Discussion Lust is disgusting and the internet makes it destroy your mind

[Not2beau]

I genuinly feel disgusted after having lustfull thoughts or actions, I can't scroll ig reels without getting some gooner baiting foid on my feed even though i don't watch that stuff(israel all i'm saying). It makes romantic connections feel meaningless and empty imagine not being able to be around them without thinking about 1 thing the entire time and that being the main purpose of them being in your life and not because you actually enjoy their company or feel at home with them. I've had this recent awakening about not wanting to associate myself with anything like that anymore and letting societal norms trap me into believing you need to 'slay as many as possible' cause it really numbs you down and effects future relationships, I've had phases where i struggle immensly with lust and i've also been in controle for long periods, it's like an addiction you can relapse, and the quitting part always comes with wanting it but not immediatly being able to which bring a feeling of guilt . it's so common but so much more harmfull than people realise. The invention of the internet is the main cause of this increase in degeneracy, it gives access sometimes from a very young age to stuff that really corrupts your mind and people from before the internet didn't have this problem, people who promote this and benefit from this degenracy like people who do onlyfans are morally absent and the people who feed in to it are their victims .

I could keep going about the effects of the internet and social media, like how we meme about the increase in hypergamous foids...

 

[lowkeydeadoutside]

All good I’ll never have a partner anyways

 

[junebug]

I genuinly feel disgusted after having lustfull thoughts or actions, I can't scroll ig reels without getting some gooner baiting foid on my feed even though i don't watch that stuff(israel all i'm saying). It makes romantic connections feel meaningless and empty imagine not being able to be around them without thinking about 1 thing the entire time and that being the main purpose of them being in your life and not because you actually enjoy their company or feel at home with them. I've had this recent awakening about not wanting to associate myself with anything like that anymore and letting societal norms trap me into believing you need to 'slay as many as possible' cause it really numbs you down and effects future relationships, I've had phases where i struggle immensly with lust and i've also been in controle for long periods, it's like an addiction you can relapse, and the quitting part always comes with wanting it but not immediatly being able to which bring a feeling of guilt . it's so common but so much more harmfull than people realise. The invention of the internet is the main cause of this increase in degeneracy, it gives access sometimes from a very young age to stuff that really corrupts your mind and people from before the internet didn't have this problem, people who promote this and benefit from this degenracy like people who do onlyfans are morally absent and the people who feed in to it are their victims .

I could keep going about the effects of the internet and social media, like how we meme about the increase in hypergamous foids...

same
if my future partner ends up being a porn addict I will kill myself

 

[Not2beau]

All good I’ll never have a partner anyways

So, the point is it's cancer for the mind. Being lustful is unavoidable but how people cope with it is unhealthy and unnatural. even if you'll never have a partner you shouldn't be poisoning yourself.

 

[_x11]

I genuinly feel disgusted after having lustfull thoughts or actions, I can't scroll ig reels without getting some gooner baiting foid on my feed even though i don't watch that stuff(israel all i'm saying). It makes romantic connections feel meaningless and empty imagine not being able to be around them without thinking about 1 thing the entire time and that being the main purpose of them being in your life and not because you actually enjoy their company or feel at home with them. I've had this recent awakening about not wanting to associate myself with anything like that anymore and letting societal norms trap me into believing you need to 'slay as many as possible' cause it really numbs you down and effects future relationships, I've had phases where i struggle immensly with lust and i've also been in controle for long periods, it's like an addiction you can relapse, and the quitting part always comes with wanting it but not immediatly being able to which bring a feeling of guilt . it's so common but so much more harmfull than people realise. The invention of the internet is the main cause of this increase in degeneracy, it gives access sometimes from a very young age to stuff that really corrupts your mind and people from before the internet didn't have this problem, people who promote this and benefit from this degenracy like people who do onlyfans are morally absent and the people who feed in to it are their victims .

I could keep going about the effects of the internet and social media, like how we meme about the increase in hypergamous foids...

Why shame yourself for it thats stupid

 

[Not2beau]

same
if my future partner ends up being a porn addict I will kill myself

Any relationship where one person has an active addiction sush as a porn addiction is bound to miserably fail in many possible ways.

 

[Not2beau]

Why shame yourself for it thats stupid

Because shame is the first step to helping yourself, if you don't feel shame there's no end and i'm not going into detail what kind of person these people become or what they do.

 

[_x11]

Because shame is the first step to helping yourself, if you don't feel shame there's no end and i'm not going into detail what kind of person these people become or what they do.

I don't feel shame

 

[Not2beau]

I don't feel shame

About what do you not feel shame ?

 

[_x11]

About what do you not feel shame ?

Lust

 

[Not2beau]

Lust

Well lust is unavoidable like I said but it depends on how unhealthy it has gotten for you , for some people it controls their lives. Saying you should feel ashamed for lust is like saying you should feel ashamed with sexuality. My thread is about how lust is bad when it gets to an unhealthy point and that modern technology is the main cause. I'm sure you'd be ashamed if people knew what kind of porn you watched how many times , if they knew all the people you've had sexual interactions with, the sexual acts you've done physically or maybe even virtually ... When lust is limited to sexuality it's nothing to be ashamed off but when it evolves into degenracy not being ashamed of that makes it endless and destroys the mind.

 

[Pinksunglasses]

I genuinly feel disgusted after having lustfull thoughts or actions, I can't scroll ig reels without getting some gooner baiting foid on my feed even though i don't watch that stuff(israel all i'm saying). It makes romantic connections feel meaningless and empty imagine not being able to be around them without thinking about 1 thing the entire time and that being the main purpose of them being in your life and not because you actually enjoy their company or feel at home with them. I've had this recent awakening about not wanting to associate myself with anything like that anymore and letting societal norms trap me into believing you need to 'slay as many as possible' cause it really numbs you down and effects future relationships, I've had phases where i struggle immensly with lust and i've also been in controle for long periods, it's like an addiction you can relapse, and the quitting part always comes with wanting it but not immediatly being able to which bring a feeling of guilt . it's so common but so much more harmfull than people realise. The invention of the internet is the main cause of this increase in degeneracy, it gives access sometimes from a very young age to stuff that really corrupts your mind and people from before the internet didn't have this problem, people who promote this and benefit from this degenracy like people who do onlyfans are morally absent and the people who feed in to it are their victims .

I could keep going about the effects of the internet and social media, like how we meme about the increase in hypergamous foids...

Respect to u for pointing that stuff out man it’s deff not healthy at all especially for future rls

 

[Not2beau]

Respect to u for pointing that stuff out man it’s deff not healthy at all especially for future rls

Yeah it's sad thats it's so common.

 

[Pinksunglasses]

Yeah it's sad thats it's so common.

Aye only thing we can do is better ourselves man