Discussion My former §exfriend re-contacted me and asked why i've chosen my current gf over her

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

For context, i've met my former §exfriend in 2022 in the stuck train. We talked, we laughed together, exchanged numbers and then later went to a date that goes very well.

Weeks later she explained that she wasn't ready for a relationship right now but we can remain §exfriends for the moment. It was my 1st §exfriend. I completlely detached myself from that girl but cannot just sent a message, knock at her door just to smash and go back home. So everytime we met we walked and ate at the park, cuddling at her house, staying the very next morning.

2 months after she admitted to have feelings for me and want to go further, being an exclusive relationship.

I refused and i ended this situationship if i can call that. She took it very badly, being mad at me that i've just used her for my needs etc

So now mid-November 2024 i'm with my current gf and everything goes well. But somehow my SF knows it and sent a message asking me why this girl and not her.

Honestly what can i do ?

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

I think i'm going to tell her the truth and then talking with my gf about it

What the girls of this forum think about that situation ?

@pompompurino @lemonpie @d6rk.knight @choripan @RainbowDash

 

[BodieDysmorphia]

For context, i've met my former §exfriend in 2022 in the stuck train. We talked, we laughed together, exchanged numbers and then later went to a date that goes very well.

Weeks later she explained that she wasn't ready for a relationship right now but we can remain §exfriends for the moment. It was my 1st §exfriend. I completlely detached myself from that girl but cannot just sent a message, knock at her door just to smash and go back home. So everytime we met we walked and ate at the park, cuddling at her house, staying the very next morning.

2 months after she admitted to have feelings for me and want to go further, being an exclusive relationship.

I refused and i ended this situationship if i can call that. She took it very badly, being mad at me that i've just used her for my needs etc

So now mid-November 2024 i'm with my current gf and everything goes well. But somehow my SF knows it and sent a message asking me why this girl and not her.

Honestly what can i do ?

Same thing happened to me but when I wanted to end it with her she went toxic and started telling people I r@ped her. Luckily I was able to get her to say some incriminating shit and screenshotted that to blackmail her and prove my innocence. Now if I ever think about dating any girl, before I even take them out on a date or anything, I imagine the future with them and if its what I want. Now I'm hiding my current gf because my old sex friend stalks all my socials and follows every woman I know. Luckily my blackmail has kept her quiet. She was nuts. I don't recommend dating or hooking up with girls like that.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

I asking the based chadlites too

@Whitepill @Slicer @Clone @neymar @N30N

 

[lemonpie]

just used her for my needs etc

lol what the flip she literally told u to

 

[BodieDysmorphia]

I asking the based chadlites too

@Whitepill @Slicer @Clone @neymar @N30N

wow I see how it is

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Same thing happened to me but when I wanted to end it with her she went toxic and started telling people I r@ped her. Luckily I was able to get her to say some incriminating shit and screenshotted that to blackmail her and prove my innocence. Now if I ever think about dating any girl, before I even take them out on a date or anything, I imagine the future with them and if its what I want. Now I'm hiding my current gf because my old sex friend stalks all my socials and follows every woman I know. Luckily my blackmail has kept her quiet. She was nuts. I don't recommend dating or hooking up with girls like that.

My biggest nightmare fr, could ruin my life forever.

The side effect of having a good dick ig

lol what the flip she literally told u to

IDK if she caught feelings before and tried to hide it, or proposed this situationship just to keep me close while she worked on herself ? idk that's why i ask women too

 

[Whitepill]

go for whichever feels natural, one, the other, or both

 

[N30N]

For context, i've met my former §exfriend in 2022 in the stuck train. We talked, we laughed together, exchanged numbers and then later went to a date that goes very well.

Weeks later she explained that she wasn't ready for a relationship right now but we can remain §exfriends for the moment. It was my 1st §exfriend. I completlely detached myself from that girl but cannot just sent a message, knock at her door just to smash and go back home. So everytime we met we walked and ate at the park, cuddling at her house, staying the very next morning.

2 months after she admitted to have feelings for me and want to go further, being an exclusive relationship.

I refused and i ended this situationship if i can call that. She took it very badly, being mad at me that i've just used her for my needs etc

So now mid-November 2024 i'm with my current gf and everything goes well. But somehow my SF knows it and sent a message asking me why this girl and not her.

Honestly what can i do ?

You've got to just lay it out to her how it is. You are in a relationship, so you have to just say it how it is.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

wow I see how it is

you're based too but the tags are 5 max

 

[lemonpie]

My biggest nightmare fr, could ruin my life forever.

The side effect of having a good dick ig


IDK if she caught feelings before and tried to hide it, or proposed this situationship just to keep me close while she worked on herself ? idk that's why i ask women too

you should stick to your current gf. Ur sex friend is gross for sleeping around when shes not "ready for a relationship" + she had u and lost u. Has no right to be upset when she made it clear she didnt want anything serious.

 

[Clone]

Don't respond at all imo

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

go for whichever feels natural, one, the other, or both

Bruh my close male friends said the same thing. "keep her as a side chick you play with her feelings, you told her you'll break up for her etc"

I'm not gonna do that

 

[Whitepill]

Bruh my close male friends said the same thing. "keep her as a side chick you play with her feelings, you told her you'll break up for her etc"

I'm not gonna do that

mirin slave mindset

 

[lemonpie]

Bruh my close male friends said the same thing. "keep her as a side chick you play with her feelings, you told her you'll break up for her etc"

dont listen to ur friends. Especially not that spanish girl guy. Gross.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

you should stick to your current gf. Ur sex friend is gross for sleeping around when shes not "ready for a relationship" + she had u and lost u. Has no right to be upset when she made it clear she didnt want anything serious.

I think she is just jealous imo, no real feelings ig. She is not in love after 2 years, she probably banged other dudes

Don't respond at all imo

I'm affraid she knows my gf and start lying

 

[Whitepill]

Don't respond at all imo

- slavecuck

 

[lemonpie]

I think she is just jealous imo, no real feelings ig. She is not in love after 2 years

real

she probably banged other dudes

puke

I'm affraid she knows my gf and start lying

write her a message saying that she is just jealous and tell her that she should leave you and ur gf alone. Ur relationship is not her business. If she texts ur gf, you can unblock ur sex friend and show gf the message you sent. If your gf doesnt believe you then, the fault is on her. Trust is important and trusting some random angry girl over your boyfriend is an insult.

 

[RainbowDash]

being mad at me that i've just used her for my needs etc

Holy shit you dodged a bullet.

I would just ignore her.

 

[RainbowDash]

@choripan

Best girl

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

If you are white
Spread your genes
Impregnate multiple woman
If you are ethnic
Just kys asap
Ethnics (sub 6 psl should be eradicated)

 

[Whitepill]

If you are white
Spread your genes
Impregnate multiple woman
If you are ethnic
Just kys asap
Ethnics (sub 6 psl should be eradicated)

Please stop self hating bhai

 

[Velvet Star]

I think i'm going to tell her the truth and then talking with my gf about it

What the girls of this forum think about that situation ?

@pompompurino @lemonpie @d6rk.knight @choripan @RainbowDash

Ughhh why wasnt I tagged???

 

[Velvet Star]

go for whichever feels natural, one, the other, or both

b-b-based?

 

[Whitepill]

b-b-based?

Thank you, kind Asian man

 

[RainbowDash]

Holy shit you dodged a bullet.

I would just ignore her.

@TonyTheLooksmaxxDR don't "hmm" me you're in a relationship the only option you have is to ignore her.

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

Please stop self hating bhai

Rep farm bhai

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

@Velvet Star I guess you are Asian

 

[choripan]

Be honest but not cruel

 

[Whitepill]

Rep farm bhai

Not repfarming I’m serious.

 

[choripan]

Best girl

?

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

Not repfarming I’m serious.

Sorry bhai
But you don't know how narcy average indian is becoming day by day
@Preston_Real can confirm..

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Holy shit you dodged a bullet.

I would just ignore her.

real

puke

write her a message saying that she is just jealous and tell her that she should leave you and ur gf alone. Ur relationship is not her business. If she texts ur gf, you can unblock ur sex friend and show gf the message you sent. If your gf doesnt believe you then, the fault is on her. Trust is important and trusting some random angry girl over your boyfriend is an insult.

ok update i showed the message to my gf and explained the situation, the background, and she knows that girl, they know each other but she can't stand her, she told me she has some issues. BUT my gf was aware that she cried over a dude for a long time but didn't know it was me. I told my gf that i hope she didn't to sabotage our relationship with lies or bullshit. I told her all the story in details

@TonyTheLooksmaxxDR don't "hmm" me you're in a relationship the only option you have is to ignore her.

Can't i be honest with this woman, explaining to her why i refused to be exclusive with her ? Or it makes things worse ? I promise i don't hmm you again sergeant

Ughhh why wasnt I tagged???

women and based chadlites only (@BodieDysmorphia included)

 

[N30N]

If you are white
Spread your genes
Impregnate multiple woman
If you are ethnic
Just kys asap
Ethnics (sub 6 psl should be eradicated)

You tell em Bruce!

 

[Slicer]

Don't respond at all imo

I agree with Clone, you don't owe this girl any answer whatsoever

 

[RainbowDash]

Can't i be honest with this woman, explaining to her why i refused to be exclusive with her ? Or it makes things worse ? I promise i don't hmm you again sergeant

All up to you, you're not obligated to explain anything to her tho.

But the fact that you two stopped fucking years now ,yet she's still hang up on you makes me that feel that the whole convo will end up being a massive headache for you.

Me personally I would avoid.

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

You tell em Bruce!

No body listens to me
I have already accepted that my SMV will never increase until i larp as another race
It's brutal even here(in India) foids get disgusted by dark htns phenopill is greater than anything

 

[N30N]

No body listens to me
I have already accepted that my SMV will never increase until i larp as another race
It's brutal even here(in India) foids get disgusted by dark htns phenopill is greater than anything

Darkness is death. Sorry boyo.

 

[lemonpie]

ok update i showed the message to my gf and explained the situation, the background, and she knows that girl, they know each other but she can't stand her, she told me she has some issues. BUT my gf was aware that she cried over a dude for a long time but didn't know it was me. I told my gf that i hope she didn't to sabotage our relationship with lies or bullshit. I told her all the story in details

awesome decision. God bless your relationship and may it prosper.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

All up to you, you're not obligated to explain anything to her tho.

But the fact that you two stopped fucking years now ,yet she's still hang up on you makes me that feel that the whole convo will end up being a massive headache for you.

Me personally I would avoid.

Gf told me the same, so idk.

the problem is that she will probably start beef with my gf

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

awesome decision. God bless your relationship and may it prosper.

Gf was a bit insecure after i explained everything, but i've reassured her about my feelings for her.

Thanks @lemonpie

 

[RainbowDash]

Gf told me the same, so idk.

the problem is that she will probably start beef with my gf

If she's that crazy having a convo with her won't change much

I mean we are talking about a woman that immediately victimised herself after getting rejected.. Don't entertain her ass.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

If she's that crazy having a convo with her won't change much

I mean we are talking about a woman that immediately victimised herself after getting rejected.. Don't entertain her ass.

idk she never seemed crazy, at least with me. She never stalked me or harassed me after that "break-up". Gf told me she looked like really heartbroken to fumble the relationship so idk... and gf told me she has abandonment issues etc. Gf was a bit jealous & insecure about that story, i hope she don't start beef with each other

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

Darkness is death. Sorry boyo.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Darkness is death. Sorry boyo.

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Ask the BBC enjoyers

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

Ask the BBC enjoyers

White women belong to the BBCs

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

White women belong to the BBCs

@BRUCEWAYNE78 is cuckholdmaxxing to get married

 

[N30N]

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Over for me.

 

[BRUCEWAYNE78]

@BRUCEWAYNE78 is cuckholdmaxxing to get married

 

[Whitepill]

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bhai u want an invite to a .com/.org discord server? ill pm u