men don’t like me because I’m boring

[evie]

Im not sexual and I don’t have interests in any sexual stuff I think that’s the main factor why I can’t keep a guy, I complain about men yet do nothing to improve myself to appeal to them, Im awkward and don’t know the cues to social interactions nor do I even talk to people irl I switched from real school to online just so I could get away from people, my standards aren’t really high I just want respect honesty and loyalty I don’t care for looks, Im attractive in a uncanny way I think, I don’t really know how to flirt or hint to things and I don’t know when a guy just wants nudes, I’ve had 3 bfs irl and I’ve been cheated on in each with a better girl, I could think a guys attractive and he could like me or want to be with me and I would accept but I wouldn’t fall in love or show interest/affection because I don’t know how to and end up getting left, my grandpa and dad have been diagnosed with schizophrenia so of course I was evaluated and prescribed on olanzapine that I don’t take because I don’t believe they tested me correctly, I don’t think I’ll get married or find a guy who actually loves me for me because it doesn’t exist or I’ll just self sabotage

 

[geneticCage]

I only read the first few words
But I'm not much sexual either! (Ignore I just jerked off 10 minutes ago)
And I'm 15
So maybe try to get with a 15 years olds

 

[evie]

I only read the first few words
But I'm not much sexual either! (Ignore I just jerked off 10 minutes ago)
And I'm 15
So maybe try to get with a 15 years olds

Im 15 in a week and most 15 yo boys aren’t very mature

 

[geneticCage]

Im 15 in a week and most 15 yo boys aren’t very mature

Well what do you expect
We're young and testosterone goes brrr
I'm only mature in private
And whenever Im with friends not really because I don't have to

 

[Randomized]

As annoying as this is to hear, dating and relationships become a lot easier and better when you get older. Teenager stuff always sucks and you'd have more options as an adult.

 

[evie]

Well what do you expect
We're young and testosterone goes brrr
I'm only mature in private
And whenever Im with friends not really because I don't have to

which means I won’t find someone who actually gets me Im not dating to just date Im dating to marry lol I don’t want to waste my time

 

[geneticCage]

As annoying as this is to hear, dating and relationships become a lot easier and better when you get older. Teenager stuff always sucks and you'd have more options as an adult.

Yeah, and it's good to know almost all teenage relationships don't last long.
That's why I think it's pointless to be with someone at that age.

 

[geneticCage]

which means I won’t find someone who actually gets me Im not dating to just date Im dating to marry lol I don’t want to waste my time

You'll find someone, just not now.
I'm dating to marry too (or, if I will ascend, I will geomaxx and slay in different countries).

 

[adn]

water advice but don’t date until u acc respect ur self and also have hobbies
bc then you’ll find ppl will naturally gravitate towards u and won’t find u boring

 

[evie]

water advice but don’t date until u acc respect ur self and also have hobbies
bc then you’ll find ppl will naturally gravitate towards u and won’t find u boring

I respect myself I’ve learned to not obsess over my exes and I don’t cry anymore nor do I get attached to people as easily as I did b4 i don’t talk to guys who are only lustful because I know what will happen i used to b a major slut and just talk to guys and now I don’t talk to anyone i deaduzz just think I’m better alone now that I’m thinking about it

 

[adn]

I respect myself I’ve learned to not obsess over my exes and I don’t cry anymore nor do I get attached to people as easily as I did b4 i don’t talk to guys who are only lustful because I know what will happen i used to b a major slut and just talk to guys and now I don’t talk to anyone i deaduzz just think I’m better alone now that I’m thinking about it

that’s real j wait for the right person honestly

 

[Randomized]

As a teen, I didn't know what I wanted besides what other dumb teens who also didn't know what they wanted told me what I should want.

I had no hobbies, no interests, I was a gross kid as most teen boys are, I couldn't see having genuine relationships with girls because everyone had to be someone I was destined to be in some relationship with, etc.

Most teen boys are cringe like that. The Internet just made it a lot worst because instead of other boys and TV it's retarded influencers with podcasts.

The issue is not you, it's normal for a teen girl to be kind of 'boring', to not think about sex 24/7, to want to find genuine affection and so on. It's normal for you to struggle to change yourself to be who you want to be because you're a kid who controls legitimately nothing else in her life; You don't decide where to live or what school you attend or what you eat or what money is spent on.

It gets easier when you get older because you'd have options outside of boys in your school and you could make change you'd want to see.

 

[Chifuyu]

Im not sexual and I don’t have interests in any sexual stuff I think that’s the main factor why I can’t keep a guy

(I’m not trying anything here)

Ideal for me. I wouldn’t get rid of someone for being like that. I’m kind of the same way.

 

[evie]

As a teen, I didn't know what I wanted besides what other dumb teens who also didn't know what they wanted told me what I should want.

I had no hobbies, no interests, I was a gross kid as most teen boys are, I couldn't see having genuine relationships with girls because everyone had to be someone I was destined to be in some relationship with, etc.

Most teen boys are cringe like that. The Internet just made it a lot worst because instead of other boys and TV it's retarded influencers with podcasts.

The issue is not you, it's normal for a teen girl to be kind of 'boring', to not think about sex 24/7, to want to find genuine affection and so on. It's normal for you to struggle to change yourself to be who you want to be because you're a kid who controls legitimately nothing else in her life; You don't decide where to live or what school you attend or what you eat or what money is spent on.

It gets easier when you get older because you'd have options outside of boys in your school and you could make change you'd want to see.

this is embarrassing but I think this contributes to all of it honestly I was a com girl I was associating with 764 n nlm guys dated a few ended up getting doxed and got swatted everyday for 2 weeks and my pd got tipped and I went under investigation my phone was seized w my iCloud and they found everything and pretty much ruined my chance at continuing irl school I thankfully wasn’t charged bc I snitched on everyone and got labeled as a victim even though I was a horrible person which Im not today I did it all thinking a guy would love me and I ended up getting used but it pretty much made me immune to getting played I’ve never got extorted or cut for a guy but I did force people to do things just so I could get some sort of erep and it was corny

 

[evie]

(I’m not trying anything here)

Ideal for me. I wouldn’t get rid of someone for being like that. I’m kind of the same way.

I didn’t think you were trying anything

 

[i_love_roosters]

Dnr

 

[evie]

Dnr

If u didn’t read there’s no need to post LOL this doesn’t make you look cool

 

[i_love_roosters]

If u didn’t read there’s no need to post LOL this doesn’t make you look cool

I just didn't read, it's not that deep

 

[evie]

I just didn't read, it's not that deep

I never got people who said dnr it it’s not deep you just click off the thread and ignore if you didn’t read

 

[i_love_roosters]

I never got people who said dnr it it’s not deep you just click off the thread and ignore if you didn’t read

Cope

 

[Chifuyu]

I didn’t think you were trying anything

Thanks. I just get a little paranoid.