@candycaro Tbh nowadays men settle for the girls (they aren't ogres) who make the first approach, most of men haven't much options. More & more men are single while women still have an active dating life
That being said, with the sexual liberation & feminism, women work, earn their own money and own stuff, they don't need a provider to "survive" so they look at other men qualities : Looks for ONS & maybe LTR
Yeah they will focus on a man's attractiveness, just look at trends like hookup culture & height inflation.
Most men would tap an LTB but few women would tap an LTN