bf hes really sweet to me and stuff the only downside is that thing he said to me but i think i mightve taken it out of context im not sure...

Lol

 

[blanquita444]

Back of the classroom

not a lot of guys like that at my school mostly hood rats and cholos
and i tried that a few times but i think i came on too strong

 

[Nenestar]

not a lot of guys like that at my school mostly hood rats and cholos
and i tried that a few times but i think i came on too strong

Walk in to some affluent area, there're plenty of guys like this.

 

[Deleted Member 73026]

Dating 40 guys at 16 yeah you deserve anything bad that will happen to you this is not the right age for serious relationships if you would want that

she doesn't deserve anything bad to happen to her but I'm curious how she can't see the connection between her jumping from one guy to the next guy and her inability to form real connection or avoid being mistreated

 

[blanquita444]

Walk in to some affluent area, there're plenty of guys like this.

i cant just walk into some affluent area. pretty much all of where i live is barrio/working class subs, maybe up north but id need someone to drive me

 

[blanquita444]

she doesn't deserve anything bad to happen to her but I'm curious how she can't see the connection between her jumping from one guy to the next guy and her inability to form real connection or avoid being mistreated

i try to form real connection but i am bad at knowing when im being treated badly

 

[Nenestar]

i cant just walk into some affluent area. pretty much all of where i live is barrio/working class subs, maybe up north but id need someone to drive me

Well sucks then, I live and went schools in these places. No hood n***a to be seen.

 

[over0]

i try to form real connection but i am bad at knowing when im being treated badly

Reflect on ur past relationships and other people's experiences. If there's someone you can talk to about it (not a friend but a family member for example) that might be helpful

 

[blanquita444]

Well sucks then, I live and went schools in these places. No hood n***a to be seen.

average day in the westside

 

[blanquita444]

Reflect on ur past relationships and other people's experiences. If there's someone you can talk to about it (not a friend but a family member for example) that might be helpful

i might just be alone for a bit even though i hate being alone i cant stand this anymore. its even more degrading then being alone

 

[Nenestar]

average day in the westside

That's brutal, none of that clownery from where I'm from, thankfully

 

[blanquita444]

That's brutal, none of that clownery from where I'm from, thankfully

where are you from?

 

[Nenestar]

where are you from?

Finland, I live in the most educated area, blessed.

 

[blanquita444]

Finland, I live in the most educated area, blessed.

lucky lol.
i dont hate hood people i would be lying if i said i wasnt trashy at all but it gets to a point with some of yall 🫩

 

[blanquita444]

Finland, I live in the most educated area, blessed.

on a positive note, my school lets me enroll at college at the same time as highschool, so ill have an associates when im 18

 

[Nenestar]

on a positive note, my school lets me enroll at college at the same time as highschool, so ill have an associates when im 18

That's pretty nice. We don't really have that system here. Just normal linear progression

 

[Deleted Member 73026]

i try to form real connection but i am bad at knowing when im being treated badly

just observe whether your life improves with them or not. negging is fine, but if they treat you bad just leave

 

[blanquita444]

just observe whether your life improves with them or not. negging is fine, but if they treat you bad just leave

what is negging?

 

[Deleted Member 73026]

what is negging?

it's similar to playful teasing

 

[blanquita444]

it's similar to playful teasing

thx for clarif

 

[swanneo]

my advice as a girl is that love isnt real

 

[over0]

my advice as a girl is that love isnt real

Aww come on swanneo you're a good person and you're beautiful im sure you'll find the right person eventually

 

[tulip]

Are you a bitch or a n***a?

If you act like a whore expect to be treated like a whore
Muh feelings, muh others

 

[swanneo]

Aww come on swanneo you're a good person and you're beautiful im sure you'll find the right person eventually

idrc idm being alone but thankU over0

 

[blanquita444]

Are you a bitch or a n***a?

i was wondering this too. i think its a dude cuz ppl were shipping him w a girl. also he said his pfp is some female model idk

 

[swanneo]

my actual advice is for the next guy before fully committing get to know him well and see if you're really into him or you are just w him to feel liked etc.

 

[blanquita444]

idrc idm being alone but thankU over0

did you go through a similar phase or have you always been ok with being alone?

 

[over0]

i was wondering this too. i think its a dude cuz ppl were shipping him w a girl. also he said his pfp is some female model idk

She's a very pretty black woman

 

[blanquita444]

my actual advice is for the next guy before fully committing get to know him well and see if you're really into him or you are just w him to feel liked etc.

im really into every guy i date im ngl unless they start insulting me.

 

[blanquita444]

She's a very pretty black woman

/j or srs?

 

[swanneo]

did you go through a similar phase or have you always been ok with being alone?

i like being alone because having to meet up w a guy often tires me out, but i have also longed for a LTR.

im really into every guy i date im ngl unless they start insulting me.

insulting u is moid manipulation tactics so that u feel devalued and they can walk over U. u have to buy a strong foundation of sense of self and confidence.

 

[blanquita444]

i like being alone because having to meet up w a guy often tires me out, but i have also longed for a LTR.
insulting u is moid manipulation tactics so that u feel devalued and they can walk over U. u have to buy a strong foundation of sense of self and confidence.

thanks for the advice <3

 

[over0]

/j or srs?

I'm very serious @Darkeningstar you are pretty black woman right?

 

[tulip]

i was wondering this too. i think its a dude cuz ppl were shipping him w a girl. also he said his pfp is some female model idk

n***a talks like a damn fucking neanderthal with aids tf is "muh" some of these incels over fucking do it with the slang like ew

 

[swanneo]

thanks for the advice <3

for ur current guy if he disrespects u often just leave!!

 

[blanquita444]

n***a talks like a damn fucking neanderthal with aids tf is "muh" some of these incels over fucking do it with the slang like ew

i was thinking that too but i didnt wanna be weird some of the slang is rlly dated. the only straight incel slang i actually use is newfag+ratings (htn/lti/htb/etc)
everything else sounds rlly weird

 

[tulip]

i was thinking that too but i didnt wanna be weird some of the slang is rlly dated. the only straight incel slang i actually use is newfag+ratings (htn/lti/htb/etc)
everything else sounds rlly weird

Thissssss

 

[blanquita444]

for ur current guy if he disrespects u often just leave!!

no he only said that the one time, besides that he usually showers me with compliments and we videochat and play games together often. there's just something about him i dont want to leave behind

 

[hilol]

im 16f and ive dated a lot of guys. idk i just feel like anytime i genuinely like someone theyre a slut/cheater or they think im beneath them. i dont think im a ltb so how can i cope. even my current bf said i wasnt a "very pretty girl." are all men like this? i know im not the prettiest but it hurts. ive probably dated 30 to 40 guys in my lifetime. i have 7 bodies. is there something im missing that guys like. i dont think my personality is that bad, im a little socially awkward and insecure sure, but i have pretty good music taste and stuff like that.... is it just because im not attractive enough or something else? other females advice would be appreciated. pls dont make fun of me genuine only pls
i never feel truly loved by anybody, atleast not the same way ive treated them

40 guys at 16???? this has to be bait, you cant really expect anything at 16 ngl, most people at 16 are just dating for experience

 

[hilol]

n***a talks like a damn fucking neanderthal with aids tf is "muh" some of these incels over fucking do it with the slang like ew

lmao fr wtf

 

[blanquita444]

40 guys at 16???? this has to be bait, you cant really expect anything at 16 ngl, most people at 16 are just dating for experience

not bait, read past replies for explanation. this includes crushes/friends ive flirted with

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I'm very serious @Darkeningstar you are pretty black woman right?

Yes

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Are you a bitch or a n***a?

Guess

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

im 16f and ive dated a lot of guys. idk i just feel like anytime i genuinely like someone theyre a slut/cheater or they think im beneath them. i dont think im a ltb so how can i cope. even my current bf said i wasnt a "very pretty girl." are all men like this? i know im not the prettiest but it hurts. ive probably dated 30 to 40 guys in my lifetime. i have 7 bodies. is there something im missing that guys like. i dont think my personality is that bad, im a little socially awkward and insecure sure, but i have pretty good music taste and stuff like that.... is it just because im not attractive enough or something else? other females advice would be appreciated. pls dont make fun of me genuine only pls
i never feel truly loved by anybody, atleast not the same way ive treated them

You need to stop rushing into relationships imo, you will find love but I doubt you will find it like this

 

[Spuffy]

i was thinking that too but i didnt wanna be weird some of the slang is rlly dated. the only straight incel slang i actually use is newfag+ratings (htn/lti/htb/etc)
everything else sounds rlly weird

"muh" is literally meant to sound retarded, so you two are right.

 

[blanquita444]

"muh" is literally meant to sound retarded, so you two are right.

i know it is but its just not funny to me. i feel like there are funnier ways 2 poke fun at ppl

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

i know it is but its just not funny to me. i feel like there are funnier ways 2 poke fun at ppl

It's not funny because it doesn't have to be funny

 

[Decay]

Love is almost never genuine

im 16f and ive dated a lot of guys. idk i just feel like anytime i genuinely like someone theyre a slut/cheater or they think im beneath them. i dont think im a ltb so how can i cope. even my current bf said i wasnt a "very pretty girl." are all men like this? i know im not the prettiest but it hurts. ive probably dated 30 to 40 guys in my lifetime. i have 7 bodies. is there something im missing that guys like. i dont think my personality is that bad, im a little socially awkward and insecure sure, but i have pretty good music taste and stuff like that.... is it just because im not attractive enough or something else? other females advice would be appreciated. pls dont make fun of me genuine only pls
i never feel truly loved by anybody, atleast not the same way ive treated them

Wrap it up r****d. 7 bodies and 40 past relationships at 16 years of age is fucking diabolical. Even if pure love did exist, i hope you never experience it

 

[mxri]

You’re not even moderately pretty, that’s why u rely so much on nichemaxxing and styling. The worst part? Your boyfriend definitely isn’t hot either bc girls that look like you cannot lock down truly attractive guys , and even he thinks you’re not super good looking.


But look, you’re here to looksmax so enjoy the journey.