Is your love conditional or unconditional?

[Spideyhomie]

Title

 

[Nbernical]

My love for my dog is unconditional

 

[Born Superior]

My love for @Ghoultune is unconditional

 

[Schizotypalcel]

I like bagels

 

[Spideyhomie]

I like bagels

Mirin true detective AVI

 

[rovea]

My love for myself is conditional

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

depends on who for, my dog, my brother or my cousin yeah but otherwise its somewhat conditional

 

[Spideyhomie]

depends on who for, my dog, my brother or my cousin yeah but otherwise its somewhat conditional

Why is it unconditional for them?

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

Why is it unconditional for them?

my dog is just a baby n can do no wrong (obviously), my little brother even tho he's a little shit I can't help it cos I've always been the one to look after him etc and my cousin cos shes basically my sister yk ?

 

[milkjar]

very much unconditional

 

[Schizotypalcel]

very much unconditional

 

[Spideyhomie]

very much unconditional

Fairy tale land maybe

 

[milkjar]

Fairy tale land maybe

why so

 

[Spideyhomie]

why so

Love cannot be unconditional

 

[milkjar]

Love cannot be unconditional

well mines is

 

[milkjar]

well mines is

and i'm not saying it as a flex btw, it's a bad thing cause you put up with a lot

 

[Spideyhomie]

well mines is

 

[Currycelloser]

Title

love in conditional, fs

 

[Currycelloser]

well mines is

would u love ur girlfriend, if she became a worm?

 

[milkjar]

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and i'm not saying it as a flex btw, it's a bad thing cause you put up with a lot

 

[milkjar]

would u love ur girlfriend, if she became a worm?

well if they became a worm they are no longer the person I love

 

[Spideyhomie]

You wouldn’t start liking her in the first place if she were lltb and obese

and i'm not saying it as a flex btw, it's a bad thing cause you put up with a lot

 

[milkjar]

You wouldn’t start liking her in the first place if she were lltb and obese

how is this relevant to if love is conditional or not, your talking about initial attraction, you could not be initially attracted to someone physically and end up loving you, and vice versa

 

[Glamour]

unconditional

 

[Spideyhomie]

how is this relevant to if love is conditional or not, your talking about initial attraction, you could not be initially attracted to someone physically and end up loving you, and vice versa

Say there exists a woman out there who has the perfect personality for you (your soulmate so as to say). But she just happens to be a fatass lltb.
You will not be attracted to her.
The potential to build a relationship exists with the initial presumption (her personality is perfect), but you cannot feel love without superficial attraction.
Her need to be passably attractive is a condition

 

[sociopath]

unconditional love is just love with little conditions

 

[Glamour]

but you cannot feel love without superficial attraction.

that is just not true

 

[sociopath]

Say there exists a woman out there who has the perfect personality for you (your soulmate so as to say). But she just happens to be a fatass lltb.
You will not be attracted to her.
The potential to build a relationship exists with the initial presumption (her personality is perfect), but you cannot feel love without superficial attraction.
Her need to be passably attractive is a condition

my gf is aa fatass ltb and i would die for her

 

[Currycelloser]

well if they became a worm they are no longer the person I love

so love is conditional, hence proved

 

[milkjar]

so love is conditional, hence proved

no you pajeet, if they are a worm then they are no longer the person you fell in love with, they are a completely different being, they no longer pertain the characteristics that you were in love with

 

[milkjar]

Say there exists a woman out there who has the perfect personality for you (your soulmate so as to say). But she just happens to be a fatass lltb.
You will not be attracted to her.
The potential to build a relationship exists with the initial presumption (her personality is perfect), but you cannot feel love without superficial attraction.
Her need to be passably attractive is a condition

yea but as you said you wouldn't even like them to begin with, if I never liked them to begin with then there was simply no love to be conditioned

 

[Currycelloser]

no you pajeet, if they are a worm then they are no longer the person you fell in love with, they are a completely different being, they no longer pertain the characteristics that you were in love with

 

[milkjar]

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it quite literally says "loving someone for WHO THEY ARE entirely", if they became a worm then they are no longer their original selves are they?

 

[Spideyhomie]

unconditional love is just love with little conditions

I’m gonna be honest this was hard

 

[Currycelloser]

it quite literally says "loving someone for WHO THEY ARE entirely", if they became a worm then they are no longer their original selves are they?

look, at the 3rd para

 

[Lion of Judea]

depends on who for, my dog, my brother or my cousin yeah but otherwise its somewhat conditional

What abt me

 

[Spideyhomie]

my gf is aa fatass ltb and i would die for her

 

[milkjar]

look, at the 3rd para

key word "in theory)

 

[Garce]

Conditional for sure , only my mom and my pets gets unconditional love

 

[Spideyhomie]

key word "in theory)

U both are just talking past each other btw

 

[Starlet]

no you pajeet, if they are a worm then they are no longer the person you fell in love with, they are a completely different being, they no longer pertain the characteristics that you were in love with

but what if they completely change as the relationship goes on (personality, looks, or both) and they’re no longer the “same person”?

 

[Spideyhomie]

but what if they completely change as the relationship goes on (personality, looks, or both) and they’re no longer the “same person”?

 

[milkjar]

but what if they completely change as the relationship goes on (personality, looks, or both) and they’re no longer the “same person”?

well the same thing applies, if you fall in love with someone for their personality and it changes, it's valid, if the trait that makes the person that you fell in love with who they are how is it not validation to no longer love them

 

[Starlet]

well the same thing applies, if you fall in love with someone for their personality and it changes, it's valid, if the trait that makes the person that you fell in love with who they are how is it not validation to no longer love them

Well I was just asking because that typically wouldn’t be considered unconditional then

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

What abt me

uh interesting question that

 

[Spideyhomie]

@cr1st14n
@twinkdestroyer
@Night
They are evolving
They’ve gotten more honest since the last poll———->

 

[twinkdestroyer]

@cr1st14n
@twinkdestroyer
@Night
They are evolving
They’ve gotten more honest since the last poll———->

stole my fucking thread

 

[Spideyhomie]

stole my fucking thread

I am you….

 

[twinkdestroyer]

I am you….

 

[Spideyhomie]

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