Discussion Is the girl I’m talking to a manipulative asshole or just upset

[HowToBasic]

so everything was going well the entire morning up until 12 I got a phone call for a job that would require me to leave for most of the day when I told her I’m leaving for the day she got cold and sounded mad now she’s just ghosting me after I said are you okay?

 

[Superior]

so everything was going well the entire morning up until 12 I got a phone call for a job that would require me to leave for most of the day when I told her I’m leaving for the day she got cold and sounded mad now she’s just ghosting me after I said are you okay?

she doesn't respect your time

 

[Monsieur Meow]

so everything was going well the entire morning up until 12 I got a phone call for a job that would require me to leave for most of the day when I told her I’m leaving for the day she got cold and sounded mad now she’s just ghosting me after I said are you okay?

shes upset but not the right way to act ab it

 

[HowToBasic]

she doesn't respect your time

What should I do it’s been a common thing for a while

 

[</3]

so everything was going well the entire morning up until 12 I got a phone call for a job that would require me to leave for most of the day when I told her I’m leaving for the day she got cold and sounded mad now she’s just ghosting me after I said are you okay?

bro what is with you and these unstable women wtf find a normal one

 

[giga.mia]

What should I do it’s been a common thing for a while

Have a serious talk with her about it

 

[Monsieur Meow]

What should I do it’s been a common thing for a while

put her in her place

 

[HowToBasic]

Have a serious talk with her about it

She just gets mad and blocks me until she calms down

 

[</3]

She just gets mad and blocks me until she calms down

yo lowk just get a new one

 

[HowToBasic]

yo lowk just get a new one

Idk she’s a good person just unstable

 

[</3]

Idk she’s a good person just unstable

what does she do that makes her a good person?

 

[giga.mia]

She just gets mad and blocks me until she calms down

Talk in person

 

[HowToBasic]

what does she do that makes her a good person?

In person she’s normal and caring

 

[HowToBasic]

Talk in person

I do she tells me she knows and that she can be bi polar at times

 

[</3]

In person she’s normal and caring

hmm fair enough

 

[HowToBasic]

hmm fair enough

I love her but she’s super needy

 

[giga.mia]

I do she tells me she knows and that she can be bi polar at times

I mean I guess it depends then. If you want to continue settling with her or not. She seems like she’s very clingy.

 

[HowToBasic]

I mean I guess it depends then. If you want to continue settling with her or not. She seems like she’s very clingy.

We hung out 200 days out of the year

 

[</3]

I love her but she’s super needy

is she a baddie? like is it worht staying bc you will get drained eventually and there will probably be resentment present

 

[HowToBasic]

Like you guys probably think I’m the biggest asshole but I’m actually normal irl

 

[HowToBasic]

is she a baddie? like is it worht staying bc you will get drained eventually and there will probably be resentment present

She’s the insanely out of my league I would say htb + she’s fucking gorgeous

 

[HowToBasic]

I get insecure just by being in a public space with her..

 

[HowToBasic]

She’s just mental sometimes

 

[</3]

She’s the insanely out of my league I would say htb + she’s fucking gorgeous

awww cute
yh then u just gotta thug it out
depending on how stable YOU are and how long youre willing to stay w here theres a good chance itll rub off on her and shell develop a healthy attachment style

 

[</3]

I get insecure just by being in a public space with her..

naw twin dont say that

 

[ragebait77]

I get insecure just by being in a public space with her..

Seems like she loves you

 

[HowToBasic]

Seems like she loves you

maybe I hope so

 

[Anna]

become gay

 

[HowToBasic]

naw twin dont say that

I’m not handsome or anything I’m just a replaceable guy

 

[HowToBasic]

awww cute
yh then u just gotta thug it out
depending on how stable YOU are and how long youre willing to stay w here theres a good chance itll rub off on her and shell develop a healthy attachment style

when we move in together most likely it’s her home life it’s not that great

 

[</3]

I’m not handsome or anything I’m just a replaceable guy

bro no dont think like that
everyones replaceable to an extent
she clearly rly likes you and is attached so dw

 

[HowToBasic]

bro no dont think like that
everyones replaceable to an extent
she clearly rly likes you and is attached so dw

i jus need double jaw surgery

 

[</3]

when we move in together most likely it’s her home life it’s not that great

best of luck bro
she sounds kinda similar to me if im honest (minus being rly hot)
but ive kind of been aware of my flaws and i have worked pretty hard to fix them in terms of my emotions
plus my bf is lowk the goat hes really helped me become a better person

 

[Starlet]

she’ll get over it

 

[iletheile]

She has shit communication skills

 

[</3]

She has shit communication skills

yea she def needs to realise that and work on it

 

[HowToBasic]

yea she def needs to realise that and work on it

She knows