is this a bad thing to think

[junebug]

I want my future husband to be virgin since I am a virgin
but I want him to be virgin in a "saving myself" way not in a "this mf cannot get laid no matter what" way
I have talked to a lof of guys who are the latter and there's always something wrong with them mentally so I might be biased

 

[giga.mia]

Why on earth would that be a bad thing
That’a completely fair and ideal

 

[junebug]

Why on earth would that be a bad thing
That’a completely fair and ideal

but I'm like excluding incels and that's mean

 

[giga.mia]

but I'm like excluding incels and that's mean

I’m confused
How would they be excluded

 

[hersheykiss]

no not bad at all dw

 

[Bananachip]

I want my future husband to be virgin since I am a virgin
but I want him to be virgin in a "saving myself" way not in a "this mf cannot get laid no matter what" way
I have talked to a lof of guys who are the latter and there's always something wrong with them mentally so I might be biased

My bf was a virgin too when we got together and it made me feel better cause we’re on a level playing field yk

 

[junebug]

I’m confused
How would they be excluded

isn't the point of being incel not being able to get laid
otherwise it's volcel

 

[Aryy]

but I'm like excluding incels and that's mean

Why does it matter
U dont need to give anyone a chance, just be with the one you want
yes have standards if their fair

Its your romantic life, your choice

 

[junebug]

My bf was a virgin too when we got together and it made me feel better cause we’re on a level playing field yk

I would just feel weird if he had other bodies before me that sounds so shallow but I want to be the only one yknow?

 

[giga.mia]

isn't the point of being incel not being able to get laid
otherwise it's volcel

Oh I think I understand what you’re saying now

 

[victorique]

but I'm like excluding incels and that's mean

So don’t exclude them , give them a chance

 

[Bananachip]

I would just feel weird of he had other bodies before me that sounds so shallow but I want to be the only one yknow?

Ya ik what you mean it’s just hard nowadays but maybe you’ll find someone with similar values

 

[vespertine]

a guy who can get laid, usually gets laid.
i dont think there's anything wrong with what you asking. just be aware that it is a small percentage of men, especially if you have other requirements.

 

[victorique]

a guy who can get laid, usually gets laid.
i dont think there's anything wrong with what you asking. just be aware that it is a small percentage of men, especially if you have other requirements.

why vespertine is serious

 

[True Spaniard]

isn't the point of being incel not being able to get laid
otherwise it's volcel

nah volcel is someone who has already been laid, technically everyone is an incel until they get on the dating market, if you still don’t get laid you will be an involuntary celibate

 

[vespertine]

why vespertine is serious

am i just supposed to be a jester for your amusement?

 

[junebug]

a guy who can get laid, usually gets laid.

i dont think there's anything wrong with what you asking. just be aware that it is a small percentage of men, especially if you have other requirements.

yeah I know, and I'm kind of flexible on this but hypothetically I just get kind of jealous knowing other girls got to him before me or whatever

 

[vespertine]

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yeah I know, and I'm kind of flexible on this but hypothetically I just get kind of jealous knowing other girls got to him before me or whatever

see yourself as the boss battle. he waited till he had experience with 413 other guys to be able to handle you!

 

[knightmaxxer]

I want my future husband to be virgin since I am a virgin
but I want him to be virgin in a "saving myself" way not in a "this mf cannot get laid no matter what" way
I have talked to a lof of guys who are the latter and there's always something wrong with them mentally so I might be biased

valid

 

[junebug]

see yourself as the boss battle. he waited till he had experience with 413 other guys to be able to handle you!

other GUYS???!!?!?
uggghhhh whatever whatever I also don't want to be the awkward one with no experience and totally fucking up but there's no way I'm gonna watch porn or sleep around so an awkward loss of my virginity is inevitable either waayyyy waaggghh

 

[pompompurino]

i used to think this too but i think experienced guys are better now. the guy im with i feel like he knows me and my body better than i do
but it really just depends, if u like a guy dont let his body count get in the way of u guys

 

[vespertine]

other GUYS???!!?!?

i'm sniggering like a goblin

uggghhhh whatever whatever I also don't want to be the awkward one with no experience and totally fucking up but there's no way I'm gonna watch porn or sleep around so an awkward loss of my virginity is inevitable either waayyyy waaggghh

just take DMT and while outside your body get a incubus to teach you how to have sex

 

[junebug]

i used to think this too but i think experienced guys are better now. the guy im with i feel like he knows me and my body better than i do
but it really just depends, if u like a guy dont let his body count get in the way of u guys

hmm I think it stems from the fact that if he wasn't a virgin I'd have a hard time feeling special. idk

 

[chudlite67]

I want my future husband to be virgin since I am a virgin
but I want him to be virgin in a "saving myself" way not in a "this mf cannot get laid no matter what" way
I have talked to a lof of guys who are the latter and there's always something wrong with them mentally so I might be biased

no thats not a bad thing

 

[junebug]

i'm sniggering like a goblin

just take DMT and while outside your body get a incubus to teach you how to have sex

there's gotta be SOMETHING in the Bible forbidding ts

 

[pompompurino]

hmm I think it stems from the fact that if he wasn't a virgin I'd have a hard time feeling special. idk

that’s understandable

 

[Deleted Member 121017]

I want my future husband to be virgin since I am a virgin
but I want him to be virgin in a "saving myself" way not in a "this mf cannot get laid no matter what" way
I have talked to a lof of guys who are the latter and there's always something wrong with them mentally so I might be biased

same but idc if hes a virgin anymore , js not 5+ bodies

 

[junebug]

same but idc if hes a virgin anymore , js not 5+ bodies

I feel like one body is worse than 5+
both are bad

 

[vespertine]

there's gotta be SOMETHING in the Bible forbidding ts

God forgave me