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Love is not real

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Water thread but who cares.

Anytime I start believing that true love exists, something goes south. The only couple that made me yearn for the feeling of love and being loved, broke up. Now, I feel broken and disappointed like I was the one that got cheated on. Men and women are NOT to be trusted. In this moment, I’m wallowing in the misery of others while they’re fixing things, like some useless human sponge. My existence really serves no purpose besides absorbing the energy around me.
 
It's like every time you let your guard down, life throws it back in your face.
Becomes so hard to be normal and fit in jfl. I feel my light dimming each day, and I’m really tired of pretending. I was willing to give love another shot, but I’d rather hold my rather extreme views on love then be disappointed. Again.
 
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Shit thread, it exists
It exists, sure but not in the way you believe it does. “I love you” but they don’t believe you’re the best looking person. “I love you” but once your beauty fades, so does their love. “I love you” but once you’re bankrupt of all your money, you’re bankrupt of their love type shit
 
Becomes so hard to be normal and fit in jfl. I feel my light dimming each day, and I’m really tired of pretending. I was willing to give love another shot, but I’d rather hold my rather extreme views on love then be disappointed. Again.
sounds like you need to find a person as intense as you are, or the opposite. somebody that can constantly bring you back down and ground you. hope it happens one day bud
 
Becomes so hard to be normal and fit in jfl. I feel my light dimming each day, and I’m really tired of pretending. I was willing to give love another shot, but I’d rather hold my rather extreme views on love then be disappointed. Again.
You should watch a movie named "About a Boy (2002)"

Don't know if you're a movie guy, but that movie is good adjacent to thinking like this but comes with a brighter light. I believe what you say has truth but in this world shit like this don't come easy and it's moments where you have to try to fulfill things that make them special instead of watching from the background observing something you are too scared to fulfill yourself.
 
It exists, sure but not in the way you believe it does. “I love you” but they don’t believe you’re the best looking person. “I love you” but once your beauty fades, so does their love. “I love you” but once you’re bankrupt of all your money, you’re bankrupt of their love type shit
Loving doesn't mean living in delusion, wtf?

Well it's not always the case. Obviously if a circumstance goes to shit, it's better to leave(gold diggers for example). It's a bit nuanced, bud.
 
I find these defeatist comments every time a small or big hiccup happens... boring

I’m captivated by the dark side of things: I don’t like it, but I vicariously observe its charm
withdralws make me gay but soon i man up back again
 
It exists, sure but not in the way you believe it does. “I love you” but they don’t believe you’re the best looking person. “I love you” but once your beauty fades, so does their love. “I love you” but once you’re bankrupt of all your money, you’re bankrupt of their love type shit
well then that isn’t true love and im sorry you feel this way
 
It exists, sure but not in the way you believe it does. “I love you” but they don’t believe you’re the best looking person. “I love you” but once your beauty fades, so does their love. “I love you” but once you’re bankrupt of all your money, you’re bankrupt of their love type shit
love is conditional, but not all conditions are equal. most shouldn't dictate how one lives for another, but they can still affect whether someone stays. many factors can lead two people to part ways, even if love remains. love is real of course and you know that, but it seems like you carry doubts about relationships, and how fragile words can be when reality shifts. actions matter too
 
Loving doesn't mean living in delusion, wtf?

Well it's not always the case. Obviously if a circumstance goes to shit, it's better to leave(gold diggers for example). It's a bit nuanced, bud.
How is that delusional? I tend to love people in all their dimensions, and I become blind to their flaws… however, I feel like love like mine is impossible to find me.
 
How is that delusional? I tend to love people in all their dimensions, and I become blind to their flaws… however, I feel like love like mine is impossible to find me.
So your argument is that love never shatters, when a girl gets abusive and starts to beat the shit out of you, and your kids. You should still love her, even when this fault surfaces?

Yeah, you're kinda retarded, if you define it that way.
 
Water thread but who cares.

Anytime I start believing that true love exists, something goes south. The only couple that made me yearn for the feeling of love and being loved, broke up. Now, I feel broken and disappointed like I was the one that got cheated on. Men and women are NOT to be trusted. In this moment, I’m wallowing in the misery of others while they’re fixing things, like some useless human sponge. My existence really serves no purpose besides absorbing the energy around me.
Me too
 
So your argument is that love never shatters, when a girl gets abusive and starts to beat the shit out of you, and your kids. You should still love her, even when this fault surfaces?

Yeah, you're kinda retarded, if you define it that way.
Come on… Abuse is not love. r**e is not love. Blackmail is not love. You’re dumb for using such examples to argue with me.
 
Come on… Abuse is not love. r**e is not love. Blackmail is not love. You’re dumb for using such examples to argue with me.
Nope, my argument was a clear reductio ad absurdum from your definition of "true love."
 
So your argument is that love never shatters, when a girl gets abusive and starts to beat the shit out of you, and your kids. You should still love her, even when this fault surfaces?

Yeah, you're kinda retarded, if you define it that way.
Ironic calling him the retarded one, it’s rlly easy to understand what he means. Unconditional love is unconditional love, the fault doesn’t classify as love. Even a child knows this
 
i agree completely with this i don't trust anyone romantically genuinely also i love your zizek pfp
 
Ironic calling him the retarded one, it’s rlly easy to understand what he means. Unconditional love is unconditional love, the fault doesn’t classify as love. Even a child knows this
I'm sorry if you don't understand how his definition works. I'm not the r****d here, bud
 

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