my life would have been so different if i was outgoing since childhood

[arya]

i dont know if its genetics

 

[necrotic]

i dont know if its genetics

It’s more of a socialization and about how you were raised. Unless you’re neurodivergent.

 

[arya]

It’s more of a socialization and about how you were raised. Unless you’re neurodivergent.

but i have been like shy since i was a kid, earliest memory i have of being like 6/7

i dont know about before that

 

[1894]

Yah socializing while growing up is crucial to develop good communication skills

 

[arya]

Yah socializing while growing up is crucial to develop good communication skills

i did have friends but i couldnt speak, only if they were close with me

now even academically alot of extracurriculars were affected because of it

 

[1894]

i did have friends but i couldnt speak, only if they were close with me

now even academically alot of extracurriculars were affected because of it

Exposure treatment

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

But Everyone was outgoing when they were a kid

 

[arya]

But Everyone was outgoing when they were a kid

I wasnt at all
i mean i am only speaking since i was 6-7 idk about before that

 

[Nenestar]

i peaked in kindergarten

 

[arya]

i peaked in kindergarten

i did in 9th grade
hopefully college is better

 

[Nenestar]

i did in 9th grade
hopefully college is better

just hope you get a good group in the orientation (or w/e you have there). in my group everyone was super NT and extrovert maxxed, so it was over

unless you're decently outgoing i guess you can try to be the one who makes the friend groups

 

[arya]

just hope you get a good group in the orientation (or w/e you have there). in my group everyone was super NT and extrovert maxxed, so it was over

unless you're decently outgoing i guess you can try to be the one who makes the friends groups

i have never made a friendgroup tbh, my experience ive always just befriended one girl and be really close then she added me

thats why i hope i get someone like that there id be fine

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

I wasnt at all
i mean i am only speaking since i was 6-7 idk about before that

What?? How

How did you not speak before

 

[arya]

What?? How

How did you not speak before

i dont know, if someone asked me something i barely replied i mean and in groups i dint even speak just listened

i think i was fine when i was 5

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

i dont know, if someone asked me something i barely replied i mean and in groups i dint even speak just listened

i think i was fine when i was 5

Yea over for u

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

i dont know, if someone asked me something i barely replied i mean and in groups i dint even speak just listened

i think i was fine when i was 5

You

 

[arya]

Yea over for u

You

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[Chainsandwhips2]

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[arya]

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[arya]

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[Chainsandwhips2]

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[arya]

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[Chainsandwhips2]

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