Serious Life advice pls

[lotuus]

pls atleast 1 person read n give advice

This guy and I have been friends the past 2 years and he told me he liked me the other day, the whole time.
I’ve liked him since the beginning too, but he wasn’t happy when he told me.
He also found out in that moment that I talked to another guy while we were friends. He was upset I didn’t know he liked me, he said I was oblivious and he seemed seriously sad. He didn’t talk to me for a day, but he’s facetiming me again and saying i love you now.
Theres more context to why he was upset, but I feel like I summarized fine, why was he so upset?
I seriously didn’t know he liked me the whole time.

 

[genio]

There is no logical reason for him to be upset
He sounds like a bad idea

 

[h4untara]

probably thought he was giving you enough signs for you to realise he likes you, and he thought you guys might be in that stage where youre not talking to other people

you two should have a talk im ngl its gonna be awkward but better to establish whats going on that be left clueless

 

[Br4va]

Jsut a little mood swing after hearing the existence of another male in your life. Nun crazy

 

[lotuus]

There is no logical reason for him to be upset
He sounds like a bad idea

we are the same exact person, i have high standards. Wouldn’t talk to him for 2 years if he was a bad idea.

 

[genio]

we are the same exact person, i have high standards. Wouldn’t talk to him for 2 years if he was a bad idea.

Not talking to you for a day then telling you he loves you is some push-pull toxic shit
And getting upset about you being oblivious when he wasn’t even assertive enough to say it explicitly to this point is retarded
Getting upset over talking to other guys while being friends is also idiotic
He just sounds like a r****d lmao

 

[lotuus]

The thing tho. He was mostly upset about the fact I never told him, cause we tell eachother everything. Seriously calling everyday.
THEY ADDED ME TO A SNAPCHAT GC CALL.
The guy I used to talk to and the guy that just said he liked me. They told me I led him on???? It’s not my fault I didn’t know he liked me and never said anything. Right??? @genio @Br4va @h4untara

 

[genio]

probably thought he was giving you enough signs for you to realise he likes you, and

This is all cope
You cant get mad at somebody for being oblivious when you refuse to say it explicitly

he thought you guys might be in that stage where youre not talking to other people

As friends
Thats bullshit

 

[Br4va]

The thing tho. He was mostly upset about the fact I never told him, cause we tell eachother everything. Seriously calling everyday.
THEY ADDED ME TO A SNAPCHAT GC CALL.
The guy I used to talk to and the guy that just said he liked me. They told me I led him on???? It’s not my fault I didn’t know he liked me and never said anything. Right??? @genio @Br4va @h4untara

Did you do anything with the other guy ?

 

[lotuus]

Did you do anything with the other guy ?

never even met him.

 

[h4untara]

The thing tho. He was mostly upset about the fact I never told him, cause we tell eachother everything. Seriously calling everyday.
THEY ADDED ME TO A SNAPCHAT GC CALL.
The guy I used to talk to and the guy that just said he liked me. They told me I led him on???? It’s not my fault I didn’t know he liked me and never said anything. Right??? @genio @Br4va @h4untara

you didnt lead anyone on since you thought you guys were friends. theres was no clear indication or communication about the fact that he liked you or that you liked him.

 

[Br4va]

never even met him.

Brihhhh this kid trippin then

 

[genio]

The thing tho. He was mostly upset about the fact I never told him, cause we tell eachother everything. Seriously calling everyday.
THEY ADDED ME TO A SNAPCHAT GC CALL.
The guy I used to talk to and the guy that just said he liked me. They told me I led him on???? It’s not my fault I didn’t know he liked me and never said anything. Right??? @genio @Br4va @h4untara

No it’s not your fault
This bullshit isnt worth entertaining
It’s only “leading on” if you know they like you and decide to keep doing wtv
If you didnt know, it’s their fault for not explicitly saying shit

 

[h4untara]

This is all cope
You cant get mad at somebody for being oblivious when you refuse to say it explicitly

As friends
Thats bullshit

very true, im only explaining what i think his mindset was, not justifying it.
i think its stupid to think that way since there was no clear indication from either side that theybliked eachother.

 

[lotuus]

No it’s not your fault
This bullshit isnt worth entertaining
It’s only “leading on” if you know they like you and decide to keep doing wtv
If you didnt know, it’s their fault for not explicitly saying shit

Thought I was just being narcissistic to think this. I really did hurt his feelings but I can’t count how many times I said sorry. I think he’s just sensitive, which is cute but at the same time scary. I think they went through old messages on a screenshare between me and the old guy and maybe it just shocked him. I was different I suppose.

 

[genio]

very true, im only explaining what i think his mindset was, not justifying it.
i think its stupid to think that way since there was no clear indication from either side that theybliked eachother.

He’s a r****d wallahi

 

[lotuus]

He’s a r****d wallahi

aye chill tho

 

[genio]

Thought I was just being narcissistic to think this. I really did hurt his feelings but I can’t count how many times I said sorry.

You shouldnt be apologizing for his incompetence

I think he’s just sensitive, which is cute but at the same time scary.

Sensitive men are a horrible idea

 

[lotuus]

You shouldnt be apologizing for his incompetence

Sensitive men are a horrible idea

But I love him

 

[genio]

But I love him

You can love someone while acknowledging their red flags and making a logical decision

 

[lotuus]

You can love someone while acknowledging their red flags and making a logical decision

I don’t think I could find someone better.
He’s like 5’7, I seriously love him.

 

[genio]

I don’t think I could find someone better.

How attractive is this n***a
Dude 99% of women who say this are just caught up in the heat of the moment
There is always better

He’s like 5’7, I seriously love him.

@trvecel height mention out of nowhere ts proves that height is always relevant

 

[trvecel]

@trvecel height mention out of nowhere ts proves that height is always relevant

Over for manlets

 

[genio]

Over for manlets

Like me

 

[lotuus]

How attractive is this n***a
Dude 99% of women who say this are just caught up in the heat of the moment
There is always better

very cute. I’ve known him for 2 years, I dont think its heat of the moment.

Over for manlets

I’m 5’10 jeet stfu
manlets should stop crying on forums and go get them some.

 

[trvecel]

manlets should stop crying on forums and go get them some.

What to do when subhuman and every girl thinks youre a creep for talking to em irl?

 

[lotuus]

What to do when subhuman and every girl thinks youre a creep for talking to em irl?

Was half a joke, I know it’s more complicated than that. If ur sub then reach your max and if thats still not enough THEN you can rope

 

[genio]

very cute. I’ve known him for 2 years, I dont think its heat of the moment.

Just the word “cute” means he isnt that rare of a catch

I’m 5’10 jeet stfu
manlets should stop crying on forums and go get them some.

In an experiment where women decided which men they would date based off physical looks and job descriptions, they would only pick the 5’3 or 5’ man if every other man had committed atrocities even if the short man was a millionaire

 

[trvecel]

In an experiment where women decided which men they would date based off physical looks and job descriptions, they would only pick the 5’3 or 5’ man if every other man had committed atrocities even if the short man was a millionaire

 

[genio]

im so gay

 

[lotuus]

Just the word “cute” means he isnt that rare of a catch

I could use a lot more descriptions of what he is, but why are looks important rn??

In an experiment where women decided which men they would date based off physical looks and job descriptions, they would only pick the 5’3 or 5’ man if every other man had committed atrocities even if the short man was a millionaire

bullshit, link it

 

[genio]

I could use a lot more descriptions of what he is, but why are looks important rn??

Looks are the basis of all attraction

bullshit, link it

 

[esoteric]

childish for him to be mad or upset about it but understandable he thought that you could tell he liked you and reciprocated i personally wouldnt date but you can and see how it turns out you're young

 

[lotuus]

Looks are the basis of all attraction

You exaggerated it but yea

 

[genio]

You exaggerated it but yea

I literally didnt exaggerate at all
@trvecel