i just word my posts more disagreeable to get more engagement but
the point is you cant praise someone for abstaining from something that they wouldnt be able to engage in even if they wanted to. some men will talk ab wanting a femcel gf or praise femcels online because they think it makes the girl a better or more pure person. they compare them to very attractive girls that sleep around, but its not a possible comparison to make bcs the whore was offered a yes or no choice and chose yes, while the femcel was never given any choice, so her not picking yes isnt virtuous because she didnt pick no either she picked nothing. how is there any merit to not accepting an opportunity you were never given? just like how its not right to call a person that was r***d at a young age "fast" or a "whore" because it was involuntary, its not right to call an incel more "pure" than others because like its said in the word, its involuntary.