Serious is muslim arranged marriage the meta?

[knightmaxxer]

i ask because my arabic grandmother has genuinely offered to get me a wife, and i turned it down because i was 14, but now im reconsidering if arranged marriage itself may be the meta.

possible pros:
- circumvents dating entirely and goes straight to the relationship part
- longevity (a lot of arranged marriages ive seen have lasted for upwards of 50-70 years)
- easier to get, obviously
- lot of arabic marriages are hypogamous (guy looks worse than girl, opposite of hypergamy)
- typically get a shit ton of gifts from family during the marriage stuff
- ethnic women mog
- grandma said i could get a higher worth woman cus my skin is “ivory” jfl jbw
- islam
possible cons:
- religion-based
- longevity (hypergamous modern diddyfoid might leave super early)
- could be held together quite flimsily (mainly by peer pressure and her faith, unless she falls in love like a surprisingly high amount of arranged marriage participants do)
- you prolly need to know arabic (i dont cus mum stopped teaching me her language cus she wanted me to be more white)
- probably have to be muslim
- they could try putting you with a literal preteen or child jfl

tagging those who be ethnic n shiet @foidslayer @recai @Niggard and theres probably more but i forgot lol

 

[ecoli]

yeah its the meta

 

[icnone]

my parents want me to do it but fuck no
I do not see how I will be valued for who i am besides being a betabuxxer

 

[chudlite67]

i ask because my arabic grandmother has genuinely offered to get me a wife, and i turned it down because i was 14, but now im reconsidering if arranged marriage itself may be the meta.

possible pros:
- circumvents dating entirely and goes straight to the relationship part
- longevity (a lot of arranged marriages ive seen have lasted for upwards of 50-70 years)
- easier to get, obviously
- lot of arabic marriages are hypogamous (guy looks worse than girl, opposite of hypergamy)
- typically get a shit ton of gifts from family during the marriage stuff
- ethnic women mog
- grandma said i could get a higher worth woman cus my skin is “ivory” jfl jbw
- islam
possible cons:
- religion-based
- longevity (hypergamous modern diddyfoid might leave super early)
- could be held together quite flimsily (mainly by peer pressure and her faith, unless she falls in love like a surprisingly high amount of arranged marriage participants do)
- you prolly need to know arabic (i dont cus mum stopped teaching me her language cus she wanted me to be more white)
- probably have to be muslim
- they could try putting you with a literal preteen or child jfl

tagging those who be ethnic n shiet @foidslayer @recai @Niggard and theres probably more but i forgot lol

i have a few quarrels with your pros and cons list but i digress
if its what u want then go for it

 

[knightmaxxer]

i have a few quarrels with your pros and cons list but i digress
if its what u want then go for it

im like 90% taking the piss here ngl

 

[Angel]

or peep my thread on solipsism

 

[chudlite67]

im like 90% taking the piss here ngl

oh okay
cool

 

[Deleted Member 126149]

then hinduism walks in

 

[knightmaxxer]

oh okay
cool

my unironic opinion of it is that while it may be easier, the chances of a loving marriage coming from it are too low for my liking

 

[chudlite67]

my unironic opinion of it is that while it may be easier, the chances of a loving marriage coming from it are too low for my liking

i agree i mean its probably just security

 

[Recai]

Yes at least you most likely won’t marry a whore

 

[rand anon]

Yes at least you most likely won’t marry a whore

Nah u never know maynnn

 

[Recai]

Nah u never know maynnn

If it’s actual muslim girl there will be like 99% chance she won’t be a whore but it’s some mushrik worthlessss birch and a kafir then it’s over sbe will ruin your life

 

[uggo-exploratorem]

You’ll just get cucked ngl

 

[rand anon]

If it’s actual muslim girl there will be like 99% chance she won’t be a whore

Rly?

but it’s some mushrik worthlessss birch and a kafir then it’s over sbe will ruin your life

Jobaa

Idk maynnnn don’t Muslim women get their hymen repaired and other shiiii too to cover their whoredom? The only chaste and pious ones I’ve encountered hve been my high school oneitis and then my current oneitis

 

[zaycism]

i ask because my arabic grandmother has genuinely offered to get me a wife, and i turned it down because i was 14, but now im reconsidering if arranged marriage itself may be the meta.

possible pros:
- circumvents dating entirely and goes straight to the relationship part
- longevity (a lot of arranged marriages ive seen have lasted for upwards of 50-70 years)
- easier to get, obviously
- lot of arabic marriages are hypogamous (guy looks worse than girl, opposite of hypergamy)
- typically get a shit ton of gifts from family during the marriage stuff
- ethnic women mog
- grandma said i could get a higher worth woman cus my skin is “ivory” jfl jbw
- islam
possible cons:
- religion-based
- longevity (hypergamous modern diddyfoid might leave super early)
- could be held together quite flimsily (mainly by peer pressure and her faith, unless she falls in love like a surprisingly high amount of arranged marriage participants do)
- you prolly need to know arabic (i dont cus mum stopped teaching me her language cus she wanted me to be more white)
- probably have to be muslim
- they could try putting you with a literal preteen or child jfl

tagging those who be ethnic n shiet @foidslayer @recai @Niggard and theres probably more but i forgot lol

yes arranged marriages are the method

 

[Recai]

Rly?

Jobaa

Idk maynnnn don’t Muslim women get their hymen repaired and other shiiii too to cover their whoredom? The only chaste and pious ones I’ve encountered hve been my high school oneitis and then my current oneitis

In the Islamic state a muslim who lived there told me he never saw someone actually get punished for doing zina and the same guy literally reported the f****t that got thrown out of the building

 

[_wayland]

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