Most of my mental problems come from my mother I think

[Deleted Member 78932]

A very difficult woman, basically impossible to not develop psychological problems when spending your whole life with her.

Her constant judgement of every little thing I do or say is probably the reason why I stopped doing everything that could attract attention.

I paid attention to it the last 2 days. Within this timeframe I got judged for:

• The way I pich up Pizza
• The way I clean my fingers
• The way I swipe on my phone
• The way I eat chicken

Keep in mind we only ate together because I try to avoid her as much as possible. So all this happened in about 30min

 

[virgile]

A very difficult woman, basically impossible to not develop psychological problems when spending your whole life with her.

Her constant judgement of every little thing I do or say is probably the reason why I stopped doing everything that could attract attention

brutal family pill , sorry for you

 

[icnone]

My mother is really neurotic. Her anxiety instantly spikes up when I don't pick her calls and she starts playing out all sorts of scenarios in her mind.

 

[Deleted Member 109061]

This is so relatable
My mother has the ability to dictate my mood and how i act even when she isn’t physically there. A slight comment or change in attitude changes everything about my mood and how the rest of my day/ night will go. Its seriously intolerable
After a while i started to notice her different footsteps and breathing patterns that she does when shes about to argue with me, helps me prepare for her lashing out

 

[Deleted Member 78932]

This is so relatable
My mother has the ability to dictate my mood and how i act even when she isn’t physically there. A slight comment or change in attitude changes everything about my mood and how the rest of my day/ night will go. Its seriously intolerable
After a while i started to notice her different footsteps and breathing patterns that she does when shes about to argue with me, helps me prepare for her lashing out

Haha yeah
I try to avoid her as soon as she isn't in a good mood. Sadly I don't really have friends where I could kinda escape to. So I just spend the day in the forest or something.