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[Luxe]

being thankful for the good not the same as saying "oh goodness im glad it wasn't me"

Correct, what were saying is be positive because you have it better then most of the world

 

[Thinasadime]

I don’t cry over shit because I don’t care enough but ignoring other people suffering just because others are having it worse is definitely not a good thing

seeing both good and bad to something is not ignoring it, rather looking at it from a perspective that isn't black and white

 

[1894]

Who said anything about ignoring bro

You just made an extreme analogy like the one I made before implying that don’t feel cry over things because others are having it worse than you

 

[Thinasadime]

seeing both good and bad to something is not ignoring it, rather looking at it from a perspective that isn't black and white

probably more involved than just going "well fuck that's unfortunate"

 

[1894]

being thankful for the good not the same as saying "oh goodness im glad it wasn't me"

Yah but you just did the second one both of you actually

 

[Luxe]

seeing both good and bad to something is not ignoring it, rather looking at it from a perspective that isn't black and white

Ye

like I said before
911
Bad: tons of innocent people died
Good: improved airline security around the world

Just make sure to look at both the good and the bad, if there is an imbalance it can be bad

 

[1894]

probably more involved than just going "well fuck that's unfortunate"

That sounds better than saying thank god this wasn’t me

 

[Thinasadime]

Yah but you just did the second one both of you actually

where

 

[Luxe]

You just made an extreme analogy like the one I made before implying that don’t feel cry over things because others are having it worse than you

Dude do t you think it’s a little disrespectful when you only look at the negative of small issues to people with real problems like lack of food or safe water

 

[1894]

where

I just showed you up there when you said “ ong “ to what op wrote

 

[Luxe]

That sounds better than saying thank god this wasn’t me

Your saying we shouldn’t be thankful for a peaceful life?

 

[Luxe]

I just showed you up there when you said “ ong “ to what op wrote

Still not showing it btw

 

[1894]

Dude do t you think it’s a little disrespectful when you only look at the negative of small issues to people with real problems like lack of food or safe water

I don’t think people having emotions is disrespectful jfl, yes there are priorities ofc but people emotions are valid

 

[1894]

Still not showing it btw

What

Your saying we shouldn’t be thankful for a peaceful life?

im done with you both tbh

 

[Luxe]

I don’t think people having emotions is disrespectful jfl, yes there are priorities ofc but people emotions are valid

I literally said being sad about something is fine but you need to looks at the good and the bad

Your example was shitty because

Getting graped
Bad: unfathomable experience that will likely leave mental and physical scars
Good: you have access to clean fresh water and food, your family wasn’t graped and you weren’t killed

 

[Thinasadime]

I don’t think people having emotions is disrespectful jfl, yes there are priorities ofc but people emotions are valid

imo emotions are valid, people likely have it worse but that doesn't mean you can't feel the same way they do

OVERALL, having a positive or multi-faceted outlook regardless of the situation will have a better psycchological outcome

Prioritizing Positivity: An Effective Approach to Pursuing Happiness? - PMC

A decade of research reveals the benefits of positive emotions for mental and physical health; however, recent empirical work suggests the explicit pursuit of happiness may backfire. The present study hypothesized that the pursuit of happiness is ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2306295121

When Feeling Bad Can Be Good: Mixed Emotions Benefit Physical Health Across Adulthood - PMC

Traditional models of emotion–health interactions have emphasized the deleterious effects of negative emotions on physical health. More recently, researchers have turned to potential benefits of positive emotions on physical health as well. Both ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[Luxe]

What

im done with you both tbh

Finally

This says a lot abt you btw, you sound like a white privileged prick dude. Be thankful for the things you have because most people have it worse

 

[Thinasadime]

regardless of 99.999% of this tread and its tangents

seeing the positive is better for you.

 

[Luxe]

OVERALL, having a positive or multi-faceted outlook regardless of the situation will have a better psycchological outcome

That was the main claim in the beginning of the tread

If your brain looks at things positively your surroundings tend to get better

 

[Thinasadime]

That was the main claim in the beginning of the tread

If your brain looks at things positively your surroundings tend to get better

Genuinely

mindset is so imporant and it is something that you have the power to change

i made this thread ealier you might be interested

you are probably ruining ur own life rn

May 4, 2026

stop asking for advice if you aren't willing to come across some hard pills to swallow

stop hearing only what YOU want to hear

stop feeling sorry for yourself

get off your ass

if you want to see change you need to CHANGE THINGS

the longer you sit around and wait, and the longer you let yourself believe that situations aren't in your control, the longer you will be MISERABLE for

stop asking "why does this always happen to me?" and start asking "why am I still letting this happen?"

bring your locus of control inward, allow yourself to make progress

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[Luxe]

Genuinely

mindset is so imporant and it is something that you have the power to change

i made this thread ealier you might be interested

you are probably ruining ur own life rn

May 4, 2026

stop asking for advice if you aren't willing to come across some hard pills to swallow

stop hearing only what YOU want to hear

stop feeling sorry for yourself

get off your ass

if you want to see change you need to CHANGE THINGS

the longer you sit around and wait, and the longer you let yourself believe that situations aren't in your control, the longer you will be MISERABLE for

stop asking "why does this always happen to me?" and start asking "why am I still letting this happen?"

bring your locus of control inward, allow yourself to make progress

• Thinasadime
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Great tread tbh

 

[Thinasadime]

Great tread tbh

i hope people will realize that in 90% of cases they are really the only thing holding themselves back

 

[Luxe]

i hope people will realize that in 90% of cases they are really the only thing holding themselves back

Couldn’t agree more

It’s insane how much our brain controls our perception

 

[Thinasadime]

Couldn’t agree more

It’s insane how much our brain controls our perception

YES
people are capable of so much and it pains me to see them boil success down to luck and just wallow in their own hopelessness

 

[Luxe]

YES
people are capable of so much and it pains me to see them boil success down to luck and just wallow in their own hopelessness

The schools need to teach truth nukes like this