most girls want to get married just for the wedding

[shigeharu]

a lot of girls dream about marriage not for the partnership with their husband or the daily life as a couple , they dream about it for the wedding day and damn near nothing else , they just envision themselves having a princess wedding but don't really visualize the routine as a couple for a supposed lifetime , in contrary the routine is the only thing guys think about when they think about marriage , maybe that's why less of us want to get married

 

[dipenhydramine]

the idea of marriage is so shit

stood up on a stage with all those people watching you n shit I'd only get married if its only me and the person I'm marrying there

 

[Blackpillirony]

a lot of girls dream about marriage not for the partnership with their husband or the daily life as a couple , they dream about it for the wedding day and damn near nothing else , they just envision themselves having a princess wedding but don't really visualize the routine as a couple for a supposed lifetime , in contrary the routine is the only thing guys think about when they think about marriage , maybe that's why less of us want to get married

All they want is the liminal

 

[shigeharu]

the idea of marriage is so shit

stood up on a stage with all those people watching you n shit I'd only get married if its only me and the person I'm marrying there

most marriages are performative anyways , people just grow up with this idea of being married constantly put in their heads so it becomes a subconcious "milestone" even though it's literally meaningless

 

[nikkipsl]

a lot of girls dream about marriage not for the partnership with their husband or the daily life as a couple , they dream about it for the wedding day and damn near nothing else , they just envision themselves having a princess wedding but don't really visualize the routine as a couple for a supposed lifetime , in contrary the routine is the only thing guys think about when they think about marriage , maybe that's why less of us want to get married

i think it's kinda dumb, spending a shit ton of money on one day aswell. and it would never be perfect anyways

 

[splanky]

a lot of girls dream about marriage not for the partnership with their husband or the daily life as a couple , they dream about it for the wedding day and damn near nothing else , they just envision themselves having a princess wedding but don't really visualize the routine as a couple for a supposed lifetime , in contrary the routine is the only thing guys think about when they think about marriage , maybe that's why less of us want to get married

kind of true ngl
i feel like a lot that i value marriage wise would be the wedding itself but also having kids and raising them, regardless of what my husband thinks
like once i have kids i don’t really think id care much for my husband tbh they’d be all i care about

 

[True Spaniard]

Holy take, great retrospection man

 

[shigeharu]

i think it's kinda dumb, spending a shit ton of money on one day aswell. and it would never be perfect anyways

real real real

 

[GermanAngel]

kind of true ngl
i feel like a lot that i value marriage wise would be the wedding itself but also having kids and raising them, regardless of what my husband thinks
like once i have kids i don’t really think id care much for my husband tbh they’d be all i care about

I agree, same as me

 

[</3]

a lot of girls dream about marriage not for the partnership with their husband or the daily life as a couple , they dream about it for the wedding day and damn near nothing else , they just envision themselves having a princess wedding but don't really visualize the routine as a couple for a supposed lifetime , in contrary the routine is the only thing guys think about when they think about marriage , maybe that's why less of us want to get married

no im in it for the divorce settlement

 

[shigeharu]

no im in it for the divorce settlement

lol love the honesty

 

[</3]

lol love the honesty

nothing i say is real btw

 

[shigeharu]

nothing i say is real btw

nope , ive decided to ignore your sarcasm and take your message at face value