Most people should have 0 expectations for love

[lutherin]

Relationships will always rely on a power dynamic; either your the “oppressor” or the “oppressed” obviously you can’t be in control all the time so ultimately the relationship ends. Aka long term relationships are a meme. And that’s just relationships, real love is something I doubt I will see

 

[submissivechud]

Relationships will always rely on a power dynamic; either your the “oppressor” or the “oppressed” obviously you can’t be in control all the time so ultimately the relationship ends. Aka long term relationships are a meme. And that’s just relationships, real love is something I doubt I will see

what if I like to be oppressed

 

[Br4va]

No please give me hope

 

[virgile]

Relationships will always rely on a power dynamic; either your the “oppressor” or the “oppressed” obviously you can’t be in control all the time so ultimately the relationship ends. Aka long term relationships are a meme. And that’s just relationships, real love is something I doubt I will see

literally , pretty much no one going forward in this day and age will have lifelong relationship powered by "true love" lol , everything about love and relationships is conditional , everything is fueled by power dynamics , people love to cope and stay blind to that truth tho

 

[lutherin]

what if I like to be oppressed

Halfling but once again it’s not love just a relationship

No please give me hope

Just be the “oppressor”

 

[Br4va]

Halfling but once again it’s not love just a relationship

Just be the “oppressor”

Ok

 

[lutherin]

literally , pretty much no one going forward in this day and age will have lifelong relationship powered by "true love" lol , everything about love and relationships is conditional , everything is fueled by power dynamics , people love to cope and stay blind to that truth tho

Love is real, relationships are shallow

 

[virgile]

Love is real, relationships are shallow

"love" is conditional and contextual , it's a biological phenomenon needed for reproduction

 

[lutherin]

"love" is conditional and contextual , it's a biological phenomenon needed for reproduction

Nerd reaction worthy

 

[virgile]

Nerd reaction worthy

nice rebuttal man

 

[lutherin]

nice rebuttal man

Geniuses couldn’t tell you what love is, what makes you think your “scientific” answer makes sense… guess grasshoppers are ready to write Romeo & Juliet

 

[virgile]

Geniuses couldn’t tell you what love is, what makes you think your “scientific” answer makes sense… guess grasshoppers are ready to write Romeo & Juliet

have you read Romeo and Juliet ? lol Juliet calls Romeo the god of her idolatry she never found anyone as handsome as him , but yeah bro love is this spiritual thing beyond our comprehension it's not explainable

 

[lutherin]

have you read Romeo and Juliet ? lol Juliet calls Romeo the god of her idolatry she never found anyone as handsome as him , but yeah bro love is this spiritual thing beyond our comprehension it's not explainable

Another terrible answer, new custom title: “the best at misunderstanding literature”

 

[virgile]

Another terrible answer, new custom title: “the best at misunderstanding literature”

lol no actual explanation , straight to ad hominem , you're such a genius bro , can you tell me what you think love is I'm actually curious

 

[lutherin]

lol no actual explanation , straight to ad hominem , you're such a genius bro , can you tell me what you think love is I'm actually curious

Why would I know what love is? If geniuses have been unable to, why the fuck would I. Plus impossible to say anything with emotional faggots

 

[lutherin]

lol no actual explanation , straight to ad hominem , you're such a genius bro , can you tell me what you think love is I'm actually curious

Look, love has a related looks component otherwise we would all be in love with insects but you overrate it vastly. Looks isn’t the reason why Juliet kills herself for love

If love is a biological condition then I might as well say art is two scribbles on a piece of paper

 

[virgile]

Why would I know what love is? If geniuses have been unable to, why the fuck would I. Plus impossible to say anything with emotional faggots

you claim for love to be real , yet can't give a personal definition of it ? interesting , and spare me that "geniuses have been unable to" shit what a weak way to cope out , you can still state how YOU feel about it

 

[lutherin]

you claim for love to be real , yet can't give a personal definition of it ? interesting , and spare me that "geniuses have been unable to" shit what a weak way to cope out , you can still state how YOU feel about it

More open mind and less treating this like an argument you have to win and I’ll think about it

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Relationships will always rely on a power dynamic; either your the “oppressor” or the “oppressed” obviously you can’t be in control all the time so ultimately the relationship ends. Aka long term relationships are a meme. And that’s just relationships, real love is something I doubt I will see

I understand why you'd think this, and I'm not saying you're completely wrong, but I'd like to invite you to step out of this mindset as it does not benefit you. Thinking like this will lead you to hurt someone or get hurt inevitably, because you feel like you must opress or as if you are being opressed for it to be a safe relationship, even if short. A healthy relationship doesn't require anyone being opressed, it relies on equality and trust, where one takes control sometimes and is also willing to let their guard down other times depending on situation and personal skillset. Of course I agree that is harder to find in the modern world, but never impossible. Don't give up, you will find your person eventually.

 

[virgile]

More open mind and less treating this like an argument you have to win and I’ll think about it

the reason why I'm asking you how you feel about it is because I'm open minded to your definition lmao

 

[lutherin]

I understand why you'd think this, and I'm not saying you're completely wrong, but I'd like to invite you to step out of this mindset as it does not benefit you. Thinking like this will lead you to hurt someone or get hurt inevitably, because you feel like you must opress or as if you are being opressed for it to be a safe relationship, even if short. A healthy relationship doesn't require anyone being opressed, it relies on equality and trust, where one takes control sometimes and is also willing to let their guard down other times depending on situation and personal skillset. Of course I agree that is harder to find in the modern world, but never impossible. Don't give up, you will find your person eventually.

 

[lutherin]

the reason why I'm asking you how you feel about it is because I'm open minded to your definition lmao

About attraction, I looked at old text messages and an intelligent friend of mine once said and I think this perfectly sums up attraction

‘A butterfly is a tiny animal, yet it’s beautiful, and that makes it noble. Its beauty, however, is short-lived; it dies quickly, and when a butterfly dies, what made it beautiful becomes meaningless. Is a butterfly just an insect, lepidoptera?’