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A lot of you are treating looksmaxxing like its going to save your dating lives & ts isnt fr. my favorite example is clavicular, you guys actually think that guy has sex so im just going to end the thesis here.
Here’s what you’re not understanding:
1. You are not rare just because you improved your looks.
You got lean, fixed your skin, upgraded your style… cool.
So did I n***a. Hell I was born like this. you have achieved something to rest of us were born with
There are millions of good-looking people. You are not automatically special because you’re one of them.
2. If you don’t have personality, you’re instantly replaceable.
If your vibe is:
3. Your Scarcity mindset is making you act worse.
A lot of you move like every interaction is your last chance:
4. Abundance mindset isn’t cope; it’s leverage.
When you genuinely understand there are options:
Yes i understand we all hate hypergamy,
but like are you going to sit here crying about it or are we going to start slaying these foids.
5. Looks get attention. Personality + mindset will keep it.
You can get noticed off looks yes. you can walk in the foor congrats
But if you can’t:
A good-looking guy with a bad vibe loses to a slightly less attractive guy with confidence and presence all the time. i know half of you mfks on this forum are hitlerlites so heres a great real word example;
i slayed this white foid like 2 nights ago & im mtn @ best. letting a n****r out slay you is crazy dog ngl.
7. You’re maxing one stat and wondering why you’re still losing.
Looksmaxxing = opportunity
mindset = consistency
Personality + mindset = results
Ignoring that is why you stay stuck in virgin hell.
If you actually want to fix it:
There are a million good-looking people.
If that’s all you bring, you’re replaceable.
Build personality. Build mindset. Or keep wondering why nothing changes. you need both
Here’s what you’re not understanding:
1. You are not rare just because you improved your looks.
You got lean, fixed your skin, upgraded your style… cool.
So did I n***a. Hell I was born like this. you have achieved something to rest of us were born with
There are millions of good-looking people. You are not automatically special because you’re one of them.
2. If you don’t have personality, you’re instantly replaceable.
If your vibe is:
- low t (unless you have a low dimo then you can't be too high t or people think you're compensating)
- awkward
- low confidence
- negative
- just dont be you bro fr. lock ts in
3. Your Scarcity mindset is making you act worse.
A lot of you move like every interaction is your last chance:
- overthinking everything
- acting desperate
- getting attached too fast
- stuttering like a lil r****d
- attention seeking
4. Abundance mindset isn’t cope; it’s leverage.
When you genuinely understand there are options:
- you stop acting desperate
- you take rejection normally
- you come off calmer and more confident
Yes i understand we all hate hypergamy,
but like are you going to sit here crying about it or are we going to start slaying these foids.
5. Looks get attention. Personality + mindset will keep it.
You can get noticed off looks yes. you can walk in the foor congrats
But if you can’t:
- hold a conversation
- bring good energy
- make someone feel comfortable or excited
- MAKE HER CLIMAX
- control the pace of conversation
- deal with AMOG (cause ngl i think its funny when i take someone bitch right in front of them)
- [ill do a thread on amog tech one day]
- close out & get the number
A good-looking guy with a bad vibe loses to a slightly less attractive guy with confidence and presence all the time. i know half of you mfks on this forum are hitlerlites so heres a great real word example;
i slayed this white foid like 2 nights ago & im mtn @ best. letting a n****r out slay you is crazy dog ngl.
7. You’re maxing one stat and wondering why you’re still losing.
Looksmaxxing = opportunity
mindset = consistency
Personality + mindset = results
Ignoring that is why you stay stuck in virgin hell.
If you actually want to fix it:
- Talk to people daily (stop hiding behind theory)
- Fix your posture, eye contact, and tone
- Drop the “this is my only chance” mindset
- Stop doomposting; it leaks into how you act
- Get used to rejection so it stops controlling you
- understand that "she's just a foid / "he's just a moid"
There are a million good-looking people.
If that’s all you bring, you’re replaceable.
Build personality. Build mindset. Or keep wondering why nothing changes. you need both