Is there a way to fix hypergomy?

[TFC]

Its choosing the best possible partner, it's not something that you can decide if you want to do or not

That’s wrong

Normal dateing = choosing your best option by considering all choices

Hypergomy= only looking at the top men as options, and excluding all else

These are 2 different things

 

[sams872]

porn industry is incredibly destructive and it does have a contribution but i wouldnt say so

I like the porn industry just only when they aren't making a proper living

 

[Pinksunglasses]

porn industry is incredibly destructive and it does have a contribution but i wouldnt say so

Well didnt men js want girls with a “big ass” and “big tits” we are HYPERGAMOUS in our own way cant js blame wemon broo

 

[arrowsinmyback]

yeah i see no point in worrying about any of this
if your unfit for a partner you dont reproduce
complaining about societal flaws is pointless

exept oppression of women in the past is the main reason

explain how oppression of women has caused hypergamy
a lot of hypergamous women have been born post 2k where they havent felt the effects of oppression

 

[sams872]

That’s wrong

Normal dateing = choosing your best option by considering all choices

Hypergomy= only looking at the top men as options, and excluding all else

These are 2 different things

What your describing dosent exist and never will

 

[arrowsinmyback]

Well didnt men js want girls with a “big ass” and “big tits” we are HYPERGAMOUS in our own way cant js blame wemon broo

no? lol? dont project

 

[sams872]

Well didnt men js want girls with a “big ass” and “big tits” we are HYPERGAMOUS in our own way cant js blame wemon broo

If two people are evil and one has a gun, who would you decide is the most threatening

 

[Pinksunglasses]

no? lol? dont project

U want a beautiful woman dont u???

 

[TFC]

yeah i see no point in worrying about any of this
if your unfit for a partner you dont reproduce
complaining about societal flaws is pointless

exept oppression of women in the past is the main reason

Women had no rights
Women fought for rights
Women earned the right to be sexually active
Women does hypergomy

Yes one is the by product of another but not in the sense of the patriarchy choosing this but in the way the patriarchy made the conditions for women to fight for there rights

 

[viasco]

its so simple. make all the hoes want YOU & then gift them to the bros so everyone gets a foid

 

[arrowsinmyback]

U want a beautiful woman dont u???

no, i want a woman who will accept me and allow me to accept her

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

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Its choosing the best possible partner, it's not something that you can decide if you want to do or not

This is true as well, women go for the best they think they can get


Back then, they had less leverage, which is why they had to settle for the betabux ltn of the 1950's


Now that they have their own careers, men hold little to no leverage outside of their looks baseline

The patriarchy (as we call it) was a way of artifically restricting the choices of women

 

[submissivechud]

well the patriarchy has mostly been diminished/quelled so its more of an indirect cause that occurs after it weakens
the system is set up so that men are "better" then women
as time goes on and the patriarchy weakens it still effects people mentally
this, plus social media standards, lead to women EXPECTING the man to be "better" then her
leading to higher expectations in terms of men, even when the women has nothing/less of value to provide

explain how oppression of women has caused hypergamy
a lot of hypergamous women have been born post 2k where they havent felt the effect

 

[Pinksunglasses]

no, i want a woman who will accept me and allow me to accept her

Fair point well no point of worrying abt Ts anyway

I gave everything to a girl who took it all away

Found peace in js cruising through life instead

(Food for thought man)

 

[TFC]

What your describing dosent exist and never will

It’s the definition of hypergomy… and yes it does

Below 5’6 = not a option
1 to 2 PSL points behind = not a options
Etc… this is kinda the whole point of the black pill

 

[trvecel]

Some oppositions

Option 1:
Have a self care class- in middle school and high school were each kid learns there hair type, skin type, face shape.. etc and it teaches how to take care of themselves

Option 2:
We bring back arranged marriages- but we have some ground rules this time (like the kid has a say- the kid could say they are gay- the mom and dad are both choosing etc (might work idk)

Option 3:
We make hightism just as morally fucked as racism or at least as fucked as foids think it is to be fatphobic (no reason for it to be ok to make fun of hight and not ok to make fun of weight)

Option 4:
We make cheating in marriage illegal, and if reported and proven you get jail time.

These are all the ideas I could come up with does anyone have there own?

I have my own solution, tfd

 

[arrowsinmyback]

Fair point well no point of worrying abt Ts anyway

I gave everything to a girl who took it all away

Found peace in js cruising through life instead

(Food for thought man)

it happens, humans r confusing
hope youre healing and ready to accept love when it comes

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

I have my own solution, tfd

But then it will follow with tmd as well

 

[Pinksunglasses]

it happens, humans r confusing
hope youre healing and ready to accept love when it comes

Nah bro she deserves only the best anyway no point of hating when I got a whole world to experience

 

[arrowsinmyback]

i understand it could be subconscious, but how would it seep through the subconscious? through older family members maybe? only thing i could thinkof @submissivechud

 

[arrowsinmyback]

Nah bro she deserves only the best anyway no point of hating when I got a whole world to experience

if you gave it your all
you were the best
dont stress it

 

[TFC]

Fair point well no point of worrying abt Ts anyway

I gave everything to a girl who took it all away

Found peace in js cruising through life instead

(Food for thought man)

Failure mentality.
Being ok with a unfair game is the problem.
Calling it “self peace”? No, that’s retarded, we fix our problems

We identify them, plan a solution, and fix the problem.
Calling yourself peaceful and calm is the same thing as giving up except you feel less bad

 

[Pinksunglasses]

Failure mentality.
Being ok with a unfair game is the problem.
Calling it “self peace”? No, that’s retarded, we fix our problems

We identify them, plan a solution, and fix the problem.
Calling yourself peaceful and calm is the same thing as giving up except you feel less bad

How u gonna fix the world by feeding the problem gngy

 

[TFC]

How u gonna fix the world by feeding the problem gngy

I just proposed 4 solutions…

 

[knightmaxxer]

Some oppositions

Option 1:
Have a self care class- in middle school and high school were each kid learns there hair type, skin type, face shape.. etc and it teaches how to take care of themselves

Option 2:
We bring back arranged marriages- but we have some ground rules this time (like the kid has a say- the kid could say they are gay- the mom and dad are both choosing etc (might work idk)

Option 3:
We make hightism just as morally fucked as racism or at least as fucked as foids think it is to be fatphobic (no reason for it to be ok to make fun of hight and not ok to make fun of weight)

Option 4:
We make cheating in marriage illegal, and if reported and proven you get jail time.

These are all the ideas I could come up with does anyone have there own?

theres a reason arranged marriage has been the standard throughout basically all human cultures throughout all eras of history

 

[Pinksunglasses]

I just proposed 4 solutions…

So we ascend to (make the girls want us) well from the start the problem is the girls wanting more then what they are right?

So now we put work in to look good js to have a HYPERGAMOUS girl makes since?

Hmm well Plans a plan try what u want brooo u got my respect anyway

 

[knightmaxxer]

hypogomy only exists bc of testosterone which fuels a strong sex drive in the male brain causing males to value female partners more than the other way round. No way out unless we somehow negate test

dw israel is on that

 

[arrowsinmyback]

theres a reason arranged marriage has been the standard throughout basically all human cultures throughout all eras of history

there has to be a balance

arranged marriage is way too fucked

 

[knightmaxxer]

there has to be a balance

arranged marriage is way too fucked

blud if its fucked why has it literally always been used, and formed independently in cultures that don’t have contact with eachother

 

[TFC]

So we ascend to (make the girls want us) well from the start the problem is the girls wanting more then what they are right?

So now we put work in to look good js to have a HYPERGAMOUS girl makes since?

Hmm well Plans a plan try what u want brooo u got my respect anyway

We as a individual was given a placement in a system we don’t know
And if you are on the low end of the scale you are treated as less then human.
So either option 1: do nothing and except your fate
Option 2: do everything you can to become attractive and reap the benefits

 

[TFC]

theres a reason arranged marriage has been the standard throughout basically all human cultures throughout all eras of history

I think if we do it right we can actually consider it

 

[TonyDr]

Option 4:
We make cheating in marriage illegal, and if reported and proven you get jail time.

These are all the ideas I could come up with does anyone have there own?

This plus a full capitalism downfall

 

[Pinksunglasses]

We as a individual was given a placement in a system we don’t know
And if you are on the low end of the scale you are treated as less then human.
So either option 1: do nothing and except your fate
Option 2: do everything you can to become attractive and reap the benefits

Agree to disagree my values js are different man if I get a wife then w if not then Idec love not everything the world abt experience it that js my opinion no disrespect to those who work for looks and stuff man find that to be pretty cool tbh biggest reason why I joined this forum anyway BRO

 

[TFC]

there has to be a balance

arranged marriage is way too fucked

Let’s think about this
Your mom and dad talk with 5-10 families… when you turn let’s say 25 or 30 they set you up on a few blind dates you say the 2-3 you liked the most (if any) and then you enter a long term relationship with close nit family’s and a healthy relationship… it doesn’t seem to bad of an idea

 

[Mrpoopdog]

Some oppositions

Option 1:
Have a self care class- in middle school and high school were each kid learns there hair type, skin type, face shape.. etc and it teaches how to take care of themselves

Option 2:
We bring back arranged marriages- but we have some ground rules this time (like the kid has a say- the kid could say they are gay- the mom and dad are both choosing etc (might work idk)

Option 3:
We make hightism just as morally fucked as racism or at least as fucked as foids think it is to be fatphobic (no reason for it to be ok to make fun of hight and not ok to make fun of weight)

Option 4:
We make cheating in marriage illegal, and if reported and proven you get jail time.

These are all the ideas I could come up with does anyone have there own?

It's a natural thing there is no getting rid of something that is natural

 

[TFC]

This plus a full capitalism downfall

Hmm? I could just live in a forest. That does seem nice

 

[arrowsinmyback]

Let’s think about this
Your mom and dad talk with 5-10 families… when you turn let’s say 25 or 30 they set you up on a few blind dates you say the 2-3 you liked the most (if any) and then you enter a long term relationship with close nit family’s and a healthy relationship… it doesn’t seem to bad of an idea

i think itd have to be very thought out idk

 

[TFC]

It's a natural thing there is no getting rid of something that is natural

Your confusing natural selection with hypergomy

 

[arrowsinmyback]

It's a natural thing there is no getting rid of something that is natural

could say that about literally any injustice in the world btw
its our duty as intelligent creatures to realize, criticize, and attempt to alleviate our flaws

 

[TFC]

i think itd have to be very thought out idk

Yes, but the option itself seems good

 

[arrowsinmyback]

Yes, but the option itself seems good

something to consider i suppose

 

[TFC]

something to consider i suppose

Also all the other options are also reasonable and effective in my opinion

 

[Mrpoopdog]

could say that about literally any injustice in the world btw
its our duty as intelligent creatures to realize, criticize, and attempt to alleviate our flaws

Still impossible it will still exist to a degree even if there was a universe where we all ware chads something else would dominate attraction that keeps recreating the current situation
There is no alleviating our flaws we all want our offspring to have good genetic quality

 

[RottingCarrie]

Opt 2 is morally fucked and parents will try to find the best looking, most well off guy

 

[tami_26]

Some oppositions

Option 1:
Have a self care class- in middle school and high school were each kid learns there hair type, skin type, face shape.. etc and it teaches how to take care of themselves

Option 2:
We bring back arranged marriages- but we have some ground rules this time (like the kid has a say- the kid could say they are gay- the mom and dad are both choosing etc (might work idk)

Option 3:
We make hightism just as morally fucked as racism or at least as fucked as foids think it is to be fatphobic (no reason for it to be ok to make fun of hight and not ok to make fun of weight)

Option 4:
We make cheating in marriage illegal, and if reported and proven you get jail time.

These are all the ideas I could come up with does anyone have there own?

Make everyone have to be in a boarding school until 21

 

[RottingCarrie]

Option 4 seems okay but you have to think about the logistics and put some clauses in it like if they couple was separated but not divorced, also idk if itd actually help with hypergomy but I think North Korea had a law like that. option 3 is just kinda odd. There rlly is no way to fix it

 

[RottingCarrie]

I think option one is rlly cool in general but it won't help with hypergomy.

 

[TFC]

Make everyone have to be in a boarding school until 21

Then wouldn’t fix anything and isn’t realistic

 

[tami_26]

Then wouldn’t fix anything and isn’t realistic

It’s not impossible and it does help tbh.Everyone ik that was in a boarding school looks were inflated so much.Ltns still slayed

 

[Luxe]

I have an option