men only question

[volcel]

Hey guys, I know I've asked something similar in the past but I was wondering a more specific scenario.
If you guys like a girl but you found out she had a lot self inflicted scars later on into getting to know her well, how would you react and what would you think of her afterwards? Also keep in mind these scars are old but still visible since they are raised.

I'm afraid of getting to know a guy and he ends up liking me but runs the other way once he finds out, I could also just not wear long sleeves (I usually just wear jackets since long sleeve shirts look weird on me) because that way it wouldn't be surprising but I feel like that may come off as attention seeking? I'm curious lemme know.

 

[UMTN]

Hey guys, I know I've asked something similar in the past but I was wondering a more specific scenario.
If you guys like a girl but you found out she had a lot self inflicted scars later on into getting to know her well, how would you react and what would you think of her afterwards? Also keep in mind these scars are old but still visible since they are raised.

I'm afraid of getting to know a guy and he ends up liking me but runs the other way once he finds out, I could also just not wear long sleeves (I usually just wear jackets since long sleeve shirts look weird on me) because that way it wouldn't be surprising but I feel like that may come off as attention seeking? I'm curious lemme know.

i dated a girl and i found out and it lowk didn’t effect attraction at all. I just felt bad that she was that sad at some point, and if you meet the right guy he won’t judge u for this i promise

 

[volcel]

i dated a girl and i found out and it lowk didn’t effect attraction at all. I just felt bad that she was that sad at some point, and if you meet the right guy he won’t judge u for this i promise

That definitely eases my worries a lot, thank you so much!

 

[volcel]

i dated a girl and i found out and it lowk didn’t effect attraction at all. I just felt bad that she was that sad at some point, and if you meet the right guy he won’t judge u for this i promise

I know I already responded but funnily enough the guy I like broke/fractured? his wrist but the doctors hadn't realized it till later cuz they were focused on his teeth? and he ended up having to get surgery on it so he's going to have a scar there once he takes his cast off (possibly). me and him might have that in common

 

[UMTN]

I know I already responded but funnily enough the guy I like broke/fractured? his wrist but the doctors hadn't realized it till later cuz they were focused on his teeth? and he ended up having to get surgery on it so he's going to have a scar there once he takes his cast off (possibly). me and him might have that in common

then you’ll be okay i promise bro

 

[disinfecting]

yea it doesnt affect anything much. its not unattractive, its just sad

 

[Currycelloser]

Hey guys, I know I've asked something similar in the past but I was wondering a more specific scenario.
If you guys like a girl but you found out she had a lot self inflicted scars later on into getting to know her well, how would you react and what would you think of her afterwards? Also keep in mind these scars are old but still visible since they are raised.

I'm afraid of getting to know a guy and he ends up liking me but runs the other way once he finds out, I could also just not wear long sleeves (I usually just wear jackets since long sleeve shirts look weird on me) because that way it wouldn't be surprising but I feel like that may come off as attention seeking? I'm curious lemme know.

damn, I mean i would be concerned about it, and if she says thats all in the past, then i wouldnt mind, but like if she still does that then she needs help

 

[volcel]

yea it doesnt affect anything much. its not unattractive, its just sad

sad as in its sad to think she used to do that or you feel bad for currently?

 

[foidslayer]

Hey guys, I know I've asked something similar in the past but I was wondering a more specific scenario.
If you guys like a girl but you found out she had a lot self inflicted scars later on into getting to know her well, how would you react and what would you think of her afterwards? Also keep in mind these scars are old but still visible since they are raised.

I'm afraid of getting to know a guy and he ends up liking me but runs the other way once he finds out, I could also just not wear long sleeves (I usually just wear jackets since long sleeve shirts look weird on me) because that way it wouldn't be surprising but I feel like that may come off as attention seeking? I'm curious lemme know.

its honestly understandable.

as @unknown mtn said you wouldn't get judged for it, you'd be surprised of how gentle men can be actually

 

[disinfecting]

sad as in its sad to think she used to do that or you feel bad for currently?

sad to think that she used to feel so bad with herself that she self inflicted pain

 

[foidslayer]

sad as in its sad to think she used to do that or you feel bad for currently?

you feel bad that she went through sad shit

 

[volcel]

sad to think that she used to feel so bad with herself that she self inflicted pain

you feel bad that she went through sad shit

Ohh! Okay sorry that makes more sense!

 

[volcel]

its honestly understandable.

as @unknown mtn said you wouldn't get judged for it, you'd be surprised of how gentle men can be actually

Okay!! Thank you I think maybe people might joke about things like these but if I'm getting what you're saying right people are more understanding when its in front of them, especially someone they have developed a bond with?

 

[avzrael]

i wouldn't really care

 

[foidslayer]

Okay!! Thank you I think maybe people might joke about things like these but if I'm getting what you're saying right people are more understanding when its in front of them, especially someone they have developed a bond with?

yeah, unless he's just a sociopath he'll feel sad for you that you did that yourself but it won't change his level of attraction towards you