Jealousy test

[Deleted Member 46433]

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I dont think you understand.

is jealousy a good thing? do people truly want that in somebody?

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

is jealousy a good thing? do people truly want that in somebody?

you laugh at me but im curious

 

[Deleted Member 73026]

is jealousy a good thing? do people truly want that in somebody?

no it's not

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

is jealousy a good thing? do people truly want that in somebody?

That wasnt my real results dont worry spuff

I think a healthy amount of jealousy is good. It makes a person feel wanted. If a person in a relationship isnt jealous AT ALL even if its just because they feel confident and secure abt their dynamic, their partner may feel like they dont care if they cheat on them and bla bla. But really it depends on individual people and their preferences. Some ppl hate jealousy in their partners, others love it.

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

you laugh at me but im curious

Sorry my jfl = like

 

[Chifuyu]

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Show us your cuck chair.

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

That wasnt my real results dont worry spuff

I think a healthy amount of jealousy is good. It makes a person feel wanted. If a person in a relationship isnt jealous AT ALL even if its just because they feel confident and secure abt their dynamic, their partner may feel like they dont care if they cheat on them and bla bla. But really it depends on individual people and their preferences. Some ppl hate jealousy in their partners, others love it.

i would agree with you in some ways

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

I already know I’m jealous as shit, I dont need a test for this

The number of times my friends or girl I'm with have raised my blood pressure tells me everything I need to know

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

I already know I’m jealous as shit, I dont need a test for this

The number of times my friends or girl I'm with have raised my blood pressure tells me everything I need to know

I wish the test was beyond just romantic jealously I get jealous over my friends as well

 

[Deleted Member 71653]

I mean everything I worried about became reality with my ex so not surprised at all

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

I wish the test was beyond just romantic jealously I get jealous over my friends as well

It's not talked about enough honestly

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

It's not talked about enough honestly

why be jealous over a friend???

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

why be jealous over a friend???

self esteem probably

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

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I mean everything I worried about became reality with my ex so not surprised at all

I see. has that affected your ability to trust permanently, or is it something you believe can be rebuilt over time?

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

self esteem probably

everybody comes and goes

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

why be jealous over a friend???

mainly FOMO, like they went out somewhere and didnt tag me along even though I would've tagged them along in their shoes

or that one genuine Chad and rich friend that gets away with anything

 

[Deleted Member 71653]

I see. has that affected your ability to trust permanently, or is it something you believe can be rebuilt over time?

I believe the right girl will never have me worried about these things and will reassure me

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

mainly FOMO, like they went out somewhere and didnt tag me along even though I would've tagged them along in their shoes

wow

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

everybody comes and goes

mirin thought process, i hate thinking like that because i wouldn't do that to anyone that i would wanna keep around

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

why be jealous over a friend???

In my experience im just naturally jealous. If I care abt someone a lot and I see them getting really close with someone else I worry ill be replaced in a sense. Or they find that other person more fun and worthwhile than me. Not for all friends tho

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I believe the right girl will never have me worried about these things and will reassure me

i took the test already assuming i would be with the right person. why choose a person who you'd have to worry about

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

wow

i dont see whats so shocking ab it tbh

 

[Deleted Member 71653]

i took the test already assuming i would be with the right person. why choose a person who you'd have to worry about

I dont have options, my ex was the first girl who genuinely showed interest in me romantically and I felt the same way too
there were many red flags but I chose to ignore them and have faith, sadly my fears turned out to be true but what can you do

for context she was already talking to the guy who she got with while we were together, after she dumped me they got in a relationship after like 3 weeks, they’ve been together since (since september)

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

mirin thought process, i hate thinking like that because i wouldn't do that to anyone that i would wanna keep around

neither would i. But if someone’s going to leave, they will. that doesnt mean you shouldnt put in effort or try to fix things when something's wrong

im still a deeply sentimental person, and of course, id much rather things never reach that point

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

i dont see whats so shocking ab it tbh

i mean i understand. but i wouldnt take it as a personal slight if I wasnt invited somewhere. i would think that there are so many reasons that could happen, and its not always about exclusion. still, I know a lot of people who do take it that way. fomo can really distort how people interpret situations. it makes even small things feel like rejection

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

i mean i understand. but i wouldnt take it as a personal slight if I wasnt invited somewhere. i would think that there are so many reasons that could happen, and its not always about exclusion. still, I know a lot of people who do take it that way. fomo can really distort how people interpret situations. it makes even small things feel like rejection

jeez u talk like my mom, but you're right.

I still think it's a bit crazy to plan a whole holiday without your homeboy yk? What else am I gonna think

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I dont have options, my ex was the first girl who genuinely showed interest in me romantically and I felt the same way too
there were many red flags but I chose to ignore them and have faith, sadly my fears turned out to be true but what can you do

that really sucks, and im sorry you had to go through that. it takes a lot of courage to put your trust in someone, especially when you care deeply about them. at least you loved genuinely and gave your heart fully.

for context she was already talking to the guy who she got with while we were together, after she dumped me they got in a relationship

i experienced something similar to this as well. it’s easy to become jaded after something like that, but it doesnt mean you won’t have other meaningful connections. keep your head up bud and keep moving forward

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

jeez u talk like my mom, but you're right.

I still think it's a bit crazy to plan a whole holiday without your homeboy yk? What else am I gonna think

oh yeah i understand. context matters