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Ladies whats a red flag in men

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Not to be that guy, but i have constant paranoia due to mental illness. It gets tiring for family to deal with, just imagine a partner.
I'm also insecure.

No, but i think my actions while i'm acting out can be seen as that.
depends on how that insecurity shines thru tbf, if its that obnoxious 'nice guy' or like over the top manly facade way then yea but if not i wouldn't say it's a red flag unless u make it ur partners problem
 
Not to be that guy, but i have constant paranoia due to mental illness. It gets tiring for family to deal with, just imagine a partner.
I'm also insecure.

No, but i think my actions while i'm acting out can be seen as that.
This is why we gotta become homosexuals in this economy bro it’s method
 
it’s just sad because when you sleep with someone you leave a small part of your soul behind.
I can understand ur reasoning, Im personally not spiritual so I don’t believe in souls, but I can agree that having a lot of sex can desensitize you to the romantic aspect of it.
 
Realistically the way ppl view red flags is based on attractiveness so if the guy is a Normie many things can be considered red flag and the more a girl is attracted the more she will ignore red flags she would spot in a normal looking guy
 
I can understand ur reasoning, Im personally not spiritual so I don’t believe in souls, but I can agree that having a lot of sex can desensitize you to the romantic aspect of it.
also i dont like the idea of it cos he'll forever be comparing me to all the other girls he would have had n that idea js makes me feel physically sick, a guy whose slept round is more likely to leave after n i wouldn't be able to handle that id acc lose my shit if i lost my virginity to a guy and he left after
 
Realistically the way ppl view red flags is based on attractiveness so if the guy is a Normie many things can be considered red flag and the more a girl is attracted the more she will ignore red flags she would spot in a normal looking guy
this can be true for a lot of ppl tbf
 
I can understand ur reasoning, Im personally not spiritual so I don’t believe in souls, but I can agree that having a lot of sex can desensitize you to the romantic aspect of it.
from what I hear anyway most people’s sexual experiences are highly underwhelming. I don’t think anyone is patient enough to understand someone who’s been through trauma related to sexual things either and they end up pushing some sort of narrative that it’s normal to be rough and borderline hurt the other person during it. Or maybe I’m not normal and don’t think I’ll ever get it
 
Realistically the way ppl view red flags is based on attractiveness so if the guy is a Normie many things can be considered red flag and the more a girl is attracted the more she will ignore red flags she would spot in a normal looking guy
So ur saying if I ascend to Chad I can slump on fent in public and girls will still want me?
 
from what I hear anyway most people’s sexual experiences are highly underwhelming. I don’t think anyone is patient enough to understand someone who’s been through trauma related to sexual things either and they end up pushing some sort of narrative that it’s normal to be rough and borderline hurt the other person during it. Or maybe I’m not normal and don’t think I’ll ever get it
yeah all my mates who have done it said it's kinda meh n not worth the hassle, told me to wait until i get married or until im in a very ltr
 
from what I hear anyway most people’s sexual experiences are highly underwhelming.
Yeah if u have sex with someone who is inexperienced or doesn’t care about pleasing you it will suck because they bust it 3 seconds and call it quits. U only get better at it with practice
I don’t think anyone is patient enough to understand someone who’s been through trauma related to sexual things either and they end up pushing some sort of narrative that it’s normal to be rough and borderline hurt the other person during it. Or maybe I’m not normal and don’t think I’ll ever get it
Make sure to set very firm boundaries with ur partner and if he doesn’t respect them tell him to fuck off and pepper spray him. I know a lot of dudes don’t have the patience so waiting to find the right person is totally the right move in this case.
 
from what I hear anyway most people’s sexual experiences are highly underwhelming. I don’t think anyone is patient enough to understand someone who’s been through trauma related to sexual things either and they end up pushing some sort of narrative that it’s normal to be rough and borderline hurt the other person during it. Or maybe I’m not normal and don’t think I’ll ever get it
It’s not normal to be rough. There isnt (and shouldn’t be) a norm when it comes to that stuff. That’s just a harmful myth that is rotting the brains of many porn addicts. Do not let your mind be enslaved by this notion
 
i would say a red flag is probably if they watch sexually explicit content such as pornography

also maybe if they are regularly argumentative or aggressive towards their mom, thats with the consideration that their mom isnt abusive or something of the sort
 
i would say a red flag is probably if they watch sexually explicit content such as pornography

also maybe if they are regularly argumentative or aggressive towards their mom, thats with the consideration that their mom isnt abusive or something of the sort
i think porn is one of the worst pieces of media to ever grace the human race honestly
 
It’s not normal to be rough. There isnt (and shouldn’t be) a norm when it comes to that stuff. That’s just a harmful myth that is rotting the brains of many porn addicts. Do not let your mind be enslaved by this notion
I hear some girls experiences of their bfs thinking its normal to borderline strangle them during it n it makes me not ever wanna do that w a man ever for fear of them behaving like that cos if they do realistically, i would not be able to defend myself or make them stop
 
I hear some girls experiences of their bfs thinking its normal to borderline strangle them during it n it makes me not ever wanna do that w a man ever for fear of them behaving like that cos if they do realistically, i would not ba able to defend myself or make them stop
Oh my god shit like that makes me so fucking mad you don’t understand. Choking someone is not fucking normal, we are seriously never escaping the patriarchy. This is why I’d rather date a scrawny guy than some jacked one
 

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