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Looksmaxxing is genuinely a waste of your life

Mogden

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It’s self-explanatory. You get one life. You have very little control over anything but you can control your happiness.

Now you could choose to be blackpilled, looksmax, maybe even get surgery. You develop body dysmorphia. You wanna rip your face off because the more you look in the mirror, the more you hate yourself. You micro analyze every flaw. You let comparison steal your joy.

Your looks won’t hold 10-20 years from now. That’s not even halfway through your life. Whatchu gonna do when you see yourself age? When your metabolism slows down? When the world forgets you exist because you aren’t young anymore.

Better yet, what if you get into a car crash tomorrow and your face is permanently ruined. Or you get burned.


In the bigger picture, looks don’t matter. Getting pussy doesn’t matter (especially when it costs you your peace). Mogging other people doesn’t matter.

We are all going to DIE.

Having good looks doesn’t mean you’re life’s favorite, it means you get objectified and sexualized by everyone. Life doesn’t have favorites. That’s why life isn’t fair.
 
Looks = better life quality

Just don't get obsessive over it when I was at my peak looks and looksmaxxed hard I was probably my happiest and healthiest
If “better life quality” to you is only being wanted for external reasons, being sexualized, and being used, then yeah I guess it can
 
If “better life quality” to you is only being wanted for external reasons, being sexualized, and being used, then yeah I guess it can
No gives you more chance of being hired for a job, getting a pay raise

If you're ugly you will get comments about it, if you're attractive people will be nicer to you (random strangers btw)

Also improves dating pool whether you like it or not looks matter for a relationship
 
No gives you more chance of being hired for a job, getting a pay raise

If you're ugly you will get comments about it, if you're attractive people will be nicer to you (random strangers btw)

Also improves dating pool whether you like it or not looks matter for a relationship
I hate to break it to you but unless you’re trying to be a waitress or a stripper, being qualified for the job is what carries. Also, people don’t go around calling people ugly irl. And some of the most stable relationships are between mid people because attractive people date to make themselves feel better.
 
I hate to break it to you but unless you’re trying to be a waitress or a stripper, being qualified for the job is what carries. Also, people don’t go around calling people ugly irl. And some of the most stable relationships are between mid people because attractive people date to make themselves feel better.
I'm saying this as someone who had ascended a good tier myself people do call you ugly irl, I remember one time where a group of people from school walked past me and called me fugly to my face (5 to 10 people mind you and non of them said a word to defend me)

About the jobs there are studies that prove that looks matter for every job pretty much

The last section is just cope why would u wanna date someone mid + you're more likely to be cheated on and get worse treatment (again talking from experience)
 
most people here have severe body dysmorphia that surgery won't fix.

but looks are important and carrying oneself better can be a big help.
 
I'm saying this as someone who had ascended a good tier myself people do call you ugly irl, I remember one time where a group of people from school walked past me and called me fugly to my face (5 to 10 people mind you and non of them said a word to defend me)

About the jobs there are studies that prove that looks matter for every job pretty much

The last section is just cope why would u wanna date someone mid + you're more likely to be cheated on and get worse treatment (again talking from experience)
I mean when both partners are mid. And yes that’s changing due to hookup culture making 5s feel like 10s. I’m sorry that you got called ugly by a big group like that. That’s not normal at all. Additionally, if you’re talking about a job at McDonalds then sure. But if you’re trying to be an investment banker, you’ll need more qualifications than a nice jawline.
 
most people here have severe body dysmorphia that surgery won't fix.

but looks are important and carrying oneself better can be a big help.
Except we’ve missed the plot bro. It’s not about ascending our natural looks anymore. Everyone wants to look like the same person
 
Except we’ve missed the plot bro. It’s not about ascending our natural looks anymore. Everyone wants to look like the same person
fair. a society where everyone looks like Jordan Barrett is nightmare fuel. that probably wasn't your point but the "end goal" of looksmaxxing is impossible and bleak if achieved
 
fair. a society where everyone looks like Jordan Barrett is nightmare fuel. that probably wasn't your point but the "end goal" of looksmaxxing is impossible and bleak if achieved
The end goal of blackpill* looksmaxxing was always about making you feel better about how YOU looked.
 
It’s self-explanatory. You get one life. You have very little control over anything but you can control your happiness.

Now you could choose to be blackpilled, looksmax, maybe even get surgery. You develop body dysmorphia. You wanna rip your face off because the more you look in the mirror, the more you hate yourself. You micro analyze every flaw. You let comparison steal your joy.

Your looks won’t hold 10-20 years from now. That’s not even halfway through your life. Whatchu gonna do when you see yourself age? When your metabolism slows down? When the world forgets you exist because you aren’t young anymore.

Better yet, what if you get into a car crash tomorrow and your face is permanently ruined. Or you get burned.


In the bigger picture, looks don’t matter. Getting pussy doesn’t matter (especially when it costs you your peace). Mogging other people doesn’t matter.

We are all going to DIE.

Having good looks doesn’t mean you’re life’s favorite, it means you get objectified and sexualized by everyone. Life doesn’t have favorites. That’s why life isn’t fair.
But goatis said point of life is reproduction 🥺
 
In the bigger picture, looks don’t matter. Getting pussy doesn’t matter (especially when it costs you your peace). Mogging other people doesn’t matter.
That's why basic softmaxx & lifemaxxing are more important
 
learn about what actually matters and live for yourself. Do what you love. Stop giving a fuck. Either way the clock is ticking and time is running out.
I hate these simplistic “solutions”
 
You won’t learn the lesson until after you’ve wasted most of your time and energy. Good luck
Good luck to you

Your “solution” has many ifs
If this and if that, if that or that again... maybe I could try practising 'stop giving a fuck'


Mind you: I don't disagree with “don't fixate on looksmaxxing”

I'll go around wearing a mask
 
It’s self-explanatory. You get one life. You have very little control over anything but you can control your happiness.

Now you could choose to be blackpilled, looksmax, maybe even get surgery. You develop body dysmorphia. You wanna rip your face off because the more you look in the mirror, the more you hate yourself. You micro analyze every flaw. You let comparison steal your joy.

Your looks won’t hold 10-20 years from now. That’s not even halfway through your life. Whatchu gonna do when you see yourself age? When your metabolism slows down? When the world forgets you exist because you aren’t young anymore.

Better yet, what if you get into a car crash tomorrow and your face is permanently ruined. Or you get burned.


In the bigger picture, looks don’t matter. Getting pussy doesn’t matter (especially when it costs you your peace). Mogging other people doesn’t matter.

We are all going to DIE.

Having good looks doesn’t mean you’re life’s favorite, it means you get objectified and sexualized by everyone. Life doesn’t have favorites. That’s why life isn’t fair.
Only thread I ever saw in this forum worth a gold star shit actually made me question my goal n Shiet
 
It’s self-explanatory. You get one life. You have very little control over anything but you can control your happiness.

Now you could choose to be blackpilled, looksmax, maybe even get surgery. You develop body dysmorphia. You wanna rip your face off because the more you look in the mirror, the more you hate yourself. You micro analyze every flaw. You let comparison steal your joy.

Your looks won’t hold 10-20 years from now. That’s not even halfway through your life. Whatchu gonna do when you see yourself age? When your metabolism slows down? When the world forgets you exist because you aren’t young anymore.

Better yet, what if you get into a car crash tomorrow and your face is permanently ruined. Or you get burned.


In the bigger picture, looks don’t matter. Getting pussy doesn’t matter (especially when it costs you your peace). Mogging other people doesn’t matter.

We are all going to DIE.

Having good looks doesn’t mean you’re life’s favorite, it means you get objectified and sexualized by everyone. Life doesn’t have favorites. That’s why life isn’t fair.
If you are more attractive you are treated better and I want to be treated better
 
I'm saying this as someone who had ascended a good tier myself people do call you ugly irl, I remember one time where a group of people from school walked past me and called me fugly to my face (5 to 10 people mind you and non of them said a word to defend me)

About the jobs there are studies that prove that looks matter for every job pretty much

The last section is just cope why would u wanna date someone mid + you're more likely to be cheated on and get worse treatment (again talking from experience)
damn so u ascended?
 
If you are more attractive you are treated better and I want to be treated better
You’ll only be treated better because they want something from you. They don’t see you as a person
 
You’ll only be treated better because they want something from you. They don’t see you as a person
is that not what everyone wants from someone
 
is that not what everyone wants from someone
When you’re attractive in any regard you get fetishized, objectified, and seen as a piece of meat. Women get predatory. And yeah that looks appealing if you’ve never had that but it gets old fast and then you realize no one will actually see you or want to see you for who you are
 
When you’re attractive in any regard you get fetishized, objectified, and seen as a piece of meat. Women get predatory. And yeah that looks appealing if you’ve never had that but it gets old fast and then you realize no one will actually see you or want to see you for who you are
bro ive ascended a good amount and i get treated much better than i did when i was a ltn
 
bro ive ascended a good amount and i get treated much better than i did when i was a ltn
I ascended too. But the average experience is being objectified.
 
i would rather be objectified than looked down on
Buddy. They don’t care enough to look down on anyone. They have their own lives and we have ours. Ask yourself: was all this time and attention you put on blackpill really worth it? Was it worth fucking up your self image for the rest of your life?
 
Buddy. They don’t care enough to look down on anyone. They have their own lives and we have ours. Ask yourself: was all this time and attention you put on blackpill really worth it? Was it worth fucking up your self image for the rest of your life?
yes it is worth it in my experience i have been treated much better and been more respected
 
Buddy. They don’t care enough to look down on anyone. They have their own lives and we have ours. Ask yourself: was all this time and attention you put on blackpill really worth it? Was it worth fucking up your self image for the rest of your life?
maybe you havnt ascended enough if you dont feel the same way
 
what are you trying to say lowkey? that doing this thing is bad cus you think that or cus thats like drugs and has only everything bad happen, like come on ugly people are treated bad and good looking treated better thats just common sense
 
wth are you doin go work go study why did you even done that waste of time bro whole alot of nothing you trying to proof
10/10 ragebait, im a student at uni
 

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