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It's hard to go in public for me

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I just want to hide constantly, but I also want friends. I don't want ppl to think I'm pursuing them romantically bc that would be embarrassing for us both. How do I make friends and go in public while being ugly and hating how I look?
objectively and subjectively the worst place to ask for a suggestion about this
 
I just want to hide constantly, but I also want friends. I don't want ppl to think I'm pursuing them romantically bc that would be embarrassing for us both. How do I make friends and go in public while being ugly and hating how I look?
Idk I trust this forum lol, you ppl are more honest than my family and friends
idk I just talk normally and let the people think whatever they want to because they are going to think either way so might as well let them think while doing what I want and its not all those many people who think that youd want them. If I feel weird I follow the 2 day rule where Ill talk to the person for 2 days then stop talking from the 3rd and if they engage forward in the convo thats good and if not you'll always have an opening where it wouldnt be weird if you talk to them again and highly unlikely theyd think you like them. Its just upon you of how you are going to start the conversation.
 
find ways to improve or accept yourself as you are
I'm dying my hair a natural/darker color, same for eyebrows. Working on fat loss still, idk what to do about my bone structure but ppl in my life (not on this site, idk if I trust anyone not in this community to give me advice on looks though) have said I will look more like an adult as I age even though I'm 19 and a woman so my bones are done growing
 
I'm dying my hair a natural/darker color, same for eyebrows. Working on fat loss still, idk what to do about my bone structure but ppl in my life (not on this site, idk if I trust anyone not in this community to give me advice on looks though) have said I will look more like an adult as I age even though I'm 19 and a woman so my bones are done growing
And I have bad posture to the point it hurts, so maybe I'll look slightly decent once I get that thing good. I heard bad posture can make bone structure look worse, but I'm sure it's just me trying to get out of surgery which is inevitable for me one way or another (I'm gonna at least need one to look human)
 
i doubt you're that "ugly" to begin with and this is just insane dysphoria, have a good diet, get lean and do other softmaxxes and youll see progress and be much happier
 
I'm dying my hair a natural/darker color, same for eyebrows. Working on fat loss still, idk what to do about my bone structure but ppl in my life (not on this site, idk if I trust anyone not in this community to give me advice on looks though) have said I will look more like an adult as I age even though I'm 19 and a woman so my bones are done growing
i dont understand the craze of looking older when you're young, if anything looking younger than your age is a good thing, because you age slower.
 
i doubt you're that "ugly" to begin with and this is just insane dysphoria, have a good diet, get lean and do other softmaxxes and youll see progress and be much happier
I have a huge dorsal hump on my nose, recessed jaw and infraorbitals. Face fat/loose skin is a big part of the problem, so getting lean can help a bit but that'll only get me so far. Idk if I broke my nose or if this was genetic, but my mom's nose is straighter than mine so I think it's bc I broke it, is it too late or is there a way I can make it smaller?
 

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I have a huge dorsal hump on my nose, recessed jaw and infraorbitals. Face fat/loose skin is a big part of the problem, so getting lean can help a bit but that'll only get me so far. Idk if I broke my nose or if this was genetic, but my mom's nose is straighter than mine so I think it's bc I broke it, is it too late or is there a way I can make it smaller?
grow hair, dye hair black, sunscreen, tret, remove nose piercing, sleep, lean

easy
 
I just want to hide constantly, but I also want friends. I don't want ppl to think I'm pursuing them romantically bc that would be embarrassing for us both. How do I make friends and go in public while being ugly and hating how I look?
Don't know what to say stop being a scaredy cat
 
grow hair, dye hair black, sunscreen, tret, remove nose piercing, sleep, lean

easy
Pretty good advice, I got black dye a while ago just didn't get time to dye it. I'm keeping the piercing bc I am a piercer apprentice, but I think a diff ring would be better in general
 

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